Should the babysitter eat leftovers?
In recent times, many netizens have gathered around to discuss the problem of nannies eating at the employer's house, and there is a growing trend, the cause of the matter is Chen Haomin's family.
Chen Haomin, who often shares the dynamics of life on the Internet, inadvertently exposes a privacy of his family, that is, when their family eats, they are not allowed to eat at home, and every meal of the nanny is the leftovers of Chen Haomin's family.
After this behavior was exposed, it was immediately boycotted by many netizens, and a wind of discussion was set off, that is, should the nanny eat the leftovers of the employer's family?
Chen Haomin's wife responded to the question: the monthly salary of 20,000 yuan is not to invite her to enjoy happiness
In the face of overwhelming insults on the Internet, Chen Haomin's wife Jiang Lisha responded to netizens' questions in a subsequent live broadcast: "Our nanny is hired with a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, let her come to the home is to work, not to invite her to enjoy happiness!" ”
He also brought out the list of the nanny's leftovers and said, "In our family, there is no habit of letting the nanny eat at the table" "The nanny and the host's family are superiors and subordinates, have you ever seen employees and bosses eat at a dinner table every day?" "
When Jiang Lisha said this, Chen Haomin did not come out to refute it, which shows that the couple has an idea about the nanny.
In fact, from an objective point of view, the nanny came to the house to work, and the question of eating should be set at the beginning of a standard. The employer is not obliged to invite the nanny to the table, and the nanny has no right to have to eat with the employer.
In the TV series "The Second Child Era", the employer's family invited a nanny to take care of the family's three meals a day, but I did not expect that the nanny actually turned into a "master" and brought her grandson to the employer's house to eat and live.
Not only that, but during the meal, the nanny fed a whole plate of shrimp to her grandson, saying that the grandson's tonsils spoke, and he had to eat more shrimp to get better quickly. At that time, the little girl in the employer's house said very wordlessly: "Eat slowly, don't choke."
At that time, as soon as this clip came out, it instantly resonated with many netizens and severely criticized the behavior of the nanny in the TV series.
Regarding the practice of Chen Haomin and his wife, the main reason questioned by the majority of netizens is the rule that they let the nanny have to eat leftovers.
It is understandable that you cannot eat at the same table, and the correct approach should be to reserve the nanny's meal before eating, let her go to the kitchen or room alone to eat, or the nanny will make another meal of her own alone.
Under the employment relationship between the employer and the nanny, it is still necessary to explain all the requirements of both sides at the beginning, one side pays for the other, and maintains the minimum respect. What do you think is the best thing to do? Feel free to leave a message in the comments section.