"Listen to me say thank you, because of you, warm up the four seasons..." I believe that everyone's familiarity with this song is no less than that of "Unforgettable Tonight" sung by Teacher Li Guyi at the finale of the annual CCTV party. Especially in the years when the epidemic is raging, this song seems to have become a repertoire that children must perform for epidemic prevention workers.
From the "gratitude" that the original performance of this song wanted to express, to the current "form" of the song to sensationalize the public, and even once there was a phenomenon of "white whites" shouting "don't dance again" with their horns, the original meaning of this song has long changed its taste.
In fact, the original song of this song is a 12-year-old girl, who has a talent for singing and has published many popular songs. Such achievements are inseparable from the careful teaching of their parents. What stories happened to this girl named Li Xinrong?
1. Unjustified internet violence
At the beginning of the epidemic, the anti-epidemic experience was not rich and the results were very limited. The staff who insist on the front-line posts wear airtight protective clothing every day, wear tight goggles and masks to do nucleic acid tests for everyone, and their faces are full of strangulation marks at the end of the day.
In order to thank the "big whites" for their hard work and encourage everyone's determination to defeat the epidemic, some children will perform a song "Listen to Me say thank you" for medical staff in addition to nucleic acid testing, which makes the anti-epidemic workers feel unprecedented joy and warmth.
However, as more and more children follow the example of the performance, the song seems to be no longer simply a message of gratitude, but has become a "show" for parents to satisfy their "vanity". The already exhausted medical staff had to helplessly cooperate with the children's performances, and this form of behavior was greater than the content, which gradually made everyone resist.
This farce was originally a contest between children and medical staff, but it did not want to affect the family of the original singer of "Listen to Me Say Thank You". The original author, Li Kaichou, is the father of singer Li Xinrong, who took his wife and daughter to post a video on the Internet to apologize to the public, indicating that the song disrupted everyone's work and life.
In fact, everyone who knows the truth knows that this matter has nothing to do with the original singer. The reason why Li Kaichou officially apologized to the public was nothing more than for his daughter. Because Li Xinrong, who is only 12 years old, was "internet violence" by everyone for no reason because of this song. Many indiscriminate netizens spread their anger to the original singer, and commented on the online platform with abusive words such as "obscure" and "disgusting".
Under the active guidance of his parents, Li Xinrong can also ignore the scolding on the Internet as much as possible. But in her social circle, classmates will also show nasty emotions towards her, which makes a 12-year-old child face and live with herself? The parents of the Li family could not bear to see a naïve child who had suffered from "Internet violence" for no reason, so they decided to apologize to the public in a low posture.
Behind this incident, in addition to the original singer's family's appeal to return the song to the original track, there is also a pair of ordinary parents who cherish and love their children. In other words, no parent will ignore what happened to their children, not to mention that Li Xinrong really did not have any mistakes.
The culprit of the matter is nothing more than the parents who sensationalize. There is nothing wrong with the original song itself.
Li Xinrong, who is only 12 years old this year, actually has many masterpieces, in addition to "Listen to Me Say Thank You", there are songs such as "You Look Good When You Laugh" and "Baby Baby". After these songs were released, they were warmly welcomed by the public. Especially in kindergartens, schools, and some evening scenes, these songs can be heard as the background music of the hot scene.
At the same time, child star Li Xinrong has long been on the scene of various music programs on CCTV, a proper "strength faction". As a "child star", the achievements she now has are closely related to the cultivation of her parents.
Second, young people become famous
His father, Li Kaichou, is a post-80s generation, who is Li Xinrong's behind-the-scenes "knife handle", and those golden songs that are sung by his daughter are independently produced by him. Not only that, Li Kaichou is also the royal producer of female singer Ulantuya, and her song "Light Up the New Era" was composed and compiled by Teacher Li.
Especially in the Just-concluded Beijing Winter Olympics this year, the song "Please Come to the Great Wall to Ski" sung by Tao Zhe and Lu Han was also created by Li Kaicong. These achievements fully prove his musical talent and ability.
His mother Fan Tongzhou's personal achievements are not inferior to her husband's. She is good at piano and accordion, and is currently the head of the creative and production department of the Beijing Modern Music Training Institute, and has also sung for Ulantoya's "Horse Pole" and "I Want to Go to Tibet" and other works.
It is precisely because of his parents' achievements in music that li Xinrong's life starting point is directly determined. When others were still playing with mud, she released a recording of the song "Baby Baby" at the age of 3, "Two tigers love to dance, little rabbits obediently pluck turnips..." The catchy melody has become a necessary "divine comedy" for parents to coax their babies.
