If you married the goddess of your dreams, would you cherish it?
André Dotty is one such lucky person.
At the age of 14, he saw the gorgeous Audrey Hepburn in "Roman Holiday" and made a wish to marry the goddess home. At the age of 30, he met the newly divorced goddess and became her second husband.
Hepburn was satisfied with his married life and spent many years in the film for Doti.
But this wandering man, still crazy derailed in the case of a goddess at home, countless nightclub affairs have fed many small street newspapers.
01, the first marriage ended, Hepburn travel to heal
Hepburn was born into an aristocratic family, but her childhood was not happy. Her father was fascinated by militarism and abandoned the family as early as Hepburn was 6 years old. Hepburn grew up without his father's protection and survived the gunfire of World War II.
Deep down, Hepburn is a little girl who longs for love and family integrity.
Therefore, when Hepburn first started his career, he married his first husband, the American director Mel Feller, who was 12 years older than her.
Hepburn with her first husband
But this first husband, who came from a privileged background and was accustomed to the stars and the moon, was psychologically unbalanced in his wife's noun. He could not accept the life of being called "Hepburn's husband", and the relationship between the two came to an end.
When the two divorced, their son, Sean, was only eight years old. He watched his mother sad and sad, watching her cut her long hair short for years and leave the home they once had.
Hepburn decided to pick up her frustrations, and she put Shaun in a boarding school for the time being, traveling to Greece with two friends.
Hepburn's first husband
The two friends are a loving couple, and the two of them sprinkle dog food all the way, causing a lot of critical blows to Hepburn, who is back single.
The goddess who looks forward to love in her heart can naturally attract peach blossoms, and her second husband is about to appear.
Hepburn's first husband's family portrait
02, the handsome doctor on a luxury cruise ship
The blue seas of Greece have a pleasant sunshine. On a luxury cruise ship haunted by high-class people, a doctor named Andre Dotty attracts Hepburn's attention.
He is a psychologist from Rome, Italy, and a teaching assistant at the University of Rome. Hepburn's eyes dotty was young and handsome, a man 9 years younger than him, who had just entered his own stage of maturity, and there was sincerity and eagerness in her eyes.
The luxury cruise ship travels slowly, and the two of them stroll on the deck to enjoy the sunset not far away. Hepburn learned about Dotty's family during the conversation. The man was born into a well-known family in Rome, where his father worked in a newspaper. His three siblings were equally brilliant, with bankers, sociologists and electrical engineers. Dotty, a psychiatrist, also has her own private practice.
Rome, it's a special city, where Hepburn filmed Roman Holiday. Looking at the Roman man in front of him, the special in Hepburn's heart added a lot of impressions to Dotty.
Hepburn and her second husband
Dotty can speak the Tao, and three words and two words can close the psychological distance between the two people. He paints his own scenes watching Roman Holiday, helburn on screen is smart and elegant, and he excitedly tells his mother that he wants to marry the princess in the film.
Many years later, he met Hepburn at a dance party, but at that time, Hepburn and her first husband were in a strong relationship and did not notice him, and this time it was a bonus to meet Hepburn on a cruise ship.
Dotty made no secret of her fascination with Hepburn, which gave Hepburn a lot of confidence. The harsh suppression of her first husband made Hepburn have serious self-doubts, and she really needed a gentle and considerate person, a sweet company.
Dotty prepared a video recorder for this sea trip, intending to record many beautiful moments. But Hepburn was reluctant to expose his private life, and Dotty thoughtfully avoided Hepburn's shots. This respect and thoughtfulness gave Hepburn a great sense of security, and the two became inseparable on the cruise ship.
03, the second marriage with a difference of 9 years
The two have known each other for a short time, but they can't wait to get married.
For Hepburn, she longs for a happy family too much, and she needs to heal the wounds of her previous marriage with love. For Dotty, a big star like Hepburn is like a meteor in the sky, and it must be held in the hands.
Hepburn and her second husband
In order to give both sides a sense of security, Hepburn held a special press conference and admitted the relationship. But there was opposition from Dotty's family, partly because of the age gap and partly because of religious beliefs.
Italy, unlike other European countries, has a family concept somewhat similar to that of China, and the family members are closely related, and they feel that the reproduction of heirs is a very important thing.
When the two fell in love, Hepburn was 39 years old. Due to poor health, Hepburn suffered frequent miscarriages in his previous marriage and only had his first son in the fifth year of marriage. And Dotty is only 30 years old, can find a healthy, healthy, equal age girl, give birth to a lot of lively and strong children.
Moreover, Hepburn believes in Christianity, while Dotty believes in Catholicism. In Catholic rule, believers may not partner with divorced persons.
Even without considering religious factors, Dotty is still a psychologist, this job is about word of mouth, marrying a big star is too high-profile, which is a risk that can be avoided.
Hepburn and eldest son Sean
The family told Dotty about their concerns, but that didn't dampen Dotty's enthusiasm for Hepburn. To alleviate the obstacles, Dotty decided to take Hepburn to visit her mother alone.
The gentle and soft temperament on He's own was indeed deeply liked by Doti's mother.
In the eyes of this noble lady, hepburn, who was middle-aged, was still as beautiful as ever, and she had tenderness in her eyes, and she did not have the appearance of other big stars. Moreover, Hepburn, who came from an aristocratic background, shared many common hobbies with Doti, and their love came from the attraction of the heart.
The man's family gradually accepted Hepburn, but Hepburn's relatives and friends were urging her to think twice. In the eyes of her friends, she has just ended a marriage, and she can vigorously develop her career, wait until the emotional state is suitable, and then consider the next marriage.
