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After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

In 2008, outside the delivery room of Beijing--Jia Hospital, the president and head nurse accompanied Wang Gang anxiously and waited.

The first group of nurses came out and said, "Congratulations, adults and children are fine."

The second group of nurses came out and said, "The child is safe," but not "mother and child are safe" or "mother and daughter are safe."

Wang Gang muttered in his heart, if it is a son, the doctor will say "congratulations, having a big fat son." The nurse did not say, did she have a daughter?

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

He asked the dean, who said, "I don't know, do you usually like to eat meat?" ”。 Wang Gang said that playing small likes to eat beef and mutton.

The dean said, "Then you are an acidic physique, presumably a daughter." ”

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

After the third group of nurses and doctors came out, the dean asked more urgently than Wang Gang, "Boy, or girl?" ”

"Boy", Wang Gang suspected that he had heard wrongly, and the dean patted him and said, it is a boy!

Wang Gang burst into tears. Immediately call the mother, "Mom, you have a grandchild."

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

I don't know, this scene, if Cheng Fangyuan saw it, what would he think?

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Cheng Fangyuan was born in Beijing in 1960 and studied in the Erhu Department of the Beijing Conservatory of Music. During the university period, Cheng Fangyuan's sweet and pure appearance and free personality attracted the attention of countless boys.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Cheng Fangyuan, who grew up watching movies, exudes artistic temperament and has a beautiful imagination of love. Started a pure love journey in college, talked about an inappropriate, broke up, and started a new relationship.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Her English teacher, a gentle, magnetic man who was influenced by foreign literature, quickly made Cheng Fangyuan fall in love and get married.

But once the sweet period of love passed, the pedantic spirit of the university professor made Cheng Fangyuan a little uncomfortable, and the English teacher hoped that she would have children and stabilize.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

At that time, Cheng Fangyuan was only 21 years old and enjoyed love, but she was attracted to the outside world, wanted to go further and see the bigger world, and soon the two divorced peacefully.

Divorce does not affect Cheng Fangyuan's mood of falling in love in the slightest. She loves Teresa's songs and especially resonates with the love in the songs. This also became a belief that she would later follow for most of her life.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Rich feelings have also achieved chengfangyuan's artistic creation. She tried to play and sing by herself, was valued by Wang Kun, and vigorously entered the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe, and in 1984, her singing "Childhood" won the Top Ten Golden Melody Award and was rated as a national first-class actor. Participated in the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and sang "Please Come to the End of the World" and was rated as one of the top ten gold stars.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Excellent performance won Better Opportunities for Cheng Fangyuan, and in 1991, she began to host CCTV's "Variety Show". It was also at this time that she met her colleague Wang Gang.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

For Wang Gang, Cheng Fangyuan had already heard about it. The best play is the commentary on books, and has broadcast "Harbin at Night".

Because he presided over the first Teachers' Day, he showed a prominent level of hosting. He was invited to host the Spring Festival Gala and filmed "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo", especially Hezhen's impression was particularly profound.

Once when the two partnered in "Variety Show", Wang Gang pretended to be deep, and a pair of eyes slipped through the shrewd look, which attracted the attention of Cheng Fangyuan.

Wang Gang had a marriage, that was when he was in the military region, the most beautiful girl in the military region, Xiao Du, often attracted everyone's attention, Wang Gang fell in love at first sight, just introduced by the matchmaker, Wang Gang was overjoyed, and soon the two got married.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

However, after getting along, they found that the two had a big difference in concept and temper, and they divorced after only one year of marriage, and the short marriage brought indelible trauma to their child Wang Tingting.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

The same marriage situation, so that Cheng Fangyuan and Wang Gang especially have a common language, in the words of later Wang Gang is "smelly and similar". The two people's dedication to art and the polishing of their works have brought them closer and closer.

In particular, Cheng Fangyuan's cheerful and energetic temper and infectious songs can quickly drive Wang Gang up and indulge in the artistic enjoyment of songs.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Cheng Fangyuan likes Teresa Teng's songs, once, Teresa Teng's concert was held in Beijing, used to buy tickets by himself to see Fang yuan, because there was something that did not grab the ticket.

After hearing this news, Wang Gang went to the ticketing team and entrusted several friends, and finally got the ticket. The two went to see it together, and both indulged in Teresa Teng's songs.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

On the way back, Wang Gang expressed his love to Cheng Fangyuan, and Cheng Fangyuan thought that since love had come, he would talk about it well.

The two have similar temperaments and often hit it off. Cheng Fangyuan felt that this was not a marriage maintained by love, and soon the two got married.