In fact, the original inspiration for the creation of this song came from the daily observation of her daughter by her father Li Kaichou, and the innocence and cuteness of her childhood made Li Kaichou's inspiration burst out. The most famous song today, "Listen to Me Say Thank You", was originally written to Li Xinrong's teacher as a way to express his heart. Because she could not participate in the school curriculum normally like other students, in order to thank the teacher for her care and help, her father created this song during Teachers' Day.
And the song "You Laugh So Nice" is the daily life record of the father and daughter of the Li family. At that time, Li Xinrong cried her nose because of an accidental fall, and in order to comfort her, her father told her daughter that the smiling children would become more and more beautiful, so as to create this song.
From the above experiences, it can be seen that Li Xinrong's growth environment is very happy, thanks to the good family atmosphere and superior educational resources created by her parents for her, Li Xinrong can be said to have a unique fate at birth.
As she grew older, she also became a regular guest invited by CCTV, often singing songs with other big celebrities, including Li Guyi and Zhu Xun. Even the eldest sister of the music scene, Daya Ying, when she saw her, would ask for an autographed photo for her son.
It can be seen that Li Xinrong, who grew up in this environment since childhood, will naturally have a lot of acting experience and singing talent. In the stage of mental development is not yet mature, Li Xinrong's attention and achievements make her a bit "floating".
She slowly found that even if her academic performance was not good, there would still be teachers and classmates "holding" her. She feels that even if she doesn't keep practicing, she will have a lot of fans who come to listen to her songs and come to see her performances. Li Xinrong gradually became somewhat "arrogant".
These changes in the daughter's eyes are all seen by her parents, and her father Li Kaichou once warned her: "You are lucky, those songs can be as popular as other children's songs." However, Li Xinrong, who was lost in the spotlight, could not understand her father's words at all, and she still naively thought that she was outstanding.
Their parents do not interfere too much with the growth and change of their children, and they believe that it is good for their daughters who have always been praised to accept some criticism appropriately. So within the controllable range, li Xinrong was given enough room for trial and error, and they wanted her to realize reality and mistakes.
At the CCTV Children's Day party in 2020, Li Xinrong tasted defeat for the first time. On the same day, she made an unprecedented mistake as a guest performer in front of the national audience, and there were two broken sounds on the scene. Although the enthusiastic applause of the audience largely masked the fact of the mistake, Li Xinrong, who knew that he did not play well, could not help but cry after stepping down.
I thought that I would be comforted and tolerated by my parents when I was sad and crying, but I didn't think that my parents' faces showed a look of "expected". Li Xinrong remembered his father's advice to himself, and bowed his head with some shame.
In fact, this mistake is indeed a good thing, and the punishment that is not serious can make Li Xinrong, who is somewhat complacent, realize his shortcomings. Under the guidance and advice of her parents, she can face her mistakes and apologize to the fans, and even share this experience generously with everyone in her later speeches, obviously Li Xinrong has gotten greater value in life from it.
12-year-old Li Xinrong has become a big girl, and she can also adhere to the enthusiasm for learning culture classes while developing her musical expertise. Because her parents said to her: "Whatever you want to do in the future, we support it, but the culture class must not be left behind." The foundation of any industry needs to be cultured. "Such a family of three, full and warm, full of positive energy."
Third, parents are the best teachers for children
Family education is the background of children's growth, and some parents' shadows can be found more or less from each child. Behind those excellent, outstanding children stand parents who are attentive, hard-working, and have vision.
Parents can provide their children with more than only material contributions, effective parent-child companionship, teaching methods according to aptitude, blindness without following the script, etc., are the embodiment of good family education. Li Xinrong is lucky, she has a pair of excellent parents, which is an important factor that determines the height of her future development.
Compared with the convenience provided by parents for their children's development, guiding children how to take every step of life is the task of parents. As the TV series "Know It or Not" said, "Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans."
At the beginning of this year, Gu Ailing's outstanding performance in the Winter Olympics set off many hot discussions on the Internet. In addition to her praise in the competition, the public is more concerned about "what kind of educational method can raise such a child?" ”
Even Gu Ailing herself said in an interview: "My mother is the best mother in the world." As a breakthrough in many world records, Gu Ailing's words are justified. A deep dive into the core of its homeschooling reveals the "code of success."
