We all know that part of a child's personality is inherited, and part of it is acquired. In fact, most of our parents hope that their children can be positive and optimistic, do not want their children to be too honest, and feel that even if the children are naughty, they are better than those honest and honest (especially boys). However, if our children are timid and afraid of things from an early age, dare not see people, and have no opinions on inferiority, then as parents, we must communicate with our children in time and say the following words to them.
First, no matter who you talk to, be sure to be loud and loud, and don't avoid looking at each other when communicating and talking
Second, learn to refuse some trivial things, if you do not want to do or can not do it, you must learn to refuse, even if it is your teacher.
Third, we must dare to socialize, as long as it is the right thing, do not hurt others, do not harm the interests of others, do not care too much about the feelings between you and your classmates
When a classmate wants something from you, if you don't want to give it, you bravely ask him what you're going to give me, or what are you willing to do for me after I give it to you.
Fifth, if your classmates are deliberately humiliating or slandering you, boldly go back and don't care about the situation
Sixth, do not deliberately enlarge your bad image in the teacher's mind, make a little mistake (such as a question in class is not answered, the garbage on your seat is not cleaned, a failed exam, etc.) There is no need to be grumpy, ashamed and guilty, and correct it next time.
Seventh, you have been wronged, or you can't solve the problem, you must tell your parents at the first time, your parents will always support you and love you.