Reconciliation is a way to alleviate anxiety, but in the adult world, efficiency is the focus of our attention.
Because the problem is solved, anxiety and stress naturally disappear.
Instead of solving the actual problem, the settlement wasted time that should have been spent thinking, allowing itself and the DDL to be infinitely closer.
Moreover, forced reconciliation is also prone to secondary harm.
How to reconcile? Others have reconciled, I have not reconciled, is it one step behind others... Problems such as these keep surfacing, triggering a new round of anxiety.
So, leave reconciliation behind for the time being.
As an adult, remember to think too much and do too little. After you understand what you really want, just try to do it.
Just as I'm trying to beg my readers to give me a big thumbs up and a big thumbs up.
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