To My Dearest Baby:
Congratulations, today is the day of your full moon, the 30th day of your intersection with the world, and the day when your mother is out of the customs, we are all hard
Looking back on the two hundred days from pregnancy to now, it feels like a dream, after six years, I am a mother again, thank you for appearing, my baby.
You are the hope that your parents are looking forward to, the baby that your parents miss day and night, and you, too, pick your mother in the clouds, thank you, you picked me, my angel baby.
Pregestational period ~ suffering from morning sickness
Knowing that when you appeared, it was still quite surprising and unexpected, mainly because I had no intention of being a mother, or even a second child, I didn't want to have a baby. But you, suddenly, appeared and broke my previous peaceful life. Knowing that there is you, the people around me are happy for me, how good the two children are, and I will have a companion in the future. And I, although I was surprised and unexpected, never thought of giving up on you, because you are also a life, regardless of men and women, I want you to be born safely, and I have also begun the journey of obstetric examination
In the first trimester, it was really too uncomfortable, because of morning sickness, I could hardly eat, even boiled water, I couldn't drink. Just in time for the New Year, go to grandma's house, your grandma is afraid that I eat less, what is delicious to do every day, and I, almost can't eat a bite, steamed bread at most eat one bite, vegetables, at most eat two bites. You can't take a bite of meat, and you can't see it. Even boiled water, can not drink, just drink a little, immediately spit out. You can also drink some porridge. Your grandmother still said: At the New Year, you can eat a steamed steamed steamed I said, "Yes, they all blame me." I can't help it. Ha ha
After vomiting for almost four months, I was only slightly better. In those days, it was really unbearable. Sometimes, just take a bite, before swallowing, before even before going to the bathroom, I throw up. I can't drink water, so I drink some black tea, and it's slightly better, not so uncomfortable. Your father is distressed, and he can't replace me, he is in a hurry, and he also tries to find a way to let me eat every day. Sour I can't eat, only spicy, like chili, minced meat, can eat into it, your father is also happy to say, eighty percent is a girl. I said well⊙∀⊙, you don't have that life. As a result, he really didn't have the life of a lover. Ha ha
Second trimester to urticaria allergy
Day by day, I take you, you still have to go to work, you only have to work in the few hours of work, honestly, you may know that your mother earned you milk powder money. I took you like that and went to work for nearly seven and a half months. One day, on the way home from sending your brother to school, I suddenly felt very itchy all over my body, and when I came home, I saw that there were a lot of large pieces of wood bumps, and the itch was very uncomfortable. Call, call your dad back, go to the hospital, check it out, it's hives allergy. I have never had any history of allergies before, and the doctor said that it was because of pregnancy, and the body's hormone secretion was disordered, resulting in it. "Hospitalize, you need to drip" The examination was completed, and then arranged for hospitalization, that's all, I stayed in the hospital for three days, every day injections, your father applied for a companion certificate, accompanied me in the hospital. The allergen was found out, saying that it was ragweed allergy, and it had nothing to do with diet, so after I was discharged from the hospital and went home. Sent a circle of friends, your aunt and grandmother frightened, wondering what is wrong with me, and then the phone called, I said it's okay, allergies, hospitalization on the line, three days, very soon. And those friends who saw my circle of friends ⭕, one by one privately chatted with me, asked me, I said I was allergic. I am very grateful to those who have always been around and cared for ❤, there are not many words, and I can give you care and greetings at any time.
In the third trimester of pregnancy, I look forward to your coming out soon
Time passed little by little, from 1 week, 7 weeks, slowly to more than 30 weeks, the third trimester, that is really tired. Not only is the body tired, but also the heart is tired, I hope you come out quickly, I don't know how many times a night to go to the toilet, I want to live in it. Sleep, that is more painful, the left side will sleep, and then the right side will sleep, I am afraid of pressing you, and you, at night, the excitement is not good, kicking my ribs hurts. Sometimes I can't breathe, and I have to breathe with my mouth. Get up to the toilet, sometimes, need your dad to help me, alone, really a little bit unable to get up. Sometimes, I have insomnia at night, I can't sleep at all, I just want to sleep, I have to get up again and go to the toilet. You say, is it easy for moms?
