Recently, Zheng Kai's wife Miao Miao posted a video of the birth examination, and the text: "Although I lost weight during the isolation period, the baby grew well and was at ease." Subsequently, #Zheng Kai Miao Miao officially announced that she was pregnant with her second child#, which was on the Weibo hot search list, and netizens expressed their blessings
Time flies so fast, it feels like the two have just been married, and now they are pregnant with their second child. Looking back at the time when the two were together, many people felt that they seemed to be a little incompatible. One has the title of "little prince of the nightclub" and the other is the image of "well-behaved woman", and according to the logic of the past, these two distinct types are difficult to come together. But the "little prince of the nightclub" is in love with the "well-behaved girl". 1 It is not important to get along, what is important is to get along with you comfortable Zheng Kai has been photographed many times shuttling through major nightclubs, there are many beautiful women around, and the behavior is intimate, so it has the title of "Little Prince of nightclubs". In the entertainment industry, he has also passed on gossip with Sun Xiaoxiao, Li Xiaomeng, Yuan Shanshan and so on. In addition to many "gossip girlfriends", many people also pay attention to his love affair with Cheng Xiaoyue, who often shows affection after they are together, which makes everyone think that they will eventually become a family. But whenever he encountered a marriage urging, Zheng Kai avoided talking about it, and in the end the two were separated.
Having experienced so much, Zheng Kai can be regarded as "reading countless women", perhaps he is still looking forward to a "clean" girl to be his wife, after all, compared to his "flower world", Miao Miao, who does not have any gossip and is gentle and considerate, is the best candidate. Miao Miao was born into an ordinary family and learned to dance from an early age. Later into the entertainment industry, has not been in contention, focused on quiet acting, at the beginning is just a "small transparent" like existence, most of the roles are unknown small roles, until later with the movie "Fanghua" a hit. It is precisely because of this popularity that she entered the perspective of the public, had the opportunity to participate in the event, and performed on the same stage with Zheng Kai in a show, and the two officially met.
In fact, before this, Miao Miao had a good feeling for Zheng Kai, she once said that when she was under pressure, she would watch "Running Man", And Zheng Kai's innate humor and optimism often made her laugh and forget the fatigue of the day. For the silent and introverted Miao Miao, Zheng Kai's sunshine and humor are particularly attractive to her. And Zheng Kai, who is a little childish and loves to play, can only be tamed by Miao Miao's gentleness and thoughtfulness and understanding. The experience from childhood has cultivated Miao Miao's gentle and calm temperament, and Zheng Kai is very comfortable with her, which also makes him finally willing to calm down, choose to get married, and live a peaceful and stable life. After marrying Zheng Kai, Miao Miao shifted her focus to the family. 2 girls choose to return to the family, there are 3 points to pay attention to Miao Miao and Zheng Kai officially announced that they gave birth to their daughter Xiao Yogurt after 5 months of marriage. After giving birth, when participating in the variety show "Run Bar 9", when asked about the wishes of the two people, they all unanimously wrote "having a second child".
It can also be seen from here that Miao Miao's focus has completely shifted to the family, and the current family model of the two people is "male outside the female inside". A few days ago, Miao Miao posted the pregnancy test vlog, because Zheng Kai made money outside, she could only drive to the maternity examination with a big belly, and even if she wanted to see her husband, she could only watch it on TV, which really made netizens feel sad.
Her experience is also the status quo of many full-time wives: her husband is busy at work, sometimes travels on business, often can't see his shadow, and waits for him to come back every day like Wangfushi. In life, there are indeed many girls who go to the maternity examination on their own, and their husbands have to go to work without holidays to accompany them. But girls, especially during pregnancy, need the most is the care of their husbands. When a person goes to the pregnancy test in the hospital and sees other pregnant women with their husbands, they are a little pitiful to themselves, once or twice, it is fine, in the long run, there may be some complaints about him. When some netizens were distressed about Miao Miao, Zheng Kai commented in the comment area: "I want to go home."