Hepburn's mother also hopes that her daughter will not be angry, Italian men are naturally affectionate, and it is absolutely to be seen whether Dotty can still be single-minded when the hot love period has passed.
But Hepburn was already determined, and she expressed her warm mood: "Do you know what it feels like to be hit on the head by a falling brick? ”
Hepburn and his mother as a child
That Christmas, Hepburn flew to Rome to accompany Dotty. Dotty took out a huge Bulgarian diamond ring and formally proposed to Hepburn.
The two were married in Switzerland. This time Hepburn did not wear a white wedding dress, but chose a pink dress. This woman, bathed in love, held a small bouquet of flowers in her hand and once again walked into marriage.
04, a tug-of-war between sentimentality and perseverance
At the beginning of this marriage, Hepburn was lucky. The pregnancy problems that had plagued her at first didn't come up, and she had good news three months after her new marriage.
After getting married, Hepburn has been considering hughing, and the arrival of the child has made her make up her mind. Hepburn told a friend: "From the age of 13 to 38 I worked non-stop and was really tired. I needed to relax and not want to live on the set as soon as I woke up. ”
But what followed was not a peaceful and happy marriage routine, but a rumor of Dotty's infidelity. During pregnancy, Dotty, like other Italian men, attracted butterflies, his eyes always fixed on other beautiful women, and all kinds of gossip reached Hepburn's ears uncontrollably.
Hepburn naively believed that this was just a special case of pregnancy.
Dotty is too young, and when he becomes a father, his mind will inevitably turn to the family. But the newspaper news still caused a burden on her body, and before giving birth, Hepburn was too weak to give birth naturally, and could only use caesarean section.
On February 8, 1970, Hepburn's second son, Luca, was born, and Dotty's behavior was much more restrained.
But Hepburn still does not plan to return to the film world, she wants to spend all her energy to accompany the family, husband and two children need her care. Being a good wife and a good mother is her desire at the moment.
In the face of the kindness of major directors, Hepburn can only joke that if the filming location is at the doorstep of the home, she can go home for dinner at noon, and she is also willing to take over the film.
Saying goodbye to the days of the film industry, Hepburn is not boring. She often visits her husband's psychiatric clinic to pass the time, so she has a strong interest in psychology. And her empathy has also brought comfort to many patients, and Hepburn's life has been very fulfilling during this time.
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long, and Dotty's wind and affair disease was committed again.
He often went to various nightclubs in Rome and even mingled with Danilla, Italy's most notorious female model. The scandal of the big star husband attracted many lace tabloids, and Hepburn often saw a picture of her husband appear in a magazine on the street.
05, life is bitter, back to the film world
In order to relieve the pain of family life, Hepburn decided to take over the film and turn his attention to work. But this comeback is also full of twists and turns.
Hepburn never wanted to be too far from home, so he rejected Nikolai and Alexandra, which was filmed in the Soviet Union. The director invited her to play the granddaughter of Empress Victoria, which would have been a very suitable role.
Later, Hepburn was moved by the script of "Forty Carats" and fell in love with the middle-aged woman of the young athlete, which was a role that resonated with her life. But the filming location was still far away and did not meet Hepburn's expectations.
Seeing his mother's embarrassment, the eldest son, Sean, took the initiative to encourage his mother. Hepburn finally decided to travel to Spain to participate in Robin Hood and Marianne. At that time, Hepburn had not made a movie in 7 years, and the changes in the environment on the set made her very uncomfortable.
It seems that all of a sudden, everyone is living an efficient life, and everyone is in a hurry. The actors never had another chance to drink afternoon tea and chat and rest. Even if she is a big star, she has to follow the crew's timetable.
The inability to rest well caused Hepburn to quickly lose weight. In order to prevent the change in body shape, Hepburn could only drink a lot of beer and become fat, but it still had no effect. During this year's shooting, Hepburn also contracted dysentery because he did not rest well.
But she managed to return to show business and officially announced her return the following year as an awards guest for "Flying Over the Madhouse".
06, the marriage that has come to an end
As a big star, Hepburn has always feared that his children will be kidnapped. This is definitely not a fantasy, just as Hepburn is putting his focus back on work, Dotty is kidnapped.
A car drove into her husband's hospital, and Dotty was staying in the hallway of the hospital. Several masked men rushed forward, trying to tuck Doti into the car. Fortunately, they didn't have any weapons with them, and Doti fought back and escaped their control.
Hepburn, distraught, left Rome with his two children and headed for Switzerland.
Hepburn and eldest son
The separation of the two created an opportunity for Dotty to cheat. Emotionally unstable, Hepburn once again suffered a miscarriage. At that time, Hepburn was really helpless, she did not understand why her charm was not as good as any woman outside, and she proposed a divorce in desperation.
This time Dotty didn't speak, but Dotty's mother refused Hepburn's request, because the family liked Hepburn and treated her completely as family.
But this retention was only temporarily effective, and when Hepburn saw In full in the National Investigation magazine, Dotty's detailed affair with many women, she made up her mind to divorce.
Ironically, Dotty has always disagreed with divorce, and the two have maintained a long separation relationship.
It wasn't until 1983 that Dotty suddenly changed her mind and couldn't wait to move forward with the divorce proceedings as she met actress Christina Boggie. I want to propose to my new lover.
A person who puts love first will easily enter marriage, because a happy family is her life pursuit.
But the quality of marriage has always been based on each other's character and the harmony of the two, and the moth jumping into marriage is more like a gamble.
After two traumatic marriages, Hepburn finally found her tender home, and this time she did not marry again. She felt genuine love and gentle companionship, and did not need other external bondage.