"Dear Child" has finally ushered in the finale, and from the current point of view, the ending of this drama is obviously a happy direction. HeHe had the childhood of a normal child, and Xie Tianhua's waiting was finally exchanged for Fang Yinuo's sincere observance.
Xiao Xu changed his previous lofty ambitions and began a down-to-earth life. Xiao Lu let go of his obsession and began to pay attention to Dong Fan's grievances that he had been swallowing. "Dear Child" uses a perfect ending to tell the audience that life is always good, but the reality often does not have so many twists.
In the marriage of Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu, the audience stood firmly by Fang Yinuo's side. In Dong Fan's marriage, the audience is more aware that what a good girl needs most is to give up a good life and try to adjust a prodigal son.
Obviously, Xiao Lu in the play is a prodigal son. From Zhongken's point of view, Xiao Lu did not betray Fang Yinuo, nothing happened to him and Zhu Zhu, and it was Zhu Zhu's greed that prompted Xiao Lu to take pictures when he was unconscious.
And Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's marriage ended in the common fault of the two. Fang Yinuo, who pursues the ultimate and is accustomed to hitting Xiao Lu's efforts, is the fundamental reason for Xiao Lu's gradual marginalization in marriage. But compared to Fang Yinuo's mistake, didn't Xiao Lu make an unforgivable mistake? Did he really not anchor in his mind and betray his spirit in this marriage?
No matter what the reason, Xiao Lu did have a good feeling for Zhu Zhu, when he sent Zhu Zhu lipstick, when he lied and worked overtime, in fact, when he was dating Zhu Zhu, Xiao Lu's essence as a man had been revealed.
Fang Yinuo saw Xiao Lu clearly, so she firmly divorced. The audience saw Xiao Lu clearly, so they were dissatisfied with Dong Fan's appearance. It is not that Dong Fan is disliked, but that Xiao Lu is really not worthy of Dong Fan.
From understanding tolerance to gradually "blackening", Xiao Lu made Dong Fan worse
In fact, after Dong Fan went online, the audience was curious. What the hell did she like about Shaw Road, he was irresponsible and betrayed the marriage. And Dong Fan's side is sweet-looking, the family conditions are solid, compared to xiaolu's life of chicken feathers, Dong Fan can be a greenhouse flower, a baby held in the palm of his parents' hands.
And Dong Fan when she appeared on the scene, she was generous, cute and kind, she fully understood Xiao Lu's intention to be a good father, as the current, she tried not to worry about Xiao Lu spending a lot of time ignoring himself and getting along with Hehe. At the beginning, Dong Fan was almost the dream lover of all men, with personality and appearance, without a single flaw.
Even for Xiao Lu, a big grinning mother and idle brother, she can be patient and kind, such as Fang Yinuo, who knows how to handle family relations.
However, Hehe's illness made Dong Fan's sense of security more and more lacking, and in order to prevent Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's second child, she tried her best to peek at the mobile phone and inform Fang Yinuo's family and Xie Tianhua. She became sharp and vulnerable and sensitive.
From the beginning, the girl with the sunshine in her smile to the humble and loveless appearance in the mess of the marriage afterwards was all caused by Xiao Lu. If this marital relationship is healthy, how can Dong Fan have such a strong sense of contrast.
When the topic of "Dong Fan blackening" appears in the hot search entries, it has actually been proved that the audience as a bystander feels that Dong Fan's choice of Xiao Lu is a wrong decision to waste her happy life for a lifetime.
Even if the end of the plot gives the audience a beautiful vision, Xiao Lu will not change. His confused lifestyle, always with the solution of the mud, will consume the positive side of Dong Fan's sunshine over and over again in his long-term life.
Dong Fan's marriage has sounded a wake-up call for thousands of women: Don't try to change men
In fact, Xiao Lu's state in the marriage has disappointed Dong Fan countless times. From a small point of view, Dong Fan encountered many gossip in the company, and when she needed comfort, she poured out her heart to Xiao Lu, but Xiao Lu's response was only one sentence: Don't go to your heart.
When Xiao Xu was cheated of 30,000 yuan and Xiao Lu helped him "wipe his ass", Dong Fan made objective suggestions. For her, 30,000 yuan is nothing, but Xiao Xu's dependence is likely to lead to a greater disaster, and one day this disaster is something that Xiao Lu's brother can't afford.
But in the face of Dong Fan's suggestion, Xiao Lu's reaction was to change the topic, and he did not answer the call but discussed the plot.
You see, Xiao Lu, who had a failed marriage, seems to have become more gentle and considerate, but his essence has not changed. When they were with Fang Yinuo, Xiao Xu, Li Caiping, And Fang Mu and others had a fierce quarrel, but Xiao Lu was vague, neither side was guilty, and the result was that the problem was not solved.
Before the contradiction of his mother's smoking broke out, Fang Yinuo gave Xiao Lu countless opportunities to extinguish the small flame in advance, but his lack of attention and his foolishness made the contradiction bigger and bigger, and became the fuse for the family to fly and jump.
Now, the matter of Hehe is over, and Xiao Lu and Dong Fan's marriage has returned to the right path. But the problem is that people's lives will have many accidents, these accidents may be on their own or on relatives and friends, if Xiao Lu and Dong Fan's marriage is destined to be happy only when it goes smoothly, then how can Dong Fan's marriage be happy.
Moreover, when something happens, it happens, and when it happens, there must be a gap. Xiao Lu will not forget Dong Fan's "blackening" appearance, and Dong Fan is even less likely to forget that Xiao Lu made a choice that violated marriage ethics in order to save his daughter.
These contradictions are deeply imprinted in the relationship between the two, and every subsequent dispute will make this brand more obvious. And Dong Fan, who has a delicate mind and is sensitive, can he really not mind at all?
The ending of "Dear Little Child" is extremely beautiful, but there is really no room for change in reality. Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu have been in love for many years, but she has not been able to change Xiao Lu, and Dong Fan is destined not to become a special case of Xiao Lu around him. Just like Dong Fan's concessions and understanding in the plot, in exchange for xiao Lu's lack of attention to himself.
Of course, Dong Fan's marriage is a completely female wake-up call, and a good girl should look for a good match. Really don't try to use your own empathy to change or even influence a man, this is something that the man's mother can't do.
Of course, "Dear Child" itself is a quality work. It's richly detailed, and the cast that comes together is quite brilliant. In this drama, the audience can see more real chai rice oil and salt, more pyrotechnic family relationships.
However, the ending of the film and television drama is destined to be happy and happy, and we do have the confidence to be hopeful about the future in adversity, but don't beg for yourself and naively drag yourself into the quagmire for anyone.