Unlike traditional family members, Gu Ailing's growth was brought up by her mother and grandmother (grandmother), and no other men participated. From this point alone, it has broken the stereotypes of many parents. Most people think that children of "single-parent" families will have some personality problems to a greater or lesser extent. And these worries are self-defeating in Gu Ailing's body.
The generous self-confidence she showed in the interview, the super strong psychological quality of winning the championship after the mistakes in the competition, and the performance of her peers in academics, etc., all proved her ability. It's all about good homeschooling.
On the other hand, Zhang Mo (son of Zhang Guoguo), the "second generation of stars" who was once the most potential, a noble prince born with a golden spoon, actually disappeared in the entertainment industry because of various black materials, and even his highly respected father was also affected by his son's "stains". In the final analysis, it has a lot to do with Teacher Zhang Guoli's arrogance towards children.
When Zhang Mo was in college, he had a relationship with actress nursery rhymes. However, as a young man, his attitude towards feelings was very immature. At that time, he and his girlfriend quarreled over certain things, and Zhang Mo actually beat up the nursery rhyme, causing him to fracture his nose bone and bleed his eyeballs.
No matter what the reason for the quarrel between the couples, it is a fact that Zhang Mo beats people with his hands. The impact of this incident was so bad that the Central Academy of Drama decided to expel him. In order to minimize the bad impact of this matter, Teacher Zhang Guoli did not hesitate to publicly apologize to the nursery rhyme on behalf of his son and asked for the public's forgiveness. Zhang Mo hid behind his father, waiting for this matter to be "private" until it was slowly forgotten by everyone.
A year later, with the help of his father, Zhang Mo began to emerge in many film and television dramas. In order to win the popular son, the national teacher even spent a lot of money to tailor a drama "Jigong New Biography" for him. In the play, Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie are paired with Zhang Mo and fully support Zhang Mo's acting career.
Just when everyone gradually recognized Zhang Mo's performance strength, he once again "arrogantly" personally buried his career and life in a place of doom. As the saying goes, "The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to move."
One day in 2012, Zhang Mo was arrested by the police for drug abuse. Afterwards, Zhang Guoli once again stood up and apologized, pleading with the public to give his son a chance to reform himself. Everyone looked at Teacher Zhang's sincere attitude and still chose to forgive Zhang Mo's mistakes.
Unexpectedly, two years later, Zhang Mo was arrested again for drug use. At that time, Zhang Mo fell in love with actress Niu Mengmeng, and he even took his girlfriend to the road of drug addiction. The nature of the incident is very serious, Zhang Mo has been suspected of accommodating others to take drugs, which is a criminal case, and he was sentenced to 6 months in prison.
After his release from prison, Zhang Moche has become a bad artist, he has completely disappeared from the public eye, and Teacher Zhang Guoli no longer has the face to ask the public for forgiveness for his son. His bottomless love for the child is the fundamental reason for destroying Zhang Mo.
Zhang Moyuan is the child of Zhang Guoli and his ex-wife, in order to make up for the lack of his family, Teacher Zhang even decided with Teacher Deng Jie not to have children. On the road of his growth, Zhang Guoli was busy with work and neglected parent-child education. Every time the child does something wrong, he chooses to use the "wiping his ass" method to solve it, so that the child does not take the mistake seriously until he touches the bottom line of the law. All this is blamed on the "coddling" of parents.
Makarenko, a famous educator in the former Soviet Union, said: "Education without punishment is incomplete education". Because there is no punishment, the child will not realize his mistake. When a big mistake has been made, we do not know how to restrain the horse from the precipice, and we will not change our mistakes.
Punishment is not a scolding, but a strict teaching. A truly good education is the high-quality companionship of parents to allow children to have a happy childhood; a truly good education is to pamper but not spoil the child and guide him/her to take responsibility; a truly good education is to give children freedom while also restraining them.
Fourth, educational reform
Although the growth environment of Li Xinrong and Gu Ailing cannot be copied, their family education methods are worth learning from every young parent. Traditional Chinese education methods are gradually changing with the development of society, and the original training direction focusing on coursework is moving towards diversified training methods.
In October last year, a spokesperson for the Ministry of Education publicly stated that "double reduction" should be promoted at the same time as "double increase". That is to say, while subtracting the burden of students' schoolwork, it also increases the time and opportunity for children to participate in outdoor activities and physical exercise.
In fact, no matter how the education policy is reformed, it is closely related to the careful teaching of parents. Parenting first raises themselves, and if they want their children to become what kind of person, parents must let themselves become that kind of person first. I hope all children can have a bright future!