This is also the status quo of most boys who struggle outside, this "male outside the female inside" model makes the burden on men heavier, they have to work harder to earn money to support the family. In life, the boy's side of the perennial running outside leads to very tired, very much need a person can give themselves encouragement, encounter some unpleasant things want to find someone to talk to. However, because of the reason of working outside, there is no way to return home, and slowly many emotions accumulate and output, and a sense of loneliness and loneliness arises in my heart. This may force you to find someone close to you, and slowly you will find that person whenever something happens. In this way, as the communication between husband and wife is less and less, the feelings will slowly fade, the two sides will not look at each other well, the friction will be more and more, and the worst and worst result is to make the marriage light up "red light". This kind of "male outside the female protagonist" is the traditional domestic family model, which may still be very sweet at the beginning, but with the passage of time, it is inevitable that there will be some "friction".
The most classic problems are the following 3 kinds: (1) Think that you are paying, so you always complain that the other party is at home cleaning the housework for a busy day, but the husband says that you have not done anything, only spend money. As soon as the husband came back, he waited for food, and when he finished eating, he lay on the couch and lay down, lazy like a pig at home. These small contradictions arise because both sides do not understand each other's lives and always feel that they are the hard side. Just like the partner working outside to make money is very hard, at home you don't know so you don't understand; and he usually can't see you at home, and don't know your tiredness, so both sides always feel that they are only paying and complaining about each other. Small advice to reduce complaining: If there is a situation where we want to blame each other, we should try to understand each other: Oh, he works so hard outside every day today, I will make him a delicious meal to treat him; you can also think more about his advantages: my husband is very strong, can earn money to support the family alone, and is so handsome... In this way, you can not only make your mood better, but also make your feelings a little stronger.
(2) Worried about the other party's "cheating", the old suspicion of the other party "where did you go at night, how did you come back so late, there is still such a big smell of wine on your body." "Get together with good brothers, manage everything, really like an old mother" There will be these manifestations of distrust, the main thing is that there is too little communication between you. Because you are usually at home, you don't know who he contacts outside, and he is very tired when he comes home from work, and he goes to sleep after eating and taking a bath, and the contact and communication between the two sides slowly becomes less. Therefore, as soon as something is wrong, it will think wildly on its own, and even "make up a QiongYao drama". Small advice to reduce suspicion: there is jealousy is not trust, when there is a crisis of trust, do not deliberately say angry words, or even say words of doubt, we should first keep calm: it is okay, it must be that I think too much, may be with friends to drink, so late to come back because too long did not see want to get together for a while, very normal. After calming down, open your heart to him, say your doubts, and communicate in time, otherwise small contradictions will slowly ferment into larger contradictions. Like this, say your doubts, communicate in time, and the dark clouds will not all run away
(3) And you can not communicate, it is better to find a "friend" because of the "male outside the female inside" model, outside he pays more attention to work, social problems, and at home you pay more attention to family, children things. Slowly your common topic will become less, he comes back to share things with you, you don't know much, you can't continue the topic with him, and gradually he doesn't want to open a new topic. There is no way to share the frequency, there is no common topic, the feelings will slowly fade, then he may want to go outside to make friends with common topics, the most serious consequence is to make the marriage "red light". Tips to prevent feelings from fading: Try to reconnect your lives: for example, you can develop a common interest, learn the same skill, etc., so that you have some common topics; and keep going out on dates: it can be a weekly family meeting, a month and he alone to go out to see a movie, every six months travel... These can enhance your feelings, so that the plain married life has more expectations, more sense of ceremony, and the feelings will naturally not fade.
Therefore, although "male outside the female protagonist" is a common family model in China, in fact, no matter what the model will have problems, at this time you need to run in, encounter more communication, and understand each other. A person who is truly happy in marriage generally has the ability to manage feelings, the management of marriage requires the joint efforts of both parties, and a negotiated marriage is what we advocate.