Maybe in everyone's heart, there is a person who can talk to each other at any time.
Many times, through the mobile phone address book, there are very few people who can confide in the other party' brain.
Seven Years once said in the book:
"Loneliness is when you have something to say and no one listens, and when someone listens, there is nothing to say."
This loneliness has in many cases disintegrated seemingly unbreakable feelings.
Words that do not get a response, like a small pebble thrown into the seabed on the surface of the calm sea, cannot stir up any waves.
That lifeless dullness eventually pushed the distance between the two of them farther and farther.
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A few days ago, when I came home, my aunt came to my house to visit, but I didn't see my aunt for a long time, but I found that my aunt was much haggard.
"I want to get a divorce"
The little aunt with red eyes added after a long time,
He and I had nothing more to say.
The relationship between the aunt and the uncle was originally very good.
The two have only been married for two or three years, and before marriage, the two are always glued together, as if there is no end to the words.
However, I don't know when it began, the two gradually had a rift.
The conversation went like this:
"Don't look at your phone, the dishes are cold, eat quickly," the aunt said kindly.
"You don't say I'll eat too," the uncle responded impatiently.
"Don't stay up late, you're not in good health, and don't eat too many peppers, and then your stomach will start to feel uncomfortable again."
As soon as he said a few words, he waved his hand to his sister-in-law:
"Can't you just come back from work and let me stop for a while?"
The aunt thought he was too tired, so she was ready to tell her uncle the interesting things she encountered today.
"Tell you that today I met one of my high school classmates on the road...."..."
The little aunt said in a nonchalant manner, not noticing that the uncle's face had become darker and darker, and finally broke out.
"Can you stop arguing, what a big thing to say back and forth, no one treats you as a dumb." After saying that, Slam the door and go away.
That day, the little aunt stood for a long time and hurried downstairs to find him.
My uncle was spotted smoking one cigarette after another in the parking lot downstairs.
"He would rather sit in the car for half a day than listen to me," my aunt told me, wiping her tears.
Gradually, she encountered some interesting things and stopped taking the initiative to tell the other party.
Over time, the two were like strangers living under one roof.
Over time, the two communicated less and less.
The room was as quiet as a pool of stagnant water, dull and depressed.
How many times has the aunt wanted to talk to each other.
Seeing the other party's look of rejecting people thousands of miles away, he swallowed the words rawly.
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Liu Zhenyun once said:
"One person's loneliness is not loneliness, one person looking for another person is lonely."
But who understands what you want to say and stop.
What could be more suffocating than saying something to an unrequited love.
The uncle may not understand that the aunt's nonsense hides the care and concern for him.
As Teacher Tu Lei said:
"If a woman is always nagging around you, with a concerned face and a mouth full of disgust.
Remember, duty is only the appearance, and heartache is the original.
It sounds like complaining, but caring is the original intention. ”
The more people who really care about you have an inexhaustible heart for you, and they can't say anything more.
Sometimes, a lot of I love you, it's all hidden in crap.
And a partner who doesn't want to listen to you, or even refuses to communicate with you, will take your words as nonsense.
He may not love you anymore.
In "No Questions Asked", Xu Bochang always has an indifferent and indifferent attitude towards his wife Liu Shufang after marriage.
Never responding to his wife's words is often a deaf and indifferent attitude.
This made Liu Shufang suddenly erupt one day:
"Outsiders only see how I beat you and scold you, they never know how you hit me, you didn't hit me with your hands."
Instead, use your attitude. ”
It is this loneliness in marriage, which seems to never be answered, that becomes the last straw that overwhelms love.
Feelings gradually dissipated in the environment of gradual aphasia, and never returned to the past.
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When many people are looking for their ideal partner, they will always take the conversation as the first condition.
It seems that such requirements are low.
But in fact, very few people can meet such conditions.
The pace of life is getting faster and faster.
If you meet someone who is willing to listen to your nonsense, you must cherish it.
Only by talking too much nonsense can you express what you want.
And love is when two people talk a lot of nonsense together.
I want to feel your joys and sorrows, and I want you to know my sweet and sour.
There is such a scene in the movie "One Sentence Top Ten Thousand Sentences":
At the door of the marriage registry office, there were two lines of people, one for marriage and the other for divorce.
The registrar asked one of them, "Why get married?"
Answer: "We are talking";
The registrar asked another, "Why are you divorced?" ”
The answer was "We can't say." ”
This shows how important it is to have a desire to share with each other in a relationship.
During the period of hot love, what to eat today, what to wear, and what fun to meet can't help but confide in each other.
It was as if there were endless words to each other.
Always get the other person's response, this happiness seems to be doubled.
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As the emotional writer Suzen once said:
Happiness is probably about finding someone who is willing to listen to your nonsense.
On that day, when I was out running errands and going to the car, I heard the taxi master answering the phone and chatting with his wife.
Only the woman's voice was heard thin, nagging at her husband about something.
The driver master has been responding non-stop,
"Well, okay." "Rest assured, I remember" "What to buy, you look at it"
After a long time, he hung up the phone and said to me, "She, you have to ask me what kind of food you buy." ”
Somehow, although it was a word of complaint, it was a sweet tone that made people envious.
Then the taxi master said to me:
"Rory said a lot to me, she actually has nothing to do, just miss me, clingy"
As I said this, I could still see a look of tenderness and pampering on his face.
People who really love you are willing to listen to your nonsense.
Even small things like buying vegetables and eating and dressing have been given different meanings.
A person who is willing to give you crap, she may not be communicating the matter itself.
It's another expression that I miss you and I care about you.
Those daily chattering with you hide the care and concern for you that is hidden.
People who are right against each other resonate with each other.
They can feel each other's intentions, and they can also understand the deep meaning behind each other's nonsense
Sometimes listening to nagging words is not a kind of happiness.
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Some seemingly unspeakable words between the two are a kind of maintenance of each other's feelings.
Girlfriend Orange broke out with her boyfriend that day, and Orange hated her boyfriend for being too wide.
"Every day when I get to the meal, I remind me to eat, don't be bothered, don't say that I don't stop eating."
What to drink more hot water, cold weather plus clothes, simply more annoying than my mother. ”
After the quarrel, I don't know when it started.
The boy no longer said goodnight to her, no longer reminded her to remember to eat at mealtime.
Every time I open WeChat, I see an empty message bar.
At that moment, Peach's heart began to hurt in hindsight.
It was also at that moment that she understood:
It turned out that the nonsense she regarded as nonsense was hidden in the boys' care and love for her.
Fortunately, it was still too late.
That morning, she took the initiative to send her boyfriend two words "good morning.".
Just as she waited nervously, the screen lit up, "Good morning, stinky treasure."
Just four words made her happy for a long time.
Hopefully we can all choose to be with people who are willing to listen to your.
The thousand words of the two can be worth the chicken and dog fragments in life, and it is also the spice of ordinary life.
As Lu Sihao said in his book "May Someone Accompany You upside down and drift":
"May you find the person who resonates with you for a long time and can tell each other nonsense."
Maybe happiness is what I'm saying, you're listening, and occasionally you can echo a few words.
To love someone is to accompany him to say a lot of nonsense.
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