In 2015, when the famous host Hu Die was preparing to marry Lu Chuan, a director who was a full 12 years older than her, her friend advised her: "You are more than ten years apart in age, and his lace news is still so much, are you not afraid of being disappointed?" ”
In the face of the persuasion of friends, Hu Die firmly said: "I am not afraid of being let down by anyone, I am only afraid of being disappointed by myself." ”
"Love is when you think it's worth it, you can be brave enough to come forward, and when you think it's not worth it, you can leave decisively."
Hu Die, who ignored the persuasion of her friends, married Lu Chuan in this way, and most people at that time did not look favorably on her recklessness, and many people sang about her relationship.
After Hu Die flashed marriage to Lu Chuan, she continued to develop her host career while taking into account the family she and Lu Chuan formed, and from the perspective of her married life, it did not feel so optimistic.
After she got married, she not only lived a long-term separation life with Lu Chuan, she gave birth to two babies for each other for 7 years, and when she was pregnant and gave birth, she had to give birth alone, even when she was confined!
At the beginning, despite the persuasion of relatives and friends, she was determined to marry director Lu Chuan's Hu Die, was the life after marriage really what she wanted? Is she happy now?
One
Born in 1983 in Hanzhong, Shaanxi Province, Hu Die was born and raised in a family of high-ranking intellectuals, her father was a scholar engaged in theoretical research, and her mother's cultural literacy was also high.
Shortly after her birth, due to her parents' job transfer, she followed her parents to live in the ancient city of Xi'an, where she grew up and can be regarded as a native of Xi'an.
Influenced by her parents, Hu Die has developed a strong interest in culture and art since she was a child, and she grew up in Xi'an, a city with a particularly high cultural heritage, she is full of yearning for art.
When she was a child, she admired the announcer the most, and dreamed of becoming a good announcer one day, so that everyone could hear her voice.
Probably because her father's expectations of "looking forward to her daughter becoming a phoenix" are too high, Hu Die was strictly required by her father at a very young age, especially regarding learning, and her father demanded that she must do her best.
Once, the school teacher assigned her homework, she was greedy and did not do homework, that night when her father said to check her homework, she immediately panicked and said: "Today... The teacher didn't assign homework..."
Because of the intermittent speech and the fact that she had never lied before, her father saw through her thoughts at a glance and immediately slapped the table on her and said, "Have you learned to lie?" To lie is to escape! ”
"If you don't dare to take responsibility for yourself, it will be difficult to gain a foothold in society in the future!"
Hu Di, who had never seen her father so angry, quickly admitted her mistake to her father, and then completed her homework under his father's supervision.
After that, she no longer dared to lie and deceive her father.
Under her father's strict education method, her academic performance has always been very good, and after graduating from middle school, she was also admitted to the Communication University of China with her own efforts, studying broadcast hosting majors related to her dreams.
Although she was admitted to a professional college, Hu Die did not dare to relax herself at all, she knows the truth of people outside the world, in order to be able to stand out among many broadcast students, she has been working very hard.
When the classmates around her were busy shopping and talking about love, she always stayed in the classroom alone to study, laying a solid foundation for her future hosting career.
Her efforts and efforts were not in vain, and after graduating from university, she successfully entered the Beijing Television Station.
Two
With super strength, as well as a pure and lovely temperament, Hu Die was reused not long after entering Beijing TV, and was successively arranged to host programs such as "Performing Arts Arena", "Flowing Golden Years", "Evening News Report", "Live Beijing", "Beijing You Early" and so on.
In addition to hosting these routine programs, she was also arranged to host the award ceremony of the Beijing Young Civil Servants Style Competition, the opening ceremony of the international director's filming in Beijing, and the 2007 Olympic Games in Beijing Spring Festival Temple Fair.
Hu Die, who quickly gained a foothold in Beijing Television, as she developed better and better here, she was no longer limited to this stage and began to develop towards a larger stage.
In December 2007, she signed up for the "White Elephant Cup" 5th CCTV TV Host Competition, and she not only successfully reached the final, but also became the most optimistic player in this year.
