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Why is it so difficult for the poor to get rich? These three great sorrows are known to those who have been poor

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In today's society, class differences are inevitable. Under class differences, the gap between the rich and the poor will gradually widen, and eventually the phenomenon of "poor people are poorer, and rich people are richer". Under the goal of common prosperity, how to narrow the differences between classes is always a problem we need to think about, and we also need the joint efforts of the whole society. But apart from social problems, we are also increasingly finding that it seems difficult for the poor to get rich, and they are always stuck in a dead loop and can't find a solution. Let's talk about the sad reasons for this.

Why is it so difficult for the poor to get rich? These three great sorrows are known to those who have been poor

First, lack of resources, rare experience

If a person wants to find opportunities for development in society, he needs to accumulate experience and resources continuously. Experience can make a person walk more and more smoothly on the road in the future, whether it is a good experience or a bad experience, it has a certain enlightenment and avoidance effect on people. But in the course of life, it is difficult for the poor to obtain this experience. Because they have been rolling on the edge of survival, the first thing they need to think about every day when they open their eyes is the most basic food, clothing, shelter and transportation, the cost of their trial and error is too high, when the opportunity comes, they will always cower and miss the opportunity, not to mention what experience they have accumulated. Without experience, they often have difficulty accessing social resources. This is just like the children of poor families are difficult to get ahead in academic performance, because of poverty, they can not give their children better educational resources, so they can only stay behind.

The accumulation of resources and experience requires the struggle of one or even several generations. If the poor want to turn over, it is always difficult to achieve it overnight. Nowadays, the well-known and well-known noble sons of the cold door, to observe their families, can always see their hard struggles of several generations. Because only under the baptism of time can they accumulate enough experience and send their descendants into a wider world.

Why is it so difficult for the poor to get rich? These three great sorrows are known to those who have been poor

Second, Bole is difficult to find, and the environmental impact is large

What kind of family a person is born into, what kind of environment will be used to grow up. A child born in a poor family, always surrounded by poor people, he can not see the wider world through the environment around him, and in the long run, his vision will be limited. At the same time, the environment in which they live makes it difficult for them to reach better people. You know, in the process of development, a person often encounters many leaders. They may be friends around them, teachers on the podium, or leaders at work, but poor people, because they have been struggling and living in the quagmire, rarely have the opportunity to meet such a Bole-style figure who leads them forward, and they have closed a path that could have been successful.

At the beginning of the advent, each of us has our own talent, and what is important is how to find it in the process of growing up and maximize its role, but unfortunately, the poor often miss such opportunities.

Why is it so difficult for the poor to get rich? These three great sorrows are known to those who have been poor

Third, fight alone, psychological wall

Because of family reasons, people from poor families tend to have stronger self-esteem. This kind of self-esteem, accumulated day after day, can become an obstacle to a person's social interactions. The fundamental attribute of human beings is sociality, no one can survive alone in society, and fighting alone cannot exchange for success in life. But unfortunately, it is much more difficult to change a person's inner thoughts than to change external conditions. In front of an adult who has established the Three Views, it is difficult for others to say more and make him feel and waver.

This kind of mental wall of clinging to oneself will enclose oneself in it. Over time, it will cause the consequences of poor communication with people, and this psychology will also make the accumulation of a person's resources slow, so that they continue to sink into poverty.

Why is it so difficult for the poor to get rich? These three great sorrows are known to those who have been poor

Throughout the ages, "getting rich" has always been a topic that people are happy to explore, and there are many people who tell us how to succeed and how to change, but in the end, there are often very few people who can really succeed through these indoctrination experiences. If you want to succeed and get rid of poverty, in addition to struggle and perseverance, you may need a little bravery and self-examination. Only by seeing ourselves clearly can we polish our eyes and look into the distance, only by seeing the world clearly, we can find the right path, set off with brave wings, to face the challenges of life, I believe that one day, the poor will become rich.