At this year's CCTV May Fourth Youth Day gala, Zhao Liying wore an improved version of the cheongsam and sang.
She looked very refreshed, and it was completely impossible to see that she was a woman who had been married and had children.
It can be said that the 35-year-old Zhao Liying has shed her former youth, and now she has added a little gentleness and generosity.
Zhao Liying's change seems to have become more obvious after the divorce.
In the only one year of divorce, Zhao Liying is still a top flower,
And the temperament of the whole person has been greatly improved, and the state is also full of points.
However, this is not just a change brought by a marriage to Zhao Liying.
Some people say that the recent situation of Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng today is the difference between cloud and mud.
In fact, all this had a premonition before they divorced, and even before they got married.
So what did they all gain and what did they lose in this marriage?
Why is there so much difference in their development and state now?
1 different starting line
Feng Shaofeng's parents are both cultural people, and his family conditions are also very good.
And because Feng Shaofeng's parents are very fond of literature and art, they are infected by their parents.
Feng Shaofeng has been studying art-related courses since childhood.
It is precisely because of this that Feng Shaofeng has always had a dream of being an actor,
Before the college entrance examination, he successfully passed the three professional examinations of the drama.
He was admitted to the theater just by virtue of his excellent examination results, and became a professional actor after graduation.
Unlike Feng Shaofeng, Zhao Liying's acting path can be described as a twist and turn.
Zhao Liying was born in rural Hebei and grew up living with her grandparents in the countryside.
Many people have said that Zhao Liying is one of the grassroots representatives of the film and television circle.
When she was young, in addition to going to school, Zhao Liying would follow her family to work in the fields.
A long time later, when Zhao Liying was interviewed, she also said:
"When I was a child, my favorite thing was to go to the field with my grandfather to pick cotton, and I would also go to the river to touch shrimp and catch fish."
Limited by living and learning conditions, Zhao Liying graduated from junior high school.
Entered the Electronic Information Engineering School in Langfang to study flight attendants.
Originally wanted to rely on this secondary school diploma, after graduation to find a company as a flight attendant,
But I didn't expect that the job of finding a flight attendant would cost tens of thousands of yuan.
In desperation, Zhao Liying can only choose to give up being a flight attendant,
Turned around and threw himself into the vast sea of people and began a part-time life.
During that time, Zhao Liying did a lot of work, she worked as a cashier in the supermarket,
I also served plates in the restaurant, after all, these jobs do not require high education,
As long as she is willing to suffer, she can still save some money.
For a while, Zhao Liying learned that there is a basic salary for sales, as well as a commission,
He went to a company that made anti-corrosion materials for pipes and became a sales assistant.
Zhao Liying originally thought that the days would be spent slowly like this,
But at this time, she ushered in a turning point in her life.
At that time, there was a TV station that held a draft competition.
Zhao Liying's colleagues at the time thought she was good-looking and recommended her to compete.
Zhao Liying felt that this would not delay the work, so it was better to try it.
It is estimated that she did not expect that she could go to the end and become a champion.
One of the judges who happened to be in that draft was Feng Xiaogang, who naturally also took a fancy to Zhao Liying's talent.
So after the game, Zhao Liying was invited to shoot an advertisement.
At this time, Zhao Liying was crowned with the title of "Feng Girl".
In an advertisement called "Kneeling Family", Zhao Liying paints exquisite makeup,
Officially debuted as a heroine, but unfortunately,
The advertisement is not a film and television drama, and it has not attracted the attention of the audience after all.
Soon after, Zhao Liying filmed a commercial film for Olay Oil,
However, this time the protagonist is the big star Zhou Xun, who is an unknown newcomer, and naturally she has been ignored.
Compared with Zhao Liying, Feng Shaofeng's starting point in the entertainment industry is still very high.
He can be said to have just graduated from the male protagonist, although it is not a hit,
But the career path has also been steadily climbing, and soon accumulated a part of the fans.
In 2008, Zhao Liying, who was still a background board in various TV series, intersected with Feng Shaofeng for the first time.
In the TV series "Husband and Wife", Feng Shaofeng played the male lead,
And Huo Siyan played a couple, while Zhao Liying only had a few scenes in the play.
It is estimated that when filming this drama, Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying actually failed to say a few words.
It is even more difficult to say that they will have a relationship with each other in the future.
At that time, Zhao Liying knew that she was not from a science class and wanted to gain a firm foothold in the entertainment industry.
You have to keep brushing your face in various dramas, so no matter what the role,
Zhao Liying almost did not refuse, and various dragon set roles were played by her over and over again.
Many people may not have found that in popular dramas such as "Golden Wedding" and "Good Period Like a Dream",
In fact, there was a figure of Zhao Liying, but at that time she was not famous.