But to her surprise, when she was only one step away from the championship, the Beijing Television Station where she worked at the time gave her a notice: "Two choices, one is to give up the game, the other is to resign." ”
Hu Die, who has been pursuing a bigger stage, had a hard time getting a good opportunity, she naturally did not want to give up, she chose to continue the game, and finally won the championship of this competition.
Because she lost her job because of the competition, she later said in an interview: "Since you came, you must insist, and it is absolutely impossible to quit halfway." ”
Fortunately, although this competition deprived her of the opportunity to stay at Beijing Television, it ushered in a greater opportunity for her development.
Because her performance in the competition was too good, CCTV was particularly optimistic about her development prospects and threw an olive branch to her when she left Beijing.
In 2008, Hu Die officially entered the development of CCTV, and as soon as she came in, she was arranged to host two programs with high attention, "Asia Today" and "China News".
She hosted these two programs very well, and soon after was arranged to host one of CCTV's ace programs, "Chaowen Tianxia".
In 2013, at the age of 30, she was also arranged to appear on the stage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and became a host who walked into thousands of households.
With super strength and steady typhoon, even on the stage of CCTV, Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon, Hu Die quickly gained a foothold.
After becoming popular with the stage of CCTV, due to her appearance conditions, she also won the title of "most beautiful anchor" of CCTV for a time, which shows how much everyone likes her.
Three
With the development of the host's career, under the continuous urging of her family to marry, Hu Die also began to put her life's events on the agenda.
Because she focused on studying during college and focused on her career after work, Hu Di has never been in love.
For love, she both longed for and looked forward to, and always hoped that someone who truly loved her could accompany her, and this person finally came to her side when she was 31 years old.
In 2014, Hu Die, who has developed a particularly good career, was invited to a friend's party, and on the day of the party, there were many artists and practitioners in the show business circle, including director Lu Chuan.
Lu Chuan is 12 years older than Hu Die, is a native of Nantong, Jiangsu, he was born in an artistic family, his father Lu Tianming and aunt Lu Xing'er are famous writers, of which his father Lu Tianming wrote "Snow Without a Trace", "Fate" and other works, after being remade into film and television dramas, but also received the support of countless audiences.
Influenced by his family, he also developed a keen interest in film and television from an early age, and after graduating from Nortel's Directing Department, he began his directing career.
Before meeting Hu Die, Lu Chuan had already gained a firm foothold in the show business circle with his works such as "Looking for a Gun", "Coco Xili", and "The King's Feast".
Although There is a clear age gap between Hu Die and Lu Chuan, in the process of the party, the two talk and laugh, as if they are old friends who have not seen each other for many years, and they quickly get close to each other.
Compared with Hu Die, who has never been in love, Lu Chuan, who has been mixed in the show business circle, is a person with a particularly rich emotional experience, and many actresses in the circle have reported scandals.
Not long before he met Hu Die, he had just broken up with actress Qin Lan not long ago, but when the two broke up, they were too low-key, and many people did not know that they had broken up.
Because of this, as Hu Die and Lu Chuan got closer and closer, especially after they were together, many uninformed people began to complain that Hu Die had interfered with Lu Chuan and Qin Lan's feelings, marking her with labels such as "step in" and "little three".
It was not until Lu Chuan and Qin Lan both said that they had already broken up that Hu Die came out of the whirlpool of public opinion.
However, for this relationship of Hu Die, the public is still not optimistic, mainly because the age difference between the two is too large.
Many people also complained that she was anxious to find such an old person because she hated marriage, but Hu Di did not respond too much to this, and was still firmly with Lu Chuan.
Four
In 2015, the two of them, who had not been in love for a long time, immediately began to prepare for their wedding because they loved too much.
Hu Die's family and friends all advised her to think clearly and marry each other, after all, this is a lifelong event, but Hu Die is as firm as ever, completely ignoring the dissuasion of relatives and friends.
In April of the same year, the two of them went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a marriage license in a low profile and officially entered the palace of marriage.
