I live in a neighborhood where the elderly are gathered, listening to their stories, and there is a sense of frustration of the hero's twilight. Professors and scholars are old and dazed, and rely on nannies to take care of them; national athletes can only live in wheelchairs and rely on people's pity; and the characters who were charming in their youth have only ended up with a withered end.
If you want to give these old people a list, these three old gentlemen in the top three must not give in.
First, the academic elite, 80 years old to marry a nanny to enjoy the old age
The 92-year-old Lanxi old man has a very similar experience to Yang Zhenning. When he was young, he was a well-known figure in colleges and universities, with scientific research teams and patents. His department offered him like a treasure, and he devoted his life to the school where he worked. The year before the school celebration, he donated 1 million yuan to the school.
It was this kind of scholar who was obsessed with scientific research, and at the age of 80, he married a 50-year-old live-in nanny who took care of him. Is it extremely similar to Yang Zhenning?
Now that 12 years have passed, the two old people are still together, and this kind of companionship is also a way to live in their old age!
Second, athletes, disabled by car accidents and divorced, rely on community assistance, inspirational entrepreneurship
There are not many professional athletes in the community, and Uncle Liu is the one with the highest honor, the silver medal of the National Games. Strictly speaking, he is not an old man in his 50s, but his life has entered the old age life early.
He was hit by a car and injured his leg, fell into bed for three years, his wife was away, and his children had to go to school, all of which were helped by community workers and volunteers.
If not to mention that athletes have a tenacious personality! Uncle Liu is such a person. Relying on the help of others and their own will, they actively recovered, and finally stood up. Walking is still a bit lame, but it does not affect normal walking.
The most inspirational thing is that he later took out a loan to open a small supermarket in the community, and when the epidemic came, he was the "head of the group", the business exploded, and he also invited people. His ex-wife wanted to remarry again, and the children wanted their parents together, but he refused to remarry. He said: He is not rare in women who cannot share suffering, but can only share happiness.
He has always remembered the people who helped him, and usually in addition to the supermarket, he will go to the community to volunteer, and being a love deliverer is what he wants for for the rest of his life.
Third, the prince of nightclubs, once the nightclub owner, has a lifetime of affection and has always paid off debts
The most lamentable thing is this former nightclub owner! The debt of the wind flow was repaid from the youth to the year of huajia, four marriages and four divorces, five children in marriage, and two illegitimate children. Now single again, but with a cohabiting girlfriend.
His children had long ceased to associate with him, but he had sued for maintenance, and now his four adult children each gave him $400 a month.
His story was used as a talking point and a joke after dinner. But when a person lives to his place, how can he care what others think?
I love chatting with the old people because they are the epitome of the times and the living books of life!
Looking at the wind and candles of the ancestors, let us know how to cherish the current life.
Man is born to die
The brilliance of life lies in its brilliant process
Not everyone can be famous or rich
You can only encourage yourself
Do things but seek to be unashamed