For men, money and power are the most testing things of their humanity, the so-called men have money to become bad, almost tried and tested. Of course, men's right to power can also be bad, and they are equally tried and tested.
Sukarno, the "hero" who came out of the era of Indonesia's national independence movement, has always been regarded by Indonesians as the "father of Indonesia".
However, this leader, who is indispensable in the eyes of his own people, has almost lived out his willfulness after power: he has been married 4 times in his life, and he is dashing and affectionate.
Sukarno's first marriage was a standard sibling relationship, with a wife 12 years older than him. I think it will not be the product of the fate of the parents, but from Sukarno's own definition of love.
Sukarno's 12-year-old wife, Ingit, is capable and virtuous, and she has been accompanying her husband with strong support during Sukarno's crusades.
In 1945, at the age of 44, Sukarno became President of the Republic of Indonesia. Logically, Inget should have worked hard and naturally become the first lady. But she didn't, at this time she was 56 years old, and she offered to divorce Sukarno in order to let the country have a more beautiful and young first lady.
Of course, we can understand that Ingit knew Too much about Sukarno and knew that he could not go to jail in the first lady's seat.
Why? After the divorce, Ingit introduced a new wife directly to Sukarno: Famawati. If she hadn't been unwilling, she wouldn't have done it. The reason for this is that Famawati is not an ordinary girl, she is the adopted daughter of Ingit, who was only 17 years old at the time.
Famawati
This guada is not a big deal, but for Soekarno, everything is taken for granted, and he not only married his adopted daughter Famawati, but also had 4 children with her.
Sukarno saved the galaxy in his previous life, and after his birth, he saved Hinyasi, so he let a mother and son offer it as heaven, right?
But Inget did not expect that the adopted daughter, who was 27 years younger than her ex-husband, had not been able to take on the responsibility of the first lady. Less than 10 years after marriage, Sukarno had a leg split and was a married woman who had five children.
According to relevant information, the woman Sukarno knew was his later third wife, Hatini. The two fell in love at first sight, so he was desperate to live with Hatini.
The one on the right is Hatini
Famawati, who is not yet 28 years old, is very dissatisfied with this, she married young, had children, supported her husband's career, and ended up in such an end. So, in a fit of rage, she moved out of the palace with her child.
It was just right to make room for Hatini. Sukarno was not ashamed of this, but on the contrary had a good idea: "I am a very devout Muslim, and I am also very strict with the old rules, and since Allah allow us to marry four wives at the same time, it is reasonable for me to be with Hatini." ”
That's true, the old rules of the day were true. This also seems to give Sukarno the green light in another way: I must marry 4 wives to be worthy of the rule left by my ancestors.
But for the people, being the president is so willful, it really shouldn't be. Therefore, hatini's existence is very questionable, and it is always disgraceful for a married woman to do such a thing.
Sukarno simply kept Hatini in his villa and told her to go out less often so as not to bring hidden dangers to her safety. But this is bound to reduce the opportunity to contact with Sukarno, and this feeling will fade away.
But it doesn't matter, Sukarno is a person who can't stay idle, always looking for the right person for himself. No, when Sukarno was about to turn 60, he met his fourth wife: Nanaboko.
In 1959, Sukarno visited Japan, and we will not mention the political relations between them, so as not to be discouraged. At that time, Sukarno was staying in the hotel hosting the president, and the security measures were quite in place.
This means that Sukarno cannot have contact with unrelated personnel. However, Sukarno had an interest in the Japanese businessman Masao Kubo, and in order to please him, the other party introduced a waitress named Nemoto Nanaboko to provide services to him.
Although Nanaboko was only 19 years old at the time, she was a beautiful woman who debuted early. Sukarno took a fancy to this beautiful and young girl: my fourth wife is her.
Nanaboko later published an autobiography about it, in which she said, "From that night on, Sukarno and I began to live together. A dim corner of the presidential palace with no electric lights became a place for our long-term dating. For a long time few people knew about this house... The first night we were alone, he (Sukarno) said to me: 'I hope you can give me pleasure and give me strength.' ’”
In fact, Sukarno was very satisfied with miss Nanahoko, who was a waiter, so he missed it after leaving, and finally mentioned it directly to the Japanese side.
As the president of a country, no matter how improper, the Japanese side will also meet Sukarno's conditions. So, three months later, Shichihoko quietly arrived in Jakarta and became Sukarno's secretary.
Not long after, Sukarno justifiably brought Shichihoko back to the palace, held a wedding with him at the mosque, and changed the name of Shichihoko: Ratona Sally Devi. Yes, she is Mrs. Devi, who is still alive today.
After marriage, Sukarno gave all kinds of favors to Qibaozi Needless to say, the so-called old is not as good as the new, as soon as the fourth lady entered the palace, other women lost their gender, including Hatini, who fell in love at first sight.
Sukarno not only favored Nanaboko, but also had the idea of relying on each other for life and death. He mentioned twice in his handwritten edict that after his death, he hoped to be buried with Shichihoko because "I have a wife whom I love with all my heart, and her name is Latona Sally Devi... I want to be with Devi forever. ”
However, Sukarno's wish was disappointed, and when he changed his regime and became a prisoner of the order, it was his first wife, Ingit, who had already divorced. His favorite fourth lady went overseas for three years.
It wasn't until Sukarno was about to die that Devi came back to see him as a last resort. After that, she left again and is still active in Japan, the United States and other countries, selling her identity capital.
For Sukarno, when he received the divorce agreement from Madame Devi from abroad, his heart was sad and sad. But he certainly didn't regret his choice, after all, his desire for women had outweighed the pursuit of everything.
I remember Tunisian President Habib Bourguiba once said: "I remember clearly that when Sukarno came to Tunisia, we had many important things to discuss, and the first thing he asked me to do was to ask me to find him a woman." ”
This is Sukarno's willfulness, and the social status he pursues, and even the cause he strives for, seems to have set out for the more convenient pursuit of women. In such a recognition and desire, he will not be sad and regret because of the betrayal of women.
It's just that love is never one-sided wishful thinking, and when you have money and power, you may have an advantage. But once these additional conditions expire, they will soon fall from the dominant position to the inferior position.
Sukarno had many women in his life, but he never really understood one thing: the women he was involved with and entangled with were only because of his position of power. If such feelings are called love, is it not sad?