On the evening of April 11, Lu Chuan, who has become her husband, also posted a photo of the two on the social platform in a high profile, and said: "When I met my wife, it was my most difficult time. ”
"I can inadvertently look back and see her figure and her gaze, and these warm memories are engraved in my heart."
"Marriage is mutual trust and commitment, we are ready, thank you all your friends for your concern."
Then Hu Di forwarded his post and said: "Thanks for this, thank you for your blessings!" ”
Two months after receiving their license to marry, they had a wedding on Maui, Hawaii, and the whole wedding was extremely low-key, with no one else in the circle except for the relatives and friends of both parties.
Soon after the marriage, Hu Die was exposed to the news that she was already pregnant with Lu Chuan's child, and in October of the same year, she gave birth to their own son, and later gave birth to a daughter.
It is worth saying that because Lu Chuan is a director and has to stay in the crew for a long time, Hu Die not only has to live a separate life with him for a long time after marriage, but even when she is pregnant, Lu Chuan has not been able to accompany her.
At that time, she not only had to go to the hospital alone for obstetric examination, but after giving birth, the confinement was also completed alone.
In the eyes of outsiders, such a marriage must be difficult to accept, but Hu Die especially understands and supports Lu Chuan, because she knows that the other party is for work and for this family, so she has not been able to accompany her all the time.
Five
Although in the 7 years after marriage, Hu Die, who gave birth to 2 children for Lu Chuan, experienced a life of solo obstetric examination and long-term separation, in her opinion, such a life is particularly happy.
Because since marrying her, Lu Chuan has not only not passed out any emotional scandals with other actresses and female artists, but has also been particularly concerned about their family.
Outsiders see her going to the obstetric examination alone, as well as her long-term separation from her husband, but they don't know that whenever there is time, Lu Chuan will immediately return to accompany her.
Once, when Lu Chuan was working in Britain, he only had a vacation every two weeks, but he would fly back immediately whenever he got to the holiday, even if he could only accompany her for a day, he was willing to travel back and forth for a long distance.
And unlike the wanderers written by the media in the past, After marriage, Lu Chuan gave her almost all the pampering, not only responding to her requests, but also never thinking of cutting off her dreams.
Lu Chuan knew that she liked the profession of host, so he always supported her to develop her career, and when she was busy at work, he also took the initiative to take on the responsibility of taking care of children.
However, unlike Lu Chuan's support, Hu Die hopes to focus more on her children and family after marriage, so in the years after marriage, her career pace has slowed down a lot.
Since she got married in 2015, she has hosted fewer and fewer programs, rarely recording other programs except for the two resident programs of "News 30 Minutes" and "24 Hours".
Even the various large-scale events and evenings that she used to attend regularly were significantly reduced.
For Hu Die's choice to give up her career for the sake of her family, although everyone feels that it is a pity, it is also understandable.
After all, compared with the career, even if the career development is good, it is still better to live a good life, after all, life is the most important.
Six
Now 39 years old, Hu Die is still developing in the host industry she loves, but compared to her youth, she is no longer as focused on her career as before.
Since having a family, especially after giving birth to her own children, she now thinks more about how to be a good wife and mother, rather than becoming a strong woman.
And from the perspective of her life today, her efforts have not been in vain, she sacrificed her career in exchange for her husband who now loves her, as well as two well-behaved and cute children.
Now that the family of four is living a particularly happy life, they have used their warm lives to punch countless people who were not optimistic about and sang about their relationship at the beginning.
Hu Di also used her own life to tell us that a relationship or marriage is not happy, or whether it is worth it, only as a party they know.
At first, everyone felt that Hu Di married a husband of such an age, and it would be difficult to go on forever in the future.
But the result? Not only did they come all the way, but now they are extremely happy, but they also explained to us what true love is!
Of course, for Hu Die, whether it is past or present, the outside world's views are not important.
After all, life is her own, as long as she and her husband can be emotionally stable and both children can grow up healthy, it is enough.
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