preface
In October 2015, a bedside was lined with medical staff, some taking photos and others exclaiming.
Looking closer, 28-year-old Saida was sitting on a hospital bed, holding her newborn child, Sina, in her arms, only to see that she had a special birthmark on her forehead, "Love Birthmark".
Saida's eyes were fixed on Sina's face from beginning to end, tears streaming down her eyes. Excitedly, she told her husband Murat Enkin: "He is the Lord's gift to us!" ”
Maybe it's really a sign of Cupid, the god of love, or maybe it's just a very common birthmark, but it doesn't matter to people who have seen the birthmark, what matters is that everyone's heart is melted.
Lovely couple actively trying to conceive
In 2014, Saida looked at someone else's cute child and suddenly had an idea in her head that she wanted to have a baby.
Afterwards, she told her husband Murat Enkin about the idea, and the husband also longed to have a child, and the family's current financial resources were stable enough to raise a child, so he agreed with his wife's idea, and the two began to plan for pregnancy.
The first and most important thing to prepare for pregnancy is the pre-pregnancy test. Saida can know by consulting with a doctor that preconception tests are best done 3 to 6 months before pregnancy. And before the examination, the woman needs to be examined within three to seven days after the menstrual period is clean.
Therefore, Saida calculated the time and went to the hospital for examination accompanied by her husband, Murat Enkin.
The main items of examination are blood routine, urine routine, fecal routine and so on. The main purpose of these tests is to avoid fetal miscarriage or the appearance of an unhealthy child.
In addition to preconception tests, nutritional supplementation is also important. Husband Murat Enkin often buys fresh fruits such as strawberries, bananas, lemons, etc., for his wife at home, and often has nuts.
In addition, in order to give birth to a healthy baby, his wife Saida will also consume fresh fruit on time and supplement folic acid nutrients. Folic acid is a B vitamin and the most important nutrient for cell growth and reproduction.
If you are trying to conceive or lack folic acid during pregnancy, it will slow down the development of the fetus, promote preterm birth, and even reduce the intellectual development of the fetus.
In addition to eating more fruits and vegetables, Saida also requires herself to consume a sufficient amount of high-quality protein, vitamins, minerals and a moderate amount of fat every day.
Husband Murat Enkin also pays special attention to his own eating habits, he will eat some foods rich in zinc, arginine and sex hormones, such as ham meat, oysters, cuttlefish and so on.
Because these foods can enhance the motility of sperm, it plays an important role in maintaining a man's reproductive system. In addition to this, Saida began to supervise her husband to drink less beer and coke.
In short, the two are fully prepared for pregnancy.
Thank your husband for his due diligence
Kung Fu pays off. Around January 2015, Saida's period was delayed, accompanied by dizziness and vomiting, and she had a hunch that she should be pregnant.
So she rushed to the hospital for examination, and it really was! At the moment she learned that she was pregnant, Saida was very excited, she quickly shared the good news with her husband, and the two began to prepare for the quality baby after the two were happy.
Pregnancy is an extremely important, tedious and hard task. Parents need to know a lot of new knowledge, such as: how to ensure that the fetus has adequate nutrition, which will affect the development of the child... In addition, parents also have to change their living habits and eating habits for this purpose.
In the past, Saida often put on makeup in order to show a better mental outlook, but the makeup contained lead and a lot of heavy metals, which were extremely unfavorable to the baby. For the sake of the baby in her belly, she set aside her cosmetics, leaving only some simple skin care products and going to work every day.
Saida did not change much in the early stages of pregnancy, and has been working normally, and in the second trimester of pregnancy, she has a very serious morning sickness. Husband Murat Enkin learned through consulting doctors that the daily diet can take the approach of eating fewer and more meals, eating less at a time and eating when you are finished.
Every day after work, Murat Enkin would go to the nearby wet market to buy some fresh food, such as eggs and milk, to ensure that his wife could repeat her intake of protein, vitamins and inorganic salts.
In addition, Murat Enkin often buys fish because fish is not only delicate in muscle fiber and rich in protein, but it also contains unsaturated fatty acids.
Unsaturated fatty acids play an important role in the brain development of the fetus. In order to effectively alleviate his wife's morning sickness reaction, Murat Enkin also stored some cookies and soda cakes at home.
