On the 26th day of the square cabin, we received a 16-year-old child who snuggled up to his father, indifferent and without a word. At first, we couldn't communicate with him, thinking he was deaf and mute, and later we learned that he was reluctant to talk since he was a child. For the next few days, he lay in bed without saying a word, his eyes were sluggish, and he only repeated the same action, and for such a big child, we need to pay special attention and care to him.
We tried to find topics that interested him, to communicate with him, to try to play games with him, to guess boxing, but even if we brought out all the snacks, he ignored us. We know that a task that is much more difficult than routine care is in front of us, but we will never give up, remotely connecting with the psychologist, constantly feedbacking and communicating the behavior of the child every day. After a few days of tireless efforts, the older boy finally made some reactions, we talked to him, he would look at us, would nod and smile at us, and make some responses to us, which made us very pleased. To communicate with such a special group of people, what we need is more patience and love, empathy with the other party, and let him unload his defenses. Slowly, the eldest child became friends with us, and his father actually had tears in his eyes, and he told us that the older children enjoyed more in the cabin than at home, and the older children had never smiled so happily.
The touching stories in the cabin are staged every day, and this father and son pair also touch us a lot. In the cabin, the father also took the initiative to join the volunteer activities. The last time the uncle opposite turned yin and was about to be discharged, but the uncle was very anxious, he took the initiative to do the uncle's thought work to alleviate his nervous and anxious emotions, at this time, he was not only an excellent father, but also a warm and kind volunteer.
It has been a month since I came to the cabin, let us see the truth everywhere in the world, looking at this father and son, I also think of my own son. Every time the video, the son will ask when to come back, now the son's dependence on me has gradually shifted to his father, perhaps he has become accustomed to his mother's every anti-epidemic support, he knows that his mother as a medical worker, the responsibility and responsibility on his shoulders, no matter how unwilling he is in his heart, he can only put it in his heart, he will also grow into a little man.
Jiangsu Aid Shanghai Medical Team Southern Medical University Second Affiliated Hospital Detachment Team Member: Huang Tingting