Yoshihiro Ototake, who has no limbs, was selected as a national idol in Japan with his strong qualities, but in 2016, he was revealed by the Japanese media that he frequently appeared in various nightclubs and other entertainment venues, and revealed that he had at least five women after marriage.
As soon as the news came out, it caused an uproar in Japan, and netizens found that the number of women who cheated after the marriage of Ototake Yangkuang was as high as more than 50, and for a time he became a scumbag that everyone spurned.
After the scandal was broken, his wife clarified to him for the first time, so why did her wife make this move, and why did Ototake Yangkuang have such a big change?
After his cheating scandal was exposed, his wife took the initiative to defend it, and Ototake Became a scumbag spurned by thousands of people in Japan for a time.
The power of motherly love
In April 1976, a japanese hospital welcomed the arrival of a newborn, but the baby was born without retaining a healthy body, but he suffered from "congenital limb amputation syndrome".
Children with this disease are born with a shortage of limbs due to genetic mutations, and the overall functioning of the body is not good, making it difficult to survive for too long.
The baby born in Tokyo is Ototake Yoko, and the medical staff who greeted him were horrified and confused by the child's mutilated body, but Ototake's parents had no complicated feelings other than love for their children.
The mother did not show a look of panic or discomfort after seeing him for the first time, but calmly accepted the reality that the baby was not healthy, and gently touched him, telling him in a soft voice that his mother welcomed his arrival and giving him the name Otobu Yoko.
On the road of Ototake Yoko's growth, his mother gave him enough love, but she did not spoil him too much because of his congenital disability. The mother can accept the child's flaws with great peace, and she will not give Ototake yoko the kind of pity that she can look at and let him grow up in a more normal environment. Ototake Yangkuo also boosted his optimism because of his mother's healthy and correct education methods.
Children will inevitably stumble in their learning life, not to mention the lack of limbs. His mother did not take care of her like the flowers in the greenhouse, but allowed him to pursue and be himself.
The incompetence of the body makes Ototake Yangkuang have a hotter feeling, and he expresses the thoughts and feelings that are constantly surging in his heart through speeches, creating works that move everyone. The protagonist of his speech is usually his own mother, and the bleak years he spent were encouraged by her mother's cry. Ototake Yoko is willing to take his mother as the protagonist in life, and constantly move forward in the rendering of love.
The smoke of maternal love made Ototake Never feel inferior to others, and he was able to make up for his shortcomings with excellent results. Interact and laugh normally with friends, and experience the glory of peers. When the people around Ototake Yokoku saw him, his face was always full of smiles, and his elegant conversation and peaceful temperament made him win the approval of many friends.
Ototake Yangkuang dared to speak out his ideals and dare to chase them, which was inseparable from the support of his mother behind him.
The harvest after sweating
Ototake Yokozumi, who suffers from "congenital limb amputation syndrome", is a very determined child himself, and since the time of his birth, the hospital has given his family a critical illness notice. After all, there are few such examples in the history of medicine, and it is difficult for children who are unfortunate to suffer from "congenital limb amputation syndrome" to live for a long time, and the existence of Ototake Yoko is undoubtedly a model.
He not only successfully overcame the torment of illness, but also lived out his own style. Ototake Did Not Fall into the Negative Mood of Self-Hatred because of his disability, he did not complain about the violent nature of the world, he was able to carry out his studies step by step, and was admitted to Inada University with excellent results. His own shortcomings make his actions seem more inspiring than others, Inada University is a very good university in Tokyo, and it is not easy for ordinary children to be admitted, let alone Ototake Yoko.
Not only was he successfully admitted to school and chose to study economics, but his university life made him more exuberant. His personality allowed him to meet new friends, and his outstanding grades and moving speeches made him loved by his teachers, and everyone liked this Obu Yoko, who loved life and did not succumb to fate.
During that time, Ototake Yangkuang's contact with people and things became more and more extensive, and his own achievements did not make him stop moving forward, and he invested his free time and energy on public welfare undertakings while completing his studies. Although Otomu Yangkuo's life is very sunny and cheerful, many disabled people like him still experience many difficulties in their daily lives.
The disdainful eyes cast by others and the self-abandonment that cannot complete a thing due to their own reasons exist in the disabled population, the disabled people themselves are only physically incomplete, and the whole environment makes their hearts slowly open, which leads to a series of vicious consequences.
As a disabled person, Ototake Yangkuo can empathize with the difficulties of these people, and as an intellectual with certain achievements, it has become his choice to speak out for the disabled.
He spoke out to the whole society, fought for more benefits for the disabled people, and from the perspective of the disabled, he said to the outside world that he wanted to give more tolerance and patience to the whole group. It may be that the loss of a certain function of the body makes the disabled appear more clumsy and difficult to do things, but there are also disabled people who are good at it, and they cannot completely deny the disabled in a partial way.
Such views and eyes are the key to the emergence of psychological shadows among the disabled population, and Ototake's voice has allowed him to welcome many supporters for a while, which is why he is known as a model for society in Japan.
Career and love go hand in hand
What Yotsutake Ototake did in Japan won him a kind of national favor, and people saw not only a disabled person who was willing to fight for power for himself, but also an enthusiastic person who cared about the rights and interests of others while his own rights and interests were protected.
The spirit of not being afraid of challenges and daring to dedicate himself is what people like about him. Because of this, he has become an affirmed idol and role model for the Japanese people, and has been recognized by all walks of life, and his fame is constantly rising.
The level of writing and speech that Yotsutake had developed from an early age was the result of his publication of an autobiographical book in 1998: "The Five Bodies Are Not Satisfied." The book takes his own life experience as the main line, showing the public a disabled person who loves life and is tenacious and indomitable. When people read the story of Ototake Yoko, they forget about the defects of the body and feel the strength from the heart.
