High-IQ kids usually have 4 "bad problems"
Luckily, parents steal the fun
The old man usually says that the old saying of the child is called: three years old to see the old, seven years old to see the big, this meaning originally means: look at a person's three-year-old appearance, you can see what he looks like when he grows up; If you look at a person when he is seven years old, you can see what he looks like when he is old. The actual meaning of the extension is that looking at a person's behavior and character when he was a child, you can roughly predict the future of this person. This shows that when you are young, you must pay attention to cultivation, and after this age, you will basically set it later. In fact, the child's high IQ, before the age of 5 can basically be seen, but there are usually the following four "bad problems", if it happens that your child is in an energetic and mischievous age, parents must not prematurely conclude that it is forced to intervene, it may be the embodiment of the child's superior IQ, as long as one is very lucky, parents although stealing fun!
First: When encountering injustice and disobedience, you like to talk back, and the top is reasonable and justified, so that you are powerless to refute
Don't think that children are well-behaved and obedient, even if they are wronged and silent, it is a good thing, in most cases, it is a good thing to resist.
Have you found that those children who love to talk back are often very responsive, language logic thinking is particularly strong, communication can quickly grasp the key points, and when there is a slight disagreement about your conversation content, they can immediately fight back, they have their own independent thoughts in their hearts, their minds mature faster, they will not be easily subjugated by the so-called "authority" of their parents, their personality is stubborn and tenacious, this advantage is especially reflected in their increasingly rich communication skills, and they can quickly mingle with the people around them in small groups. And it is easier to have a certain right to speak, rarely despised by external forces, and when you grow up, whether it is creativity or self-confidence, the comprehensive quality is obviously better than ordinary people.
Therefore, parents must not because the child often and their own mouths are violent, hysterical to the child's tantrums, parents should first quickly calm down, give the child a chance to talk and defend, let him fully express his true inner thoughts, and then slowly help him sort out and answer the rules of life, teach him how to look at the problem more comprehensively.
Two: good at asking questions, it is simply a "100,000 whys" in walking
My child is probably about 2 years old, that is, when she can communicate with adults in fluent language, in addition to sleeping and eating and drinking, I feel that her mouth has not stopped running, and I like to break the casserole to ask the end, and I am often asked by children's various nonsensical questions to get mad and collapsed.
"Mom, why did I follow the moon and go with me, I want to go home, where is its home?"
"Mom, why are the bunny ears so long, I'm so much bigger than it, but why are my ears so small?"
"Mom, are there monsters and Santa Claus in the world?"
"Mom, where did I come from, why didn't you and Dad have my wedding photos, and why wasn't I there?"
From the time the child can talk, every day his mouth is like a machine gun, all kinds of strange ideas and questions emerge in an endless stream, sometimes I can't resist asking, and even most of the time I am asked by myself, I don't know how to explain it to her.
But on the other hand, I was amazed at how her little head melon could have so many fantastic ideas, some questions were asked very deeply, adults could not answer, fortunately I would patiently explain to her every time, even if I looked up information on the Internet, I would try to meet her small doubts, because I knew that every child who loves to ask questions must be a child who loves to observe and think hard in her life, she is sensitive and curious about the surrounding environment, and she is thinking about the strange little things in her head every day. These children are very imaginative, have a great desire to explore knowledge, and the characteristics of these children are the most easily lost and precious parts of us when we grow up, which is worth our adults to protect with a lifetime.
Three: good at character imitation, like to play pretend games with adults, and enjoy it
Many children at home like to let adults accompany to play pretend games, imitate a role in tv, and even small animals and the like, parents seem to feel particularly naïve and unwilling to cooperate with the play, but can not help the child's soft grinding hard bubbles, can only be absent-mindedly cooperating while weakly resisting, really distressed.
"Mom, pretend I'm the uncle of the courier and bring you fruit"
"Mommy Mommy, pretend I'm a big bad wolf, you're a little white rabbit, now I'm coming to eat you, you have to be ready"
"Mom, pretend I'm a police uncle, you're a thief, I've got you"
"Dad, pretend you're a dinosaur, I'm Ultraman, and see who we can beat who"
If your baby often pesters you to play a variety of pretend games, don't think that they are childish and troublesome, but should be glad that such children have flexible minds, can think in a different position, their desire to perform is very strong, their imagination is rich, their thinking logic ability is strong, do not easily refuse the child's kind invitation, learn to join their small game with an equal attitude, and make some small suggestions appropriately to help him enrich his inner world. Such an approach can not only properly develop the child's intelligence but also help to increase the harmony of the parent-child relationship.
Four: Indulge in it when playing, and you can't feel the outside world
Children are very fascinated by the things they like and are interested in, such as building blocks, drawing, reading picture books, sitting for half a day, not moving, sometimes adults can't hear him talking to him, completely immersed in their own small world.
So some parents feel very anxious: my child plays with something and talks to him for half a day, it is unusually quiet, is it autistic or is there any problem?
In fact, adults do not have to worry too much, this phenomenon, just shows that the child's concentration is relatively strong, when he can do what he likes without distraction, single-mindedly, his imagination, memory and concentration and thinking ability are extremely active, adults at this time do not deliberately come forward to disturb them is the wisest approach, and these children with strong concentration, learning is not easy to be distracted, not easy to be disturbed by external factors, can sit still and learn, the results are obviously faster than children who are easy to distract, When you grow up, you are more calm and impatient, and it is easier to succeed in your career.
For children in the 1-5 year old age group, if you want to cultivate his concentration from an early age, the game I recommend first is stickers.
Almost no child in childhood is willing to refuse the wonderful experience of sticking stickers, choose the correct sticker from a large piece of stickers, accurately paste it in the corresponding position through the action of tearing and sticking, it can not only improve the child's hand-eye coordination ability, but also promote brain development, the child's memory, creativity and logical thinking ability have been greatly improved, when the child does what he likes to be interested in, it can stimulate his stronger concentration.
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