From the moment she stepped into the show business circle, Zhao Liying spent a full 5 years,
Detached from the role of the dragon set, she began to have a position and began to be recognized by the audience.
Gradually, Zhao Liying has her own fan base,
Her good looks have also attracted the attention of the majority of directors and producers.
At this time, Zhao Liying, who has experienced many years of tempering, has also made great progress in acting skills.
Everything is ready, only the East Wind is owed, zhao Liying is waiting for an opportunity that can make her popular.
In 2011, Feng Shaofeng ushered in the peak of his career.
After the broadcast of "Gong Suo Xin Yu" starring him and Yang Mi, it immediately became popular.
At the same time, there was also a scandal between Feng Shaofeng and Yang Mi.
Although they neither clarified nor admitted, many have acquiesced to the romance between the two.
So, later, when Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei were happily married,
Feng Shaofeng also helplessly received a condolence call from many people.
However, in fact, such a "gossip" is just an entertainer,
The only way to become popular in the entertainment industry is just that.
2 different love choices
Just when Feng Shaofeng was on fire because of "Palace Lock Heart Jade",
Zhao Liying also finally ushered in a rare good resource, that is, "New Zhu Gege".
At that time, as a popular remake, "New Returning Pearls" attracted much attention.
And Zhao Liying starred in the "Qing'er" who was very pleasing to the people.
In the play, her appearance is bright and cute, and she has a little perseverance in her gentleness,
She quickly captured a large number of fans, and she opened up her popularity.
You know, before that, Zhao Liying has been often rejected by the director because she is a round face.
Because at that time, the public's aesthetic still stayed on the thin melon face.
After starring in "Qing'er", Zhao Liying's resources are getting better and better.
The following year, she starred in the series "Palace Lock Bead Curtain" of "Palace Lock Heart Jade",
I don't know, this is not a special fate between her and Feng Shaofeng.
In 2013, "The Legend of Lu Zhen" made Zhao Liying a real heroine.
For this drama, Zhao Liying spent a lot of thought,
Almost every day, I study the role with the script, just to shape this big heroine.
Kung Fu pays off, and Zhao Liying's efforts have been rewarded.
The reputation and ratings of this drama are quite impressive, and she has begun to rank among the first-line flowers.
Here Zhao Liying is busy with her career, but on the other side, Feng Shaofeng is busy in love.
After Feng Shaofeng's scandal with Yang Mi came to an end, he met Ni Ni, a girl.
This time, Feng Shaofeng and Ni Ni were in love with each other, and the two quickly came together.
After falling in love, the two did not hide it, but a generous date,
I am not afraid of the media paparazzi to shoot, it seems to be rushing to get married.
But after a while, suddenly the media broke the news that Feng Shaofeng and Lin Yun were out together.
It seems to directly prove that Feng Shaofeng has broken up with Ni Ni.
In the media reports, Feng Shaofeng's girlfriend changed one after another,
He has also become the focus of public opinion, and many people say that he is not doing the right thing.
The drama is not less filmed, but the acting skills have not improved, and the "bad drama" is always filmed.
However, Feng Shaofeng has nothing to explain, after all, he is in the entertainment industry.
Who has not been chewed a few words of tongue root, he still chooses to film while falling in love.
While Feng Shaofeng was criticized by public opinion, Zhao Liying was not well.
People are not red, although she has become red with her own efforts,
But with that comes all sorts of derogatory sarcasm.
Some people took advantage of the fact that she was not from a science class to violently attack her acting skills.
But Zhao Liying has come all the way, and she has seen all the warmth and coldness of human feelings.
She knew that instead of refuting and clarifying, she would try her best to make a good scene to prove herself.
So Zhao Liying successively took over dramas such as "Shanshan Is Coming", "Flowers and Bones", and "Xue Xian".
And every one of her is a heroine, and every one of them is a blockbuster drama.
With the efforts of Zhao Liying, she set up her own film and television studio.
It also has a large number of fans and has become one of the "four little flowers" in the entertainment industry.
In those years, Zhao Liying's film contract has never been broken, it seems that she has no time to rest.
Instead, she was constantly filming, and she was also given the title of "Desperate Three Ladies".
At this time, Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng's career planning has obvious differences.
Their popularity in the entertainment industry has also been very different.
However, at this time, the two people who originally seemed to have no intersection met because of filming.
In 2016, when filming the movie "Journey to the West: Daughter Country",
Tang Sanzang, played by Feng Shaofeng, and the daughter king of the country played by Zhao Liying looked at each other with deep affection.
Outside the play, the two also developed a good feeling for each other, although they were only called friends.