Ototake Yoshikuma constantly transmits his spiritual saturation to more people who need sunshine, and his works give those who are helpless a steady stream of motivation, which also wins him a large number of fans.
Since its publication, the book "Five Bodies Not Satisfied" has achieved extremely high sales and won several awards. It can be said that Ototake Yangkuang has achieved a status and influence that is difficult for ordinary people to reach, and at the same time harvested his own love while his personal value has been practiced.
Ototake's wife was a student she met in college, and her name was Renmi. Ototake Yoshihiro was also a well-known student during his schooling, and his classmates admired the optimism and courage to face the challenges of life, and Renmei paid great attention to Ototake's words and deeds during his college years, and was deeply attracted to him.
When Ototake learns that Renmi has a crush on him, he is very grateful for Renmei's approval and says that he also likes the beautiful and generous Renmei. The affection between the two made them enter a life of love, during which time Ototake Yoko was gentle and carefully cared for Renmei, and officially married after three years of love run.
At that time, Owu Yangkuang was a public figure, would often attend some social events, when faced with reporters' questions, Owu Yangkuang always mentioned his wife with love in his eyes, and showed his admiration for human beauty without hesitation, and the two were extremely affectionate in front of outsiders. The lives of Renmei and Ototake Yoko are also happy, and they have three children after marriage.
Ototake Yangkuo has also repeatedly expressed his gratitude to Renmei for his existence, because his disability has led to a variety of inconveniences in life, and Renmei has not been disgusted to give him as much love and care as possible. During that time, Renmei was like the endless sun in Ototake's life, giving him enough warmth and sunshine.
Ototake's personal deeds have been widely recognized in society, and today's married life has become a model for Japanese people to learn. They will affirm Renmei's efforts and feel that the marriage of the two of them is a model couple.
A national icon with a sudden change in painting style
Ototake and Renmei became the object of attention of the Japanese people, and the husband and wife who showed such affection outside the country thought that they would get along for a long time. However, in March 2016, a scandal about Owu Yangkuang's marital infidelity was exposed, and the release of this news set off a netizen's melon-eating mentality towards Owu Yangkuang, which for a time plunged him into a public opinion storm.
Although netizens want to know about the derailment news of Owu Yangkuang, they are also waiting for the debunking and clarification of Owu Yangkuang. However, the news revealed in the news that Owu Yangkuang cheated on five women after marriage is not reliable, and as netizens continue to dig deeper, they find that it is far more than the number mentioned in the news.
A follow-up investigation revealed that during the more than 10 years of Otomu's marriage to Renmi, he had at least 50 other women. As soon as this news was revealed, there was an uproar throughout Japan, and people began to greatly rebuke Ototake's personality, while sympathizing with Renmi's plight.
What happened next surprised the Japanese people, who came forward to clarify not Ototake himself, but his wife. In front of reporters, Renmei said that she knew all about her husband's cheating behavior, because she could not meet her husband's physical needs and silently allowed Owu Yangkuang's behavior, but after this incident, the marriage relationship between Renmei and Owu Yangkuang also officially ended.
Speculation began to be made about the veracity of Renmi's statement, but neither side responded otherwise to the matter. After the outbreak of the Otomu Yoko's cheating scandal, it is at least certain that Renmei's life during this time was not happy.
As a student at Inada University, Renmi herself has outstanding personal talents, and she chooses to be with the volunteer sunshine, and is doomed to give up her career. Although in Japan as a whole, most women become housewives and it is difficult to continue working in their previous positions, Renmei may be only one of thousands of women.
But the sacrifices she made for the marriage were enormous, and her benevolent husband was not a full-bodied adult man, and in addition to doing the housework like other wives, she also had to take care of her husband every day. Ototake's normal bathing and routine are difficult to achieve on his own, and you can imagine how arduous and heavy Renmi's task at home is.
Some people also revealed that Renmei and Owu Yangkuang basically lost their personal freedom after marriage, and spent some happy and happy times in the early years, but Owu Yangkuang did not maintain his original intention very well, and his temperament changed greatly in the years after marriage. He began to restrict Renmi's travels and speech, and reported to Otomu No matter where she went. The tone of communication with him must also be peaceful and stable, and the slightest fluctuation of emotions will be blamed by Ototake Yoko, or scolded.
Renmei has lost her identity since becoming Ototake Yoko's wife, and externally she is no longer Renmi, who has her own name, but Ototake's wife. Because the special nature of Ototake's identity makes it impossible for her to withdraw from this unbearable marriage, he repeatedly threatens that if Renmi wants to file for divorce, he will take him to court for abusing a disabled person. All kinds of oppression made Renmei gradually lose herself in the bleak married life, paralyzing her heart.
An ordinary man who cheats in marriage will be condemned by people, not to mention Owu Yoko, who still has a certain reputation and number of fans. After the Otomu Yangkuang scandal was exposed, the public saw the identity of a hypocrite, and also gave Renmei a chance to get rid of the shackles.
Now that Renmei can live a normal life without the public attention and the threat of Ototake Yoko, I think she can feel the normal joys and sorrows of life again.
Owu Yangkuo's rise from the peak of his life to his current disgrace has allowed the public to see the final fate of hypocrites, but perhaps he will be more sympathetic to the encounter of benevolence. Her marriage to Ototake Yoko is an unfortunate thing in life, but her departure is a blessing. The protection given to women by society will always be lacking, and women should have the courage to face difficulties in the general environment and learn to take the initiative to defend their rights and interests.