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Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

author:Little nagging at first sight

The sudden retirement of the once-popular star is either to encounter great changes, like Chen Guanxi, who is not tolerated by the world, or the development has encountered a bottleneck and seen through the world.

Meng Tingwei, a well-known singer in Taiwan, suddenly announced her retirement from the circle in 2000, wanted to study Buddhism, and almost cut her hair to become a nun, the reason why she quit the circle was to see through the world.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

When her brother died in a car accident, she suddenly had an epiphany, lamented the impermanence of life, wanted to cultivate Buddhism, and longed for more time to spend with her family.

On the surface, she has been troubled by red dust, and she can't escape after all.

Meng Tingwei has sung classic songs such as "Silent Rain", "Rain Made of Clouds in the Wind", "Actually I Still Care a Little".

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

With an elegant voice and a free singing ability, she was one of the best singers of the 80s, and her strong strength won her four awards in the world of music.

Meng Tingwei's career development has nothing to say, but her love life has been frequently frustrated, by domestic violence, threats, and was exposed by her ex-husband Zhang Zhipeng to intervene in other people's marriages and fall in love with same-sex female assistants.

A generation of legendary singer Meng Tingwei has caused great controversy, and what kind of untold story does she have that is deeply involved in the center of public opinion? What is the current situation of Meng Tingwei?

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

Born in 1969 in Kaohsiung, Taiwan, her parents were doctors, and her family conditions were enviable.

In addition to her, there are three children in the family, fortunately she is the only girl in the family, her parents and brothers will deliberately favor her resources, and the father has always adhered to the concept of "daughter should be spoiled".

Parents expect Meng Tingwei to become a well-informed and reasonable girl, but she is a "wild boy" with a daughter's body.

She ran with her brothers in the streets and alleys, running extremely fast, just like a woman in the wind.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

The parents were very troubled by their daughters, and helplessly scolded softly: Who will marry a wild in the future? ”

The mother wanted to make her daughter gentle, but after several persuasions still had no effect, Meng Tingwei did not think that she was still going her own way.

Just when the parents were at a loss, the most popular Qiong Yao drama at that time was being broadcast on tv, in which the heroine was gentle and handsome, and the touching image of Chuchu was really cute.

Meng Tingwei was deeply affected by the TV series and felt that a girl should be gentle like water, so she subtly began to change herself.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

Meng Tingwei has an excellent appearance, and has an enviable voice, his voice is beautiful and loud, and he can hum the song according to the gourd painting once.

She has a good family and does not need to make a living by selling singing, but she really likes to sing and just happens to have a merchant invite her to sing.

She spontaneously organized several girls in her class who liked to sing together, and through singing, she earned the first pot of gold in her life in high school.

Going out to sing part-time has always been behind her parents' back, and she was caught by her father in the dance hall when she went out early and returned late.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

Her father felt that a girl should not enter the entertainment venue, let alone sing on stage, and her father, who had always loved her, was rarely angry with her.

Watching his daughter Pear Blossom's weeping with rain, his father was heartbroken, but he still refused to step back and spoke at home: "Meng Tingwei is not allowed to sing again." ”

Meng Tingwei can understand her father's love for her daughter and a piece of bitterness, but she can't accept cutting off her dreams.

Singing can bring happiness to Meng Tingwei, she can find herself in it, how can dreams and love be broken!

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

After his father's anger subsided, Meng Tingwei and his father talked about it, said all kinds of good things, brought tea and water to his father, and then ensured that the premise of his singing was "to ensure academic performance, not to affect the health of life, and not to go to bad places." ”

The father who wanted to refuse could not resist Meng Tingwei's soft and hard bubbles, and finally lost himself in his daughter's voice "Daddy" and agreed to it.

Later, the father regretted it, but the man had to count his words, so he could only let his daughter sing while learning.

With her father's permission, Meng Tingwei would go to the mall every weekend to sing, and her moving voice could always bring a lot of customers to the boss.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

Meng Tingwei's stunning singing voice gradually became a well-known singer in the local area, when the Taiwan entertainment industry was in the early stage of development, and urgently needed a new generation of singers who could carry the banner.

And Meng Tingwei, who is young and beautiful and has good strength in singing, has become a fragrant feast in the eyes of the scouts, and many entertainment companies have thrown olive branches to Meng Tingwei, promising to train her to become a well-known singer.

However, Meng Tingwei is still a minor, and does not dare to decide her own future without authorization, showing all the contracts and interview invitations to her father.

The father felt that his daughter was still young, not yet an adult, and not suitable for entering the entertainment industry to develop, so he refused.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

And the father's refusal is useless, some things have long been doomed in the dark, even if the father has been interfering, Meng Tingwei still entered the entertainment circle.

In 1989, 20-year-old white-skinned Meng Tingwei was invited to shoot a motorcycle advertisement, the advertisement was very hot, the record company also paid attention to her, under the persuasion of the other company, Meng Tingwei signed a contract with the company and officially debuted as a singer.

After signing the contract, Meng Tingwei got the company's praise, released albums such as "Actually I Still Care", "Rain Made of Clouds in the Wind" and so on, and Meng Tingwei's popularity remained high, becoming a phenomenon-level singer at that time.

In 1995, she was also invited to participate in the Spring Festival Gala and became a well-known actress sought after by everyone with her stunning singing voice.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

Careers have a bright future, the future is full of hope, but the family has suffered a change.