But in the heart, there are wisps of emotion.
According to the staff of the crew at that time, Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying often chatted and joked together on the set.
It's not like the first cooperation at all, but there is some meaning of seeing each other and hating late.
But just when most people thought that Feng Shaofeng would inevitably be with Zhao Liying,
However, he was rumored to have a scandal because he and Guo Biting co-filmed "That Starry Sky and That Sea".
More media photographed that Feng Shaofeng spent three days and three nights with Guo Biting during the Spring Festival.
However, the two did not respond to this, perhaps at that time Feng Shaofeng and Guo Biting,
It's just because the filming is more familiar, not because they love each other.
After all, the scandal between the two soon dissipated over time.
3 Different careers
In April 2017, Feng Shaofeng and Guo Biting's scandal,
After he was photographed walking with Zhao Liying, he disappeared without a trace.
At that time, Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng were photographed more than once wearing couple costumes.
They also go out to eat together, and when they get along, they look like ordinary couples.
However, even with these things as evidence, the two still bite to death just friends.
Soon after, "Do you know if it should be green fat red skinny" started,
Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng entered the same crew again.
This time, the two went from love to marriage, and even had children in the play.
Over time, the relationship between the two gradually warmed up.
They are often photographed eating together and traveling together, but here they go,
Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying still don't admit that they are in love,
Maybe at that time, the two were really only ambiguous, and did not break through the precarious window paper.
After all, Zhu Yilong, who played the male second grandfather in the play, after filming the whole drama with them,
I don't know about the fact that the two are in love.
2018 was busy for Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng.
After the broadcast of "Know It or Not", Zhao Liying's popularity has gone to a higher level,
And Feng Shaofeng was rare and had a big fire.
The two were busy catching up on announcements, busy filming, and of course, busy dating.
In short, these two people became regulars in various front-page headlines during that time.
On the day of Zhao Liying's 30th birthday,
Feng Shaofeng also traveled thousands of miles to zhao Liying's city to celebrate her birthday.
However, as a result, soon after, Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng expressed dissatisfaction with the media's "love news".
Maybe it's for the career, maybe it's for life,
Until October 2018, Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng suddenly announced their marriage,
The melon-eating masses were caught off guard, and people did not understand what the two of them did not admit to in the first place.
The day the two married was Zhao Liying's 31st birthday, and the two held a red and festive marriage certificate.
The smile is sunny, but they don't know compared to the blessing,
More people are complaining about why they have been hiding their relationship.
But perhaps Feng Shaofeng himself did not know why he would get married.
At the age of 40, he experienced several relationships, but finally entered the marriage hall with Zhao Liying in a hurry.
As he said in an interview on Life In Adventures:
"I don't know if she married me because she wanted to get married or if she married me because she loved me?"
But no matter what the reason, the two are married after all.
They are not swayed by public opinion, after all, fans and friends are full of blessings.
However, soon some media found that Zhao Liying's abdomen was slightly raised,
The news of the two "marrying their sons" also went away.
In the face of the news of pregnancy, Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng took measures when they were in love.
That is, they did not admit it, but it was not long before they were forced to disclose the news of having a child.
It turned out that after 5 months of marriage, Zhao Liying successfully gave birth to a son.
The husband and wife did not want to make this matter public, but the rumors on the Internet about Zhao Liying's birth have not been broken.
After debunking the rumors one by one, Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng finally announced the news of having a son on time.
At this point, all kinds of netizens have a worse impression of the newlywed Yan'er couple.
Because this is the second time they have deliberately concealed the facts, and they do not know what is the benefit of such concealment.
But just like when you face gossip after marriage,
Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying chose to deal with the rumors of having a child coldly.
They did not respond to this matter, Zhao Liying sat at home in confinement,
And Feng Shaofeng just took this opportunity to shoot a variety show.
Shortly after the birth of the child, Feng Shaofeng also recorded the variety show "Happy Base Camp".
He also asked Xie Na to "ask for a gift", saying that it was agreed before his son was born.
During the time when Zhao Liying was at ease, Feng Shaofeng worked outside alone.
But he always seems to be inseparable from Zhao Liying's related topics,
This also makes many people think that he is a good man who loves his wife and loves his son.
Once Feng Shaofeng inadvertently said his son's nickname,
He was very panicked in an instant, and he was embarrassed to say that he would call Zhao Liying in a moment.
Ask if saying your son's nickname will have a bad impact,
It looks like a "rake ear", which also makes people feel that their little two mouths are very happy.
Perhaps public opinion has brought Feng Shaofeng a lot of pressure, he said in an interview:
When filming, the mood changed a lot, and I came home and cried a lot.
