Yang Haochen was on fire.
In "New Year Open Wheat", Yang Wuchen performed a talk show with the theme: "What is it like to fall in love with a science bully?"
Both inside and outside the field, everyone was conquered by this science student.
Yeah, who says science students aren't romantic? They are so romantic that even liberal arts students have to clap their hands!
Witty, humorous, funny, natural, handsome, not pretentious.
Yang Wuchen, the fire is taken for granted.
It also once again gave us a glimpse of how attractive people who can speak are.
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Even if you are not naturally good at expressing communication, it does not matter, as long as you are willing, as long as you find the right way, you can also go from envying others to receiving applause from yourself.
If you want to learn to speak, you must first know what is a good speech, and if you want to know what a good speech is, you often have to do the opposite, first to understand which speech methods are wrong.
1. Chicken blood speech
Speaking of this way of speaking, it is always a little difficult to say a word, because I have been deeply poisoned by this way of speaking, and I have envied those who can easily mobilize the atmosphere of the scene.
In fact, this way of speaking can only mobilize the speaker's own emotions, but fundamentally ignores the audience's feelings, and may also be touted by some audiences, but most of the audience will not buy it at all, and there will be some disgust.
For example, we often hear some people shouting "Friends, how are you?" on certain speech occasions? Are you guys happy today? " and other slogans.
They seem to be only concerned with bringing their strength and emotions into the atmosphere of excitement, and the audience that is sitting in the audience at this time is often confused and confused.
And at the end of the speech, they often raise their arms and shout, "Let's start pursuing our happiness today, okay?" At the end of such an appeal, many viewers will not echo it, because they will feel very embarrassed.
So, if we want to learn speech, don't go astray, and if you've learned this way of speaking before, remember to leave it behind.
"Sharpen the knife without cutting wood", from now on, we must learn to understand what a good speech is, and then learn it.
2. Routine speech
I don't know if you like to speak, have you ever met this kind of speech teacher, they will teach everyone in detail:
What to do in the first minute of standing on the stage, what to do in the second minute, explain clearly and clearly, and I am eager to help you complete the whole process of the speech by hand.
Some speakers will tell you:
Pick up a few hairs, show a few teeth when smiling, and press an angle when swinging your arms.
Some speech teachers will even teach everyone how to use props, when to push and remove glasses, when to drink the first sip of water, how long to interact with the audience under the stage, and so on.
It sounds very grounded and practical, and it seems that the students have mastered these routines and naturally learned to speak, and even became speech experts.
However, this kind of stereotypical and routine speech is actually difficult for the audience to like and identify, they will only feel uncomfortable, and may also have some boring emotions for the speaker.
If you want to be a good speaker, you can find the right way to grow, but you must not covet shortcuts, otherwise, it will be difficult to achieve the goal of speech.
3. Self-talk speech
As a professional, the last thing most people want to face is those meetings that have no substantive significance.
Why is that?
The reason for this, it is not difficult to find that many leaders like to talk to themselves too much, for example, some leaders may say in meetings, we will say three points today.
Don't be in a hurry to be happy, because in each of his three points, there may be countless small dots "nested" in each point.
The reason why this kind of self-talk speech makes everyone very rejected is because this method is not doing two-way communication at all, and it does not take into account the feelings of the audience and the participating employees.
Although the speech is said by one person and the audience is listening, the speech is essentially a two-way street.
4. Flattering and humble speech
Modesty is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, so some speakers will think that the audience may not lack some more professional and senior people, and there may be many leaders and teachers.
So they will behave very humble and low-key, for example, some speakers will use this opening statement:
"I am especially happy to receive this award, and I am here to express my opinion."
"Although I am a soft-spoken person, I still want to express my opinion."
Such a humble, flattering attitude and aura may make people feel some pity, but it is difficult to be impressed or influenced.
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When we understand the above wrong way of speaking, we may have some clue about good speech methods.
Speech is a two-way information dissemination, the key is not to spread their own views, but to be able to spread their views in a way that the audience likes to hear, and the difference between the two is very large.
In this way, the viewpoint not only enters the audience's ears, but also into the audience's heart, and can also get the audience's feedback.
This feedback may be immediate feedback on expressions and emotions, such as nodding, touching, or sadness, or it may be feedback from future actions, such as making important decisions or changes as a result of a speech.
In short, speech is not self-talk and self-touching, and its ultimate purpose is not to satisfy the speaker's desire to talk, but to be able to influence and impress others.
A good speech is essentially a two-way message transmission, and the most important thing is that the speaker and the audience can achieve emotional interaction and resonance.
Only by understanding what is a good speech can we learn to speak and gain love like Yang Haochen and others.
The author of this article: Xian Qi, a text lover who is mixed in the workplace, an old mother who earnestly learns how to raise a baby, the joy and meaning of life lies in ridicule and sharing.
Reference Book: "Three Absolute Speeches"