Hehe, every time I have a maternity check-up, your father is with me, and he has not left a single one. Your dad said, don't want to miss any time that can accompany you, because you brother, we all missed too much. When you grow up in the future, you want to buy delicious food for your dad! ^O^
Obstetric examinations in the third trimester are sometimes not very smooth. Moderate anemia, need to take medicine every day. Because fetal heart rate monitoring was not passed, once, I did it for a day. Just go in, you are motionless, as soon as you come out, you are kicking and kicking. No way, but it has to be redone. I took oxygen again, walked around again, and only then did I pass. In the third trimester, I am afraid that you are not enough amniotic fluid, afraid that you lack oxygen, worry about no, every day is in worry, there is a check, said you are a week younger, I still think, that is very good, at least, good life. As a result, when you were born, you weighed seven pounds, almost cost me half a life, for me, even the doctor said, your weight of 107 pounds, it is not easy to produce such a big child, and if you are older, you have to use the knife.
Later every day, everyone in the family is afraid of no, the mobile phone is 24 hours on, I am afraid of a phone call, your aunt is also very busy every day, study is also very tired, that will also take time to ask me how, there is no reaction, how to eat, more exercise and so on. You see, everyone is looking forward to your arrival, how happy you are!
Looking back at the day of production, it is vividly remembered
Sometimes, it feels like we both have a spirit in our hearts. I pray in my heart that I hope you will come out during the seven-day holiday of 10.1, because your brother doesn't have to go to school and your dad doesn't have to go to work. As a result, you were really born on 10.1. Haha, mom's prediction is really accurate
On 10.1, we went to Grandma's house. In the morning, I happily followed your father to the market, bought a lot of delicious food, and at noon your grandmother said that she was eating hot pot, and we ate hot pot. Your dad also told me at that time, it's really not ok, you come out today, 10.2 is also very good, we are both married on the sixth anniversary. I said, I said it doesn't matter, he is willing to come out which day. Your father also asked me to walk around more, maybe I can give birth today. This mouth ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
After eating, we went home around two o'clock in the afternoon, and I hurried to take a shower and think about sleeping. Your dad changed the water for the fish tank. By about four o'clock, something wasn't quite right, and the number of times I went to the toilet was a bit much. I told your dad, and when your dad heard it, he was in a hurry, and then he drove to the hospital. The production of things are prepared in advance, already put on the car, just waiting for you to start.
At about half past five, we set off from home, and your father's roasted sweet potatoes had not yet come and eaten, so he went to the hospital in a hurry. When I arrived at the doctor's examination, I opened nearly 3 bone seams. Hospitalize, you may be born tonight. That's what the doctor said. I said I didn't try to hurt. The doctor said that everyone's pain is different and you have to be hospitalized.
I went to the nurse's station to check in, made various inquiries, and followed me into the delivery room. When I went in, there was a raw one inside, and I tilted my head to watch someone else have a baby
I heard her crying and shouting, "I don't want it, I don't give birth anymore." The midwife nurse and doctor patiently enlightened her. The second child itself gave birth quickly, and before I could react much, you were born. A question, boy, seven pounds, 53 cm long. At that moment, I felt that it was not easy to finally meet.
Because the labor process was too fast, I had a second-degree laceration on my lower body, and my eyes were full of red blood. After giving birth to you, then arrange the stitching. It took almost half an hour, and after all the pain, I saw you, white and quiet, like a little girl. That's the meeting I've been waiting for for a long time, and finally I've waited for you, my baby.
Back in the ward at night, it was almost 11 o'clock, I was hungry and had no strength, to be honest, at that time, I couldn't eat, and your dad and your grandma were taking care of the two of us in the ward. That night, I hardly slept all night.
Because of you, after giving birth, I experienced walking like a penguin, needing support, drinking water and eating needs your dad to feed to the mouth, eating more than 10 days of liquid food, injections to the toilet, and also need your dad to accompany. At that time, I felt so helpless, I was such an adult, I couldn't do anything. However, your safe and healthy birth, and we meet as promised, is my greatest happiness and effort.
Your dad has paid no less than I did. Every obstetric examination, did not fall once, every day after work to find a way to make a good meal, let me eat a little more, anxious waiting outside the delivery room, in the hospital every day, upstairs and downstairs running, not to sign, or the doctor to ask, hold you bathing and injections, all kinds of busy, people also lost a lot of weight. You see, your coming is how hard we worked so hard, and there is nothing but love for you ❤.
Back home, your grandma and your dad did their best to take care of us both, when in the hospital, I thought your dad was super handsome, at that time, super patient with me and you, holding you and drinking milk, it was not good for me. So, I don't have any complaints, everything is worth it.
Hehe, maybe your mother wrote these, you still can't understand, I hope that when you grow up, when you look at your mother's circle of friends ⭕, when you have your own home in the future, you can understand that it is so easy to be a mother.
The future is still beautiful, I hope that you and your brother will meet good people in their lives, and my father and I will redouble our efforts to do our best to give you the best love!