For each of us, the name is not only a symbol, but also contains the wishes of parents for their children. Therefore, every parent must carefully consider when naming their child. A good name depends not only on the knowledge of the parents, but sometimes on a little bit of luck.
Case Study:
Mr. Lee had just given birth to a child, but he didn't know how to name the child. After all, he was not a cultured man. As a result, his family often objected to his name, believing that his name was unreliable because he had taken relatively simple and interesting names such as Iron Egg and Dog Scum
The family not only refuted such a name, but even asked Mr. Li to think again. Otherwise, the name will be decided by Mr. Lee's wife. Mr. Li did not want to name the child, so he racked his brains and finally came up with a name - Dongfeng
When Mr. Li happily told his family the name he had taken and asked the nurse to help him register the child's birth certificate, the nurse accidentally wrote less because his name was wrong, so it was written as Dongfeng
Mr. Li was angry at first and wanted to go to the nurse to check out, but the child's mother said she would not change for the time being! It turns out that the child's mother thinks that such a name is what is called "cheap name easy to feed". For children, such a name is better
However, we should still pay attention to naming. This coincidence doesn't happen every day. Parents may wonder what effect it will have on their children if they choose the wrong name.
What effect does choosing the wrong name affect your child.
1: Children are vulnerable to bullying at school.
If a child's name is not good, it is easy to be bullied at school because many students judge a person by his name, which is often referred to as first impression. If you have a bad impression, it is easy to be bullied by other bad students, so parents should pay special attention
2: Children can easily become inferior
Even if they are not bullied by other students, it will have a certain impact on the child. If the child's name does not get well, the child will be ashamed of his name. Therefore, parents should be careful when naming their children so as not to adversely affect their children
We already know that taking the wrong name can have a negative effect on the child, so how can we give the child a good name? We may wish to refer to these methods to give our children a good, cultured name
How parents name their children
1) Refer to ancient poetry classics
Ancient poetry classics are a good reference direction, because the words and sentences in ancient poetry are very cultural. In addition, the words used in the past are relatively elegant, so you don't have to be afraid to get ugly and vulgar names. Don't pay attention, when shooting, you should check the current meaning of ancient words through dictionaries and search engines to avoid giving your child the wrong name.
2) Note the name
There are many minefields. Parents should avoid giving their children names that are homophones or polyphonic characters. Also pay attention to whether the names are names with fewer words and more strokes, because these names will make children spend too much time writing their own names on exams and homework
Keeping in mind these named minefields, reasonably avoiding them will give the child a name that won't be excluded and won't affect the child.
conclusion:
From the above we can see the importance of names. Therefore, we must pay special attention to naming our children, otherwise they will cause harm to them as mentioned above. Parents may wish to help their children name their children through the above methods. While avoiding the above naming minefields, they can use ancient poetry classics to name children. In this way, they can give their children a good, culturally-educated name.