Girlfriends work in the community, are a grid member, and overtime is the norm. Since her three-year-old daughter Xinyue ended her maternity leave, it was her in-laws who helped take care of her. Three-year-old Xiao Xinyue went to kindergarten, and the family thought they could breathe a sigh of relief. Unexpectedly, the kindergarten teacher chatted privately with his girlfriend at both ends for three days, talking about his daughter Xinyue's bad performance in kindergarten.
The girlfriend said that the kindergarten teacher always knocked on the side to hint at her, asking her to take her daughter Xinyue to the hospital for examination, suspecting Xinyue's tendency to have ADHD, because Xinyue always ran around in kindergarten and could not calm down.
At first, the girlfriend felt that the child loved to move, and then said that it was the nature of the child to be active, indicating that the child was energetic, so from the beginning, the girlfriend did not put too much attention to the heart.
Unexpectedly, after Xinyue entered the kindergarten, this performance was even more obvious, so that the kindergarten teachers could not control Xinyue and frequently chatted with parents privately.
Girlfriend's daughter Xinyue is a lively and active little girl, very cute, grew up watching her grow up, she and my children are similar in age, the two people often play together, every time Xinyue comes to our house to play, she can't sit still, one will jump around on the sofa, one will run around in the house.
What impressed me the most was that every time Xinyue came to our house, I could always turn over our picture books and various toys at home, like a bear breaking a stick, take one and throw one, and almost never quiet down to play with something. In the end, the girlfriend still plucked up the courage and took her daughter Xinyue to our children's hospital here, which made the girlfriend breathe a sigh of relief, Xinyue is not ADHD, and the pediatrician recommends taking Xinyue for concentration training after returning home.
The girlfriend and the family discussed that educating the child is a big thing, the critical period of the child's growth is just a few years, and now the daughter needs her. She is usually too busy at work to take care of the children. So she quit her job and became a stay-at-home mom.
After the girlfriend picked up the child from school, she began to concentrate on training. She just started reading picture books with her daughter and playing Lego puzzles, but the effect was not very good. The daughter Xinyue clamored to watch cartoons, and each time the two sides were exhausted and sweaty.
Later, the girlfriend bought a set of sticker books for concentration training, and the daughter had a good time, every time she posted correctly, she was encouraged, she was very accomplished, and she never quarreled about watching cartoons anymore.
After a month, the daughter was happy to play with stickers on the table, and the girlfriend sat next to her reading her own book, looking like the years were quiet. However, this scene caused dissatisfaction among the girlfriend's mother-in-law, who felt that the girlfriend was too lazy, how could she sit aside as a mother, but let the child play there by herself. She secretly complained that it was better to go back to work and earn money to supplement the family.
After another three months, her daughter Xinyue was praised by the teacher in the kindergarten, who said that she had made great progress and never ran around to disturb the order as before. Her concentration has also improved, and she can do things quietly to complete the task.
The mother-in-law later found that the granddaughter quietly tore the sticker herself, and then glued herself to the corresponding position, and the small hand was very flexible, sitting there safely and steadily for twenty or thirty minutes, the look was very focused, completely intoxicated, and the little head melon was very smart.
Coupled with the fact that Xiao Xinyue was praised by the teacher and had strong logical thinking ability, it was only at this time that the mother-in-law's view was reversed, and the mother-in-law agreed with the daughter-in-law's education method.
I also found that after months of training, Xinyue's concentration became very good, and when I arrived at my house, I could sit at the small table and read the picture book intently, and shout that she couldn't move, which made me really surprised.
Seeing that Xiao Xinyue's performance was so good, I couldn't resist looking for girlfriends to learn from. She said she bought a set of sticker books , "Left and Right Brain Development Sticker Picture Book 3-6 Years Old Whole Brain Thinking Training Game Book", a set of 16 books. She has bought many sets of stickers over and over again, and the child still likes it.
Why does playing with sticker books improve concentration? At that time, my girlfriend said a lot to me, in general, a total can be summarized into the following two points, here to share with you.
First, let the child play with the sticker, can be a good training of the child's concentration, the development of the child's left and right brain, the development of the child's potential. For example, this "Left and Right Brain Development Sticker Picture Book 3-6 Years Old Whole Brain Thinking Training Game Book" can meet the requirements.
When your child plays with stickers, his attention will be highly concentrated. Each page of stickers in this book contains a few to a dozen stickers, and these cute little stickers correspond to different scenes, which are in line with the baby's cognitive psychology, which can be understood at a glance, and it is easy to attract children.
In the process of playing with stickers, the baby is unconsciously attracted by different interesting scenes, and concentrates on each poster and each scene, and in this process, in addition to the high coordination of the hand-eye-brain, the child also has to move the left and right brains to find the corresponding patterns to paste.
In this process, the child's potential is developed, the brain will run at high speed to think and distinguish, the information will be processed and docked in the brain, and the concentration will become stronger and stronger.
The second point is to exercise the coordination of children's hands, eyes and brains and the refined movements of the hands, improve children's memory, and exercise children's logical thinking ability and reasoning ability.
In the process of playing with stickers, children first need to observe, tear off the small stickers according to the corresponding scenes, and then accurately paste them on the contours of the corresponding blank patterns.
This process of finding, tearing and pasting has well exercised the coordination ability of the child's hand, eye and brain, the hand muscles have been trained, and the refined movements have been improved.
At the same time, the child's concentration is getting better and better, and when repeatedly looking for tear tape, the child pastes more accurately and quickly, and the memory is also trained.
Most importantly, the stickers are designed according to the cognitive characteristics and comprehension ability of young children, and after the children see the stickers and scene patterns, they will be quickly processed and classified in the brain, which invisibly exercises the child's logical thinking ability and reasoning ability.
In order to facilitate your understanding, I put the link to this set of books below, 16 books a total of only 49 yuan, each volume is less than 3 yuan, really cost-effective.
Left and right brain development sticker picture book ¥49 purchase
If you have a 3-6-year-old child at home, and you also want to cultivate concentration and logical thinking from the age of 3, you must seize the critical period of cultivating your child's concentration to prepare and pave the way for your child's future learning.