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Cheng Fangyuan is a career woman, and Wang Gang is also a person with a heavy sense of enterprise. Cheng Fangyuan wanted to make a musical "The Sound of Music", and Wang Gang agreed very much.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

This is precisely to combine the advantages of the two, Cheng Fangyuan is good at singing, Wang Gang is good at acting, and the two can learn from each other. At that time, the performance was quite popular, and it was difficult to find a ticket. But the rehearsal process was particularly bitter and tiring.

Both are the main characters and have a lot of singing. Cheng Fangyuan devoted himself wholeheartedly. Once, when Wang Gang came to the scene, some children were particularly naughty, some children had to give up because of hard work, and Cheng Fangyuan was particularly patient, giving encouragement to the children and letting them find the fun of performing.

Wang Gang saw the gentle brilliance of Cheng Fangyuan, full of motherhood. In a trance, he very much wanted to have a child with Cheng Fangyuan.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Because Wang Gang had to go to Beijing TV every afternoon to record two "Life in Your Hands", when he arrived at the theater at half past five, Cheng Fangyuan always lined up the stools, laid out the mattress, and let Wang Gang rest for 20 minutes. After that, Cheng Fangyuan would also lead the children to Wang Gang's side and make a fuss for a while to make him mentally spirited.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Although tired, after performing every day, the two felt particularly good. "When the curtain came down, everyone was still dancing, and the actors in the middle saluted the audience on both sides and the audience upstairs. The audience doesn't go either. Ah! That feels really good. Later, Wang Gang said.

"When we co-starred in The Sound of Music with Yuanzi, we were very happy. We would receive a lot of flowers every day, and then two people would get into the car with the flowers in their arms. ”

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

The communication between Wang Gang and Cheng Fangyuan is spiritual and far from the world. And the days are lived by people, and slowly, the beauty of feelings is mixed into the trivialities of life.

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When Wang Gang's daughter was 15 years old, she wanted to study in France, and at that time, she went to a good school in France at her own expense, and the cost was very high, which was also a big expense for families like Wang Gang and Cheng Fangyuan.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Cheng Fangyuan believes that according to the academic level of Wang Gang's daughter Wang Tingting, it is enough to find a matching school. And Wang Gang believes that other people's children are studying in schools with high tuition fees, why should my Wang Gang's children be inferior. And I'm just such a kid.

The two argued, and when they were not careful, they indexed the fuse to the birth of a child. At that time, the two had a good life and good physical condition, and they could have one, and Wang Gang's mother repeatedly hoped that Wang Gang and Cheng Fangyuan would have a child of their own.

Cheng Fangyuan felt that the two of them were living well, why not live happily. Why do you have to get a child in a secular way?

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

At this time, Wang just found that in terms of family affection, love, and friendship, Cheng Fangyuan always put love first, and he was born in the northeast, according to the habits of the northeast people at that time, it was too important to have a man in the family and a son.

Having lived with Wang Gang for many years, Cheng Fangyuan did not expect that Wang Gang still had such an old and backward thing in his bones. She felt very disappointed.

Later, Wang Gang's daughter went to study abroad, and the high cost forced Wang Gang to wake up from the romantic married life, often going out to socialize and drink.

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Once, Wang Gang asked a few friends to talk about things, and the wine reached a climax. Several people proposed to fight the wine to see who fell first, Wang Gang was on the stage, asked people to pull up 100 pieces of beer, several people claimed each other, and began to pour it in.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Several had already been drunk, and there were three more at that time, and Wang Gang was drunk in a daze. He saw a man hurrying over, and he knew it was Cheng Fangyuan, and told him to go home. How could he lose face on such a brotherly occasion.

So he pushed Cheng Fangyuan hard, pushed Cheng Fangyuan to the ground, and he also stumbled, pointing at her and yelling, "Go back, what are you going to do!" ”

Cheng Fangyuan saw him drink like this, and he was anxious to cry. A few friends grabbed the handle and carried Wang Gang to the car. Walking to the Sanyuan Bridge in Beijing, the car was still driving, And Wang Gang suddenly jumped out of the car with the car door, drunk and crazy, "I don't sit, I want to get off."

Cheng Fangyuan held the steering wheel while also taking care of the safety of Wang Gang in the back row, crying and coaxing, before arriving home.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

As soon as he stopped, Wang just pulled open the door and stood downstairs shouting, "This is not my home." "It's so noisy that upstairs and downstairs they all stick their heads out to see.

Wang Gang's "history of wine" began with Zhiqing, especially from his 26-year military career.

However, in the days with Cheng Fangyuan, his "indulgence" also reached a high incidence period.

Once, the couple went to Europe with the troupe to perform. When in France, the local Chinese were very enthusiastic, a series of liquor stores.

