In recent years, there have been many incidents of college students getting pregnant and having children, such as some college students giving birth to children because they have not taken safety protection measures, some college students abandon their children after giving birth, and some college students raise their children and so on. What causes college students to frequently get pregnant and have children?
Responsibility for pregnancy and childbirth
College students should correct the attitude of pregnancy and childbirth, and cannot just treat pregnancy and childbirth as a life born on impulse. When every life comes into the world, as parents, we should give our children a better educational environment. If parents cannot provide their children with a good educational environment and a warm family environment, then there will inevitably be some regrets on the child's growth path.
In addition, as a parent, you should take the responsibility of raising your children, from the child's food, clothing, housing and transportation to the future learning need to spend time to teach, teaching children is not as simple as feeding cats and dogs, not only to give children the best materially, but also to give children inspiration in the spiritual world.
Parents are not only the first responsible person for their children, but also their teachers. When the first person a child sees when he opens his eyes must be his own mother, and when the child calls out the first name in his teeth and teeth, it must be his father or mother. Nowadays, many college students do not have the consciousness of parenthood, so they are not suitable for having children. When the time comes, it is best to have another child.
The best age for a woman to have children is around 25 years old, and if a college student becomes pregnant and gives birth while she is an undergraduate, it is still early. College students should study hard during college and wait until after graduation to consider getting pregnant and having children.
The first reason: girls do not have a strong sense of self-protection
Some girls may play with friends in strange places such as bars, and when they do not pay attention to the drinks handed by people around them, it is easy to be slaughtered because of the special substances added to the drinks, resulting in pregnancy.
Some girls in the early stages of pregnancy pregnancy reaction is not obvious or even no, and when it is found that there is an abnormality in the stomach, it is often very old for abortion, so under the advice of the doctor and personal consideration, the child will be chosen.
This incident tells us that girls should strengthen their sense of self-protection, if they encounter alcohol handed by strangers, do not drink, do not drink alcohol that is out of their line of sight, and so on. In addition, it is necessary to actively learn ways to enhance the awareness of protection and successfully apply them in life.
College students should maintain a vigilant attitude towards everyone, after all, people's hearts are separated from their stomachs, and maintaining vigilance is the greatest guarantee for personal safety.
The second reason: the vanity of college students
Many college students have a situation of comparison, so some students will engage in some diplomatic work in order to be able to compare with others or even surpass others. This type of work, although it makes money quickly, is prone to pregnancy.
Although girls will avoid the possibility of pregnancy by taking birth control pills, there is always a risk of pregnancy. In addition, long-term use of contraceptives will have an important impact on the uterus, and will also affect the individual's menstrual period.
If a girl is unfortunate enough to become pregnant, it is easy to choose a private hospital for fetal treatment, and this kind of curettage behavior will cause the woman's uterus to become thinner and thinner, which may lead to the possibility of becoming a mother.
Therefore, after being told by the doctor that if the child is shed, it is likely that they will not be able to get pregnant in the future, some girls will choose to have a child alone to meet the desire to become a mother.
The third reason: family education
Some girls' family education is lacking, resulting in a great desire to be loved when they grow up, so some criminals seize the love-seeking mentality of such girls, transform into excellent warm men to tempt girls to sacrifice their bodies, and often pua girls, firmly control girls around, so that girls can conceive and give birth for themselves.
Some men will use the baby born after the girl's pregnancy to sell the child through private channels to earn money from selling the child, and use words to confuse the girl that at this stage, the two do not have enough ability to raise the child, so they send the child to a distant relative's house to raise, and when the two have the ability to work, they will take the child back to raise.
This is just a perennial discourse of men to cajole girls, just so that girls will no longer frantically look for children, so that their own sale of children will be exposed and they will be punished by the law.
The editor has something to say
Before college students can determine a relationship, they must start with friends and then gradually become lovers and friends. If you are lucky enough to get married, then consider the issue of having children. In addition, after determining the relationship, college students can bring both parties to their parents to watch, and after getting the affirmation given by the parents to each other, this is the real love.