In the fifth year of the Spring Festival Gala, Meng Tingwei's brother died in a car accident and was ineffective, and his father survived, but he was also deeply tormented by stroke.

A friend who had accompanied him for many years also had a change, and after being unwell, he went to the hospital for examination and learned that he had advanced cancer, and soon after the treatment was ineffective, he died.

Witnessing her relatives leave her, Meng Tingwei felt the impermanence of the world, and felt that no matter how good her career was, it had no meaning, so she retreated from the circle on impulse.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

At that time, many people also questioned Meng Tingwei's "withdrawal from the circle" in order to hype up his career, but in fact, Meng Tingwei was determined to withdraw from the circle.

After retiring from the circle, she no longer paid attention to her acting career, and she chose to eat and pray to the Buddha, and gradually fell in love with Buddhist culture, and even had plans to go to India to become a monk.

On the verge of leaving for India to become a monk, Meng Tingwei met his own redemption Zhang Zhipeng.

The two were classmates of each other, and had not seen each other for many years, but when they met again, with the love of their former classmates, they had no strangeness towards each other, and soon developed into a state of no words.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

Zhang Zhipeng is handsome and talented, and he is meticulous about Meng Tingwei, which gradually opens her heart and makes her gradually change her idea of wanting to become a nun.

After another fierce pursuit, Zhang Zhipeng finally hugged the beauty, and after having love, Meng Tingwei only wanted to be a good wife and mother, a small woman.

After a year of love, the two entered the palace of marriage, the wedding was held in the old campus, and many former classmates and teachers came to witness the happiness of the two.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

After marriage, Meng Tingwei was addicted to Buddhism, rarely paid attention to external affairs, and her husband was too busy with her career to take care of her.

Her husband was worried that her life was too boring, so he suggested that she return to the entertainment circle, Meng Tingwei did not want to go back, and Buddhism became her biggest hobby.

Husband Zhang Zhipeng said to Meng Tingwei: "You can sing your Buddhist understanding into songs, so that you can help more people." ”

Under the persuasion of her husband and her agent, Meng Tingwei made a comeback again and released the album "Amitabha Buddha".

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

Meng Tingwei has a new career, and in 2007, she also gave birth to a son for her husband, and the originally extremely happy world of two people has become a happier family of three.

Originally thought that life would always be so happy, how can it be that after 6 years, this once-incomparable marriage ended in a breakup.

Meng Tingwei also hinted on social networking sites that the reason for the marriage change is that the husband cheated, even if it is not explicitly stated, but a sentence of "Unfortunately, the person who accompanies you to the end is not me", which has told all the unspeakable stories.

Meng Tingwei's revelations made Zhang Zhipeng fall into the center of public opinion, he had difficulty speaking, he could not say anything, and all the grievances could only be held in his heart.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

I thought that after the divorce, the two had nothing to do with each other, but I did not expect that the dispute between Meng Tingwei and her ex-husband did not end with divorce, but began with divorce.

In 2018, under the planning of Zhang Zhipeng, female artist Zhang Nunya came out to testify that Meng Tingwei had an ulterior relationship with her female assistant.

In order to verify that what he said is not false, but also directly on the social networking site released the information of the female assistant, this news came out, Meng Tingwei also fell into the cusp of the storm, like the same sex although it is not shameful, but it is not glorious.

Meng Tingwei went through legal procedures to let the other party delete the wrong remarks and apologized, and Zhang Zhipeng, who did not think that it was a big deal, also sent an article accusing Meng Tingwei, frankly saying: "What Zhang Nuanya said is true. ”

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

The mother could not bear meng Tingwei's controversy and also stood up to speak for her daughter, and Zhang Zhipeng once again posted a text accusing her mother-in-law of "protecting the short and helping her daughter lie." ”

Originally thought that what Zhang Zhipeng said was true, but did not expect that the reversal would soon come, Meng Tingwei posted the chat records with her husband.

Zhang Zhipeng personally admitted that he had punched and kicked his wife and son, confessed that he was not a good husband, and tried to save Meng Tingwei.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

Meng Tingwei also made compromises and concessions for the sake of the family, but Zhang Zhipeng still did not change his nature, not only for his wife's domestic violence, but also for her money.

When Zhang Zhipeng's capital turnover was not available, he often asked Meng Tingwei for money, threatening if he did not want it, and threatening domestic violence if he did not give it.

If it weren't for the fact that she really couldn't live on, how could Meng Tingwei choose to divorce.

After explaining the truth of the matter, Meng Tingwei no longer responded to the dirty water splashed by her ex-husband Zhang Zhipeng, ignoring the unreasonable and absurd behavior of the other party, meng Tingwei also slowly walked out of the shadow of the failed marriage, and the resources slowly improved.

He has participated in music programs such as "The Masked Singer" and "Music Time Club", and has won the support and affirmation of a large number of netizens.

Meng Tingwei: Regret marrying a violent man, the failed marriage has still made her afraid, and the 52-year-old temperament is still the same

In 2022, Meng Tingwei is 52 years old, no longer young but still temperamental, single but not lonely, love mainly depends on whether it is appropriate, not whether there is or not.

Meng Tingwei, who was once tortured by emotional wounds, now has feelings with fate, and such a day is also very good.

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