28-year-old Kunling gave birth to three children and decided to seal his belly! So do you really have to give birth to a baby early?

After the previous Liu Qihong's oolong, Jaylen's three-child little princess was finally born, and on the evening of May 6, Jay Chou posted a positive photo of her three-child daughter on her personal social platform

I have to say that this reincarnation is really a technical job. As soon as some girls are born, they have a music king father, a mixed-race mother with a huge appearance, and a cute and loving brother and sister, as a sister in the family, this birth is a proper group pet. Some girls, even if they want Jaylen's ribs to boil soup, Jaylen may not disagree with it.

Kunling was born on August 12, 1993 in Ximending, Taipei, and married Jay Chou at the age of 22 in the Castle in Yorkshire, England, and is now less than 29 years old after giving birth to three children. And the individual is very assertive, very early on the desire to form a big family, not some Cinderella married tycoons have fertility tasks, must have enough children or must be born to men

Seven years and three children, the wish of having three children before the age of thirty has been fulfilled, and after giving birth, he still has a hot body, a good face, and a superstar husband, to say that it is really a winner in life. Speaking of Kunling's reproductive age, it reminds Xiaobian of a question that is often debated: Is there an optimal age for childbearing? Is it better to be born early or later?

On this issue, let's first listen to what 2021 Harbin C Queen Qi Yumeng (interview at the moment, 25-year-old second child) said

Regarding whether to give birth to a baby early or wait until you are physically and mentally ready, there has never been a constant "quarrel". But in fact, since the opening of the three-child policy, many elderly women have been fighting for the second child and the third child. There is also a lot of news in the room about super-old orphan parents having children again

Then many women can't help but want to ask,

Is it that the current medical means are more developed,

Can you ignore this question of childbearing age that was particularly concerned before?

Having children early at a young age,

Are there any other advantages?

On this point, the professional doctor said:

Part 1

Risk of advanced age

In fact, whether it is news or celebrities, it does not represent everyone. After all, celebrity mothers are in good health, harmonious in their families, and have enough funds to support the choice of a good medical environment and a recovery environment.

The super-aged mothers in the news are only the result of selective media coverage - this kind of thing is rare and will cause discussion. The average elderly mother still needs to pay enough attention and care to herself and her family:

The probability of pregnancy complications is increased

According to the results of the study, compared with women of the right age (20-34 years), the risk of pregnancy complications such as hypertension, diabetes, pre-eclampsia, etc. is increased, and screening for these diseases is required before pregnancy.

Prone to prolonged or difficult labour

Due to age, changes in muscles and bones may lead to poor elasticity of joint ligament tissues, uterus is prone to contracture weakness, and ossification of the sciatic bone, pubic bone, hip bone and dice bone junction, which may lead to difficulties in childbirth.

Most afraid of miscarriage

Data show that the miscarriage rate for women aged 25 to 30 is 15 per cent, compared with 40 per cent after age 40. And every miscarriage is a hurt for the mother.

The probability of congenital anomalies in the fetus is increased

The well-known fetal congenital anomaly is The Down's sign, which refers to the extra chromosome on the 21st pair of chromosomes, also known as trisomy 21 syndrome. Since eggs age as women age, the older a woman gets, the more prone the eggs she gets to problems in cell division.

That night marriage and late childbearing is not necessary, is it not?

How to say it, there is no child without sin, and there is no pregnancy without complete risk! You can't be young and careless, no matter what your age, it's always good to be careful

How can it be considered an advanced maternal age? 30+？ 40+？

Generally speaking, even if the 35+ mother is old, it still depends on the physical state of the individual.

Part 2

Precautions

If you really exceed the optimal age of childbearing, do not panic, you should pay more attention, it is best to have a planned pregnancy, so that you can be more prepared:

Preconception check-up

Preconception testing is especially important because of the increased risk of complications. (Oh both sides!) In addition to ordinary physical examination and routine gynecological examination, it is also necessary to tell the doctor about the medical history (chronic disease history, family history and genetic history, bad pregnancy history, etc.), which is very important for the doctor's judgment, and can also be targeted in advance for prevention.

Healthy living

Both husband and wife should ensure the health and regularity of life when they are preparing for pregnancy. Stay away from tea, alcohol, tobacco, coffee, staying up late, high stress, anxiety and more. Please be sure to pull your husband together to eat a balanced diet and exercise reasonably, after all, the health of sperm is also super important! (Also, stay pregnant and after childbirth!) ）

folic acid

During the pregnancy preparation period, you can start to arrange it, and you can take it according to the instructions or medical advice. If you don't take it in advance, don't panic, and you can also start eating after pregnancy.

Pregnancy tests

As mentioned above, many elderly women may face dangers, so no matter what, we must go to the examination strictly on time and do not be afraid of trouble.

Special note: when pregnant at 16-20 weeks, Down's screening should be carried out, which is a must-do item for elderly pregnant women; amniocentesis should be done after 20 weeks of pregnancy to check whether the fetus is abnormal.

Attention in labour

Because the indications for caesarean section in elderly pregnant women are high, in the expected period of one to three weeks, they can be admitted to the obstetrics and gynecology department of the hospital in advance according to their personal circumstances, and do a good job of prenatal supervision.

Part 3

man?

The study found that men also had the "optimal age to have children", but not as obviously as women:

With age, the male testicles will gradually become smaller and softer, the shape of the sperm will change, and the motility will weaken, which will affect the ability to fertilize.

Couples who are under the age of 25 are more likely to conceive than couples aged 35 or older than men. If the man is over 24 years old, for each additional 1 year, the chance of conceiving within one year decreases by 3%.

For sperm, the average data for men at age 20 years is:

The volume of semen is 3 ml

Mean sperm concentration 92x106/ml

The average sperm count is 345x106

Average sperm motility rate 50.0%

Average anterior sperm motility rate 29.0%

The average number of forward motility sperm is 96.6x106.

And with each increase in age by 1 year:

The volume of semen decreased by 0.03 ml

0.7% decrease in sperm motility

3.1% decrease in forward motion

The number of sperm in the forward movement decreases by 4.7%.

Here are some things to say:

Regarding the problem of having children at an advanced age, just childbearing itself is already challenging the laws of nature, and childbirth is a problem, and raising children is a bigger problem!

Even putting aside the dangers of childbearing, it is debatable whether super-advanced childbearing can really bring "hope" to life or the change you want.

As some netizens say, a big problem with advanced childbearing is... The parents of other people's children will be young mom and dad open, your child is "looking like grandparents" mom and dad open... Another is that maybe the child will have to bear the burden of providing for the elderly to the parents at a young age...

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