Saida usually likes to eat fried foods such as fried chicken, however, during pregnancy, these are forbidden to eat.
Murat Enkin believes that although fried food is delicious, it not only has a lot of calories but also contains a high content of trans fatty acids, which can increase the chance of infertility by 70%, so it is usually steamed, boiled and stewed when cooking.
In addition, Saida also stopped the habit of drinking coffee, because coffee is rich in caffeine, which causes pigmentation.
The sleeping position is also particularly important during pregnancy, and in the later stages of pregnancy, Saida has been sleeping in the left sleeping position, so that there is no pressure on the fetus in the abdomen. If the sleeping position is not correct, it may lead to fetal hypoxia and death.
The third trimester of pregnancy is extremely hard. During this time, Saida's weight increased and her body developed bloated, which made her movements more and more inconvenient.
In addition to this, her body also has pain, which sometimes leads to insomnia at night. All the phenomena that occurred in the later stages of pregnancy caused a huge change in Saida's mood.
However, thanks to the company of her husband, Murat Enkin, he never allowed his wife to perform a lot of manual labor, took the initiative to contract most of the housework, and required her wife not to stand for more than three hours a day.
Every time he came back from work, no matter how tired, Murat Enkin would massage his wife's body and legs on time to relieve the pain in her body. In order to appease his sensitive wife, Murat Enkin will also take his wife for a walk and chat, sharing the pressure in her heart.
Her husband's meticulous care has made Saida extremely dependent on him, and she has felt countless times that she is so lucky!
Angels of love come into the world
In the first few days of childbirth, Saida's contractions became more frequent, and symptoms of pain, tightness, and sometimes unbearable pain occurred in the abdomen. Accompanied by her husband, Murat Enkin, the two went to the hospital.
In October 2015, 28-year-old Saida endured severe pain and tried her best to give birth to the child.
The nurse who delivered the baby immediately sent the child to a special ward for cleaning, and when cleaning the forehead, the nurse found that the baby's forehead had a red birthmark, or the shape of a love, which is really rare! The nurse washed the baby with excitement and couldn't wait to send the baby to Saida's side.
The nurse was so excited that she said aloud, "I was the first nurse to see the birthmark on his forehead."
This sentence attracted the attention of other medical staff, and everyone went into the ward to see what was happening, and when they walked in, everyone was stunned by the phenomenon in front of them.
The baby in Saida's arms had a red love birthmark on his forehead! Everyone sighed " Oh my God, this love birthmark is so beautiful!" "It's really hard not to cry!" "It's so cute!" ......
In the midst of the nurse's clamor, the baby still did not open his eyes. His breathing was smooth and gentle, like an angel, completely unaware of what was happening around him.
Medical staff have been huddled around Saida's bedside, some people are taking pictures, hoping to stereotype this beautiful picture; others are whispering, hoping that this strange story will be known by more people.
Everyone was enjoying the discussion, and suddenly a nurse said, "Let's give him a nickname, Harry Potter has a birthmark on his upper right eyebrow, everyone calls it 'lightning', then the baby is called 'unbelievable', this nickname comes from this special birthmark." "Everyone agreed after listening to it.
Saida was more excited than anyone when she saw this birthmark, and she burst into tears. Because no one in her family had ever had such a special birthmark.
And in a few days it will be Valentine's Day, and his arrival may be a gift from God to everyone. Sina's birth with a loving birthmark caused a sensation, and it was reported by many media.
In an interview with the Daily Mail, Murat Enkin told reporters: "Little Sina has a small red heart on his forehead, and this red heart makes everyone, including us, fall in love.
Everyone believes that a child's birthmark has an ability to connect with people and unite them. It's hard not to cry. We all love him and his birthmark everyone calls him 'baby love', there are many people who like to take photos with the baby, looking at the photos, everyone can feel full of love. ”
On the day of discharge, Saida held Sina and accompanied her husband through the discharge procedures, and people who passed by smiled at them. Among them, three bold people ran to Saida's side and asked for a photo with the baby, and everyone was curious about his birthmark.
Saida knew that this was everyone's love for the child and immediately agreed. When Saida and her husband, Murat Enkin, go to the hospital for customs checks, they find that the nurses and doctors know him and call the baby "loving boy."