Wang Gang was overwhelmed, greedy for a cup, and drank himself to death. Cheng Fangyuan and his friends took him to fontainebleau emergency center. Along the way, Cheng Fangyuan had been pinching Wang Gang's people.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Later, in his book, he wrote that at that time, the body and soul were falling. After nearly an hour of first aid, I woke up, got off the ground, and went out.

At that time, I felt that the lawn I stepped on was like stepping on a cloud, and I had no energy on my body at all. At the lake, a young French couple was also seen taking wedding photos. Fontainebleau had a lot of peacocks, and I walked on the lawn, in the bushes. It's a picturesque feeling, very beautiful. The bride let out a cheerful laugh, which also sounded particularly melodious.

After passing through the ghost gate, Wang Gang still did not have a long memory. Every time before going out, Wang Gang could remember Cheng Fangyuan's ding-dong.

Cheng Fangyuan reminded Wang Gang: When it is difficult to control his temper outside, he must pay attention to her hints.

I can remember, but most of the time it's in vain.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Cheng Fangyuan once said: "Wang Gang and I have a complementarity, Wang Gang belongs to the traditional old-school men. ”

But this complementarity has been made impossible by the mundane.

Wang Gang once said, "If I and Yuanzi are good friends, then we may be very good friends." But there are many trivial and concrete things to live. The disagreement grew, slowly, little by little, and I don't know what was wrong, we really got apart. ”

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After the divorce, Wang Gang was depressed for a while, and later he switched to acting.

Co-produced the costume comedy "Iron Tooth Copper Tooth Ji Xiaolan" with Zhang Guoli and Zhang Tielin, and the living treasures of He Yan and Ji Xiaolan, laughing and scolding, revealed the variety of life and left a deep impression on the audience.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Later, Wang Gang filmed wonderful works such as "Dream Break forbidden city" and "Four Treasures of the Imperial Front".

After Wang Gang became famous, once, for unknown reasons, he typed Wang Gang's mailbox on the Beijing Radio and Television News. This time, the king of heaven just opened the mailbox to see, the mailbox is about to explode.

Suddenly, he found that an email was an English name, and it was very chic. So, Wang Gang replied, he said my old face, you also know, you also send a photo.

As a result, the photo was sent over, and it immediately impressed Wang Gang, which was the kind of black and white photo he envisioned, a long skirt, a black hair, and a cello. Her name is Zheng Yandong.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Zheng Yandong was the director of the Department of Western Instrumental Music at the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, who was also 37 years old at the time, unmarried, and the two got closer and closer from talking about art to life.

Planning to see his parents, Wang Gang knocked on the door, startling Zheng Yandong's mother, and his parents were surprised.

Zheng Yandong's mother prepared a table of dishes, and Zheng Yandong's father liked to drink. When they talked about happiness, the two drank and interacted for a long time, and Zheng Yandong's parents felt that it was reassuring to marry their daughter to Wang Gang, and they did not object.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

In love with Zheng Yandong, Wang Gang also entrusted people to inquire about Zheng Yandong and felt that people were very reliable.

Once, Zheng Yandong performed, and Wang Gang waited for her at the scene. Through the window, Wang Gang saw that Zheng Yandong was driving a car, and after getting out of the car, he had long hair and a back of the cello, and he was very sassy, and he thought that if he wanted to marry, he would marry like this.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

In 2006, the two married,

Two years later, Wang Yiding was born. At that time, Wang Gang was 70 years old, and hua Jia had a son. In the same year, his grandson was born.

Wang Gang enjoyed the pleasure of his descendants wrapping around his knees, and learned from Kong Yiji, "More than that, not much."

Wang Gang cherishes this family very much. In order to provide a better life for the children and wife, he came back to act, hosted the show, and has been active on the stage.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

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After the divorce, Cheng Fangyuan slowly walked out, the two marriages broke her heart, she longed for love, but she was not eager to get married, she could start her own trip at any time.

Sometimes also try the new things that are popular among young people, try skateboarding.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

In her career, she not only appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, recorded the theme song for the TV series, but also was invited to serve as a judge of the Voice of Asia International Music Festival.

Privately, she would hold small concerts of two or three hundred portrait music salons, singing while playing and singing, and sharing the emotions and stories of their time with her fans with music and singing. And her fans have long known her like old friends.

After 21 years, I looked at Cheng Fangyuan again, and I realized that leaving Wang Gang was the most correct choice

Cheng Fangyuan is now 62 years old, and she herself is very satisfied with her current life, maverick, at ease with the encounter, more calm than when she was twenty years old.

She's always had her own love, but doesn't want to explain too much. Everyone has their own way of living, and she has the right to keep her privacy.

When it comes to her feelings with Wang Gang, she always believes that it is a relief and a choice. She wondered whether in a few years' time there would be a new type of marriage, which was only maintained by love, without legal constraints, love was compatible, and if it was not loved, it was divided.

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