Capricorn is one of the twelve zodiac signs
The sign with the strongest sense of responsibility and the most like to "avoid responsibility".
This sentence seems contradictory, but it can also be proved by the many details of Capricorn.
In fact, when you are young, Capricorn gives people the feeling that there is a kind of appearance
A sense of old age that doesn't match age
, that is, what everyone often calls precocious puberty.
Imagine how precocious people generally behave?
Loneliness, forbearance, little talk, diligence, worry, etc., these seem to make people feel that they are torturing their own behavior, but in Capricorn, it happens all the time.
However, the mature personality makes Capricorn never show these things easily. We can only see their serious and cold looks, and it seems that nothing has ever attracted his attention.
But what bothers them the most is never the courage to take responsibility, but the lack of knowing how to deal with "avoidance of responsibility".
Capricorn friends think carefully, when faced with major choices, do they often have such a mentality:
For example, in the relationship, I obviously encountered a relationship that I felt was quite ok, but when it came to the node of the relationship, my heart was worried and I could not make up my mind.
At this time, it is certainly not that The Capricorn friend does not want to take responsibility, and what makes people speechless is that he feels that he is not ready.
Because I feel that I am not ready, feel that my work is not stable enough, the material security of life is not solid enough, and my ability is not enough to manage this relationship, so the answer given in my heart is to wait.
This tends to be stable and realistic,
In my own view, it is completely for the sake of wanting to be responsible for people, but in the eyes of the other party, the painful place is that I would rather accompany you to start from scratch, or I am willing to accompany you to share happiness and suffering, but why do you think so?
In fact, this situation is that Capricorns are worried, although there are ten thousand of them who are unwilling to toss like this.
However, you know, the way to love Capricorn lovers is to let them have enough confidence to make each other happy, to put it bluntly, even if the lover is at home, there is no need to do anything, no work, no work, but you can still raise your lover well.
The premise is that this ability must be able to make Capricorn feel at ease.
However, this kind of strength is not easy for everyone to do.
So at this awkward age or situation, the pain of Capricorn is that it is difficult to do it when they know that they want to give each other the best life in the world.
So much so that when they realize that this is both a responsibility and a pure fantasy, Capricorn chooses to escape.
Of course, they will also work hard for this goal, but if the gap between reality and ideals is too far away, the end result is that because of fear of not doing well enough, the more they think about it, the more negative they think, the more anxious they think.
As a result, I have more time to think about it every day, and less time to really take out energy to work, just like walking into a dead cycle, which leads to slowly consuming my inner thoughts and fighting spirit in a gradually depressed state of mind.
In fact, many people have this state, but it is very obvious in Capricorn, and it can even be said that the more it is in such a state, Capricorn needs to spend a long time to know itself, so that it can live soberly, and then gradually come out.
This is the sadness of Capricorn:
Never afraid to take responsibility, but often feel that they are not qualified to do it.
In fact, what we have to agree with is that Capricorn is indeed a very kind and responsible type, never actively avoiding responsibility, but in the heart is often afraid that after doing this, they can't control it, and facing a messy situation, for Capricorn is the last thing to face.
Therefore, instead of worrying about not getting a good result after doing your best, you would simply avoid the matter before it happened.
Even for Capricorn, for things that you are not sure of, taking the initiative not to participate, not doing it is the most responsible performance.
This style of either not doing it, or doing it to the end, or not loving, or loving to the end, is both easy to attract and easy to hurt.
And for the things that care, Capricorn can really do without any concept of time.
For example, in a relationship, if Capricorn has quietly fallen in love with each other, but finds that they do not have enough ability to love, then they first avoid to confess, and then they realize that they are confident enough to do it, is this not the most appropriate and best choice?
So that's where Capricorns work, and you know how tired they really are.
The road of life is so long, can anyone really make sure that everything along the way can be foolproof?
However, at such a time, for Capricorns, it is no longer a question of whether they are tired or not, nor is it a question of whether they are worth it or not, but something they feel should be, whether they want to or not.
Capricorn will tell himself the answer, and if this is not done, it will be too much for himself.
He only hopes that in the process of continuous effort and hard work, the other party can also get happiness, and he can also feel this happiness.
How tired is the courage to live responsibly, how much I hope that someone can accompany their happiness.
This is the only way for Capricorn life, and it is more like a spiritual journey.
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