However, Zhao Liying did not persuade him, but let him vent to see his son.
It can be seen that Zhao Liying's personality is more calm and calm, and the couple can also be regarded as complementary.
After the body conditioning, Zhao Liying did not go around interviewing like Feng Shaofeng.
She immediately signed Li Bingbing's brokerage company and funded to sit in the position of partner.
Then Zhao Liying did not hesitate to start filming in the group, and the title of "Desperate Three Ladies" was unyielding.
Zhao Liying once said such a sentence in the "Starry Sky Speech":
"Don't let me take my chance, I'll try to catch it whenever I have it."
Perhaps for her, getting married and having children has hindered the pace of career progress,
Now she's done this life event.
Then you must seize the opportunity to get your career back on track.
At this time, although Feng Shaofeng has a scene to shoot, compared with Zhao Liying, his popularity is still very low.
The resources that can be accessed are also average, and even after the success of "Know It or Not", he has not played male number one for a long time.
At this point, the gap between the husband and wife has further widened,
This also laid the foundation for the huge gap between the two after the divorce.
4 Different future lives
In 2019, Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying are busy filming,
Although they look like there is a gap in the coffee slots.
It was at this time that the happy couple design carefully maintained by the two was questioned.
Feng Shaofeng was exposed by the media that he had inexplicable feelings with a female Internet celebrity.
However, it was quickly denied by Feng Shaofeng, but the media did not seem to be ready to let him go.
Various scandals arrived as scheduled, and there were also voices saying that Feng Shaofeng had married Zhao Liying.
To this end, Feng Shaofeng also went to court with a media outlet for rumors about his divorce.
As a result, just one month after his lawsuit, on April 23, 2021,
Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying's studio accounts released news separately, officially announced divorce, and peacefully broke up.
Just like when they got married, everything was caught off guard.
They left only a short line: "The days are long, the past is good, may the future be better." ”
Because Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng divorced by agreement, the custody of the children did not argue too much.
It is said that the child was eventually raised by Feng Shaofeng, and Zhao Liying did not say much.
Soon Zhao Liying returned to the front line of work, and she was even more serious than before marriage.
In fact, Zhao Liying is not sad about the divorce,
But because she's sober enough to know that love isn't the whole story of life, as she said:
"In love, don't be too attached to either party, and be able to think about your own life independently."
After that, Zhao Liying really changed a lot, and most of the dramas she took on before marriage were idol dramas.
But after marriage, she seems to have completely changed the path of the play, and she is no longer the role of those young girls.
But some deep characters, she also does not hesitate to "play ugly" just to create a good character image.
So we can see the mature performance of Zhao Liying in "Ideal Illuminated Work" and "Who is the Murderer".
In addition to filming, Zhao Liying's business resources are also many,
She not only took over many advertisements, but was also often invited to the CCTV stage.
It seems that after marriage, Zhao Liying's career has entered a new peak.
On the other hand, Feng Shaofeng's career seems to be somewhat sluggish,
He has released many film and television works this year, but they have undoubtedly not set off any waves.
In the TV series "Heart Residence", the role played by Feng Shaofeng has a very low sense of existence,
He looked much older, appeared to be unenergetic, and tired.
And the movie "Blue Face Shura", which has just landed online recently, has also received a flat response.
Feng Shaofeng's heat has not yet been "AI face-changing" Xu Qinggao.
After the divorce, Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying embarked on different development paths.
The marriage between the two looks like a dream of Nanke to outsiders.
Although the situation between the two is very different now, it is not because of this marriage.
After all, before getting married, the two had very different attitudes towards their careers.
Feng Shaofeng's own traffic and popularity are not very high in themselves,
If you want to catch fire, you still have to rely on the drama and the characters.
In fact, his acting skills are not bad, but he rarely receives a big drama like "Know It or Not".
After the divorce, Feng Shaofeng can contact fewer good resources,
And as he gets older, the roles he can play are also greatly limited.
Compared with Feng Shaofeng, whether before or after marriage,
Zhao Liying seemed to know exactly what kind of road she was going to take.
She has been trying to take over the role, and does not want to act in idol drama all the time.
Instead, it is gradually transitioning to the powerful faction, and it is developing better and better.
It can only be said that after the divorce, the gap between Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng has widened a lot, but I believe that this does not prove anything.
Perhaps, as they said when they officially announced their divorce: "May the future be better." ”
And they're really trying to be better at themselves now.
Although the two have never intersected again after their divorce,
But perhaps in places where the public can't see them, they will also have some connection for the sake of children.
After all, it is a peaceful breakup, and it will not be old and dead, the days are very long, and everything is not yet known.
Perhaps clarifying their hearts and being good at themselves is their best choice.