On the Internet, there are also many fans who love Sina very much, and have petitioned to let Sina's parents create new media accounts to share their children's lives, and the couple cannot refuse the kindness of fans, and establish an Ins account for Sina, named "@lovebaby.cinar", and share his life. The account attracted the attention of 6,500 followers, and the number of followers is still increasing.
From these photos, we find that Sina's parents cherish him very much, and Sina is more and more cute and lively in the company of her parents. As he grew older, the 'love birthmark' on Sina's forehead did not fade, but became more and more distinctive.
Recently, Murat Enkin shared a photo of his son graduating from kindergarten on a self-media account, which is also his sixth birthday. In the photo, Sina is wearing a purple graduation uniform and holding a graduation certificate in her hand, like a little angel who has landed on earth.
There is also a photo of Sina sitting on a bench with a chocolate cake in front of her. Six years have passed, and the loving baby who used to be there has grown into a big sunny boy.
Sina was lucky, and the obvious birthmark on his forehead did not attract strange eyes, but was loved and noticed by everyone. But not all children are so lucky.
On May 21, 2018, the British "Daily Mail" reported that there was a boy in Brazil, Enzo Sestari, whose face was covered with a black birthmark, extending from the forehead to the side of the nose.
This black birthmark is congenital melanocyte disease. Birthmarks are hyperplasias of fetal skin tissue that appear in the developmental history and exhibit abnormal shape and color on the surface of the skin. It is mostly caused by the lack of zinc, copper, calcium, magnesium and other trace elements in the human serum, which affects the pigment synthesis process.
Because of this birthmark, every time Enzo Sestari went out, he found that the people around him always looked at him differently, which was very uncomfortable. The kindergarten friend is also afraid of the birthmark on his face and is reluctant to make friends with him.
Over time, Enzo Sestari felt that everyone around him was discriminating against him, which caused Enzo Sestari to be reluctant to go out again, locking himself in his room, becoming more and more silent, unwilling to communicate with the people around him, and even unwilling to look in the mirror, full of disappointment in life.
After the mother Carolina learned of this incident, she was very distressed about the child, but she could not influence the thoughts of others, she could only teach the child how to actively and comprehensively accept herself and love herself.
So she germinated the idea of makeup, and she hired a professional makeup artist to spend the whole day making up the same birthmark for herself, and even took such makeup to work and make friends.
She learned to understand the prejudices her son faced and wanted to tell him that it didn't matter even if he had a black birthmark on his face. As long as you dress appropriately, behave elegantly, have a good personality, and work hard to live out of yourself, learn to go out of the corner, take the initiative to approach others, and show yourself to everyone, so that everyone will accept themselves, and their lives still have the value of sharing with others.
If the other party is still pointing, it doesn't matter, there is no need to please people who look at people.
And the mother Saida also took the initiative to approach society with her son. On March 23, 2019, Saida took her son Sina to visit the local Herbarium Museum.
Sina, along with his family, visited with sunglasses, saw giant ostriches and ostrich eggs, saw leopards, and touched a globe that was a man tall with his mother.
On January 12, 2020, Sina's dad posted a live video on his Ins account.
The video shows Seida teaching Sina to recognize colors, only to see her holding a picture pointing to a book and asking Sina, "What color is this?"
Mom then picked up the pencil next to her and asked Sina, "What colour is this spencil?" Sina replied, "Grey." The father who was on the sidelines laughed with joy when he saw his son answer so correctly.
On July 19, 2021, the couple took their son Sina to camp outdoors again. The couple and Sina were posed on a burning rock, and the family of three looked sweet. In addition, Sina's grandparents also came out together, and they took a group photo with Sina, at this time, Sina grew into a cute little boy!
summary
Every baby is a little angel, and their arrival has made the world much warmer.
However, some babies will have birthmarks of different colors, different shapes, and different shades on their bodies or faces.
If the birthmark is good-looking, we can give praise; but if the birthmark destroys the person's beauty, we can't laugh at him, we can't bully him, but we need to stand in his point of view and try to understand the prejudices he faces, and give them warmth and beauty with empathy.
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- Dayly News, "Look! The "Love Baby" born in Turkey has a heart-shaped birthmark on its forehead! January 13, 2017.
- "Forehead Tire Remembers The Unique "Loving Boy" has grown up! June 14, 2019.
- Good Times, "Heart-shaped Birthmark on Forehead, Baby at First Sight," October 1, 2019.