"Junjun, shall we go out and play for a while?" Junjun, what do you see in my hand? In a hospital ward in Qujing City, Yunnan Province, Fu Cuihua, with a wrinkled face, sat next to his granddaughter Yu Danjun and kept talking, but no matter how hard Fu Cuihua tried, Junjun did not react at all, but just sat obediently in place, looking intently at his hand. Fu Cuihua looked at her granddaughter's appearance of "not hearing anything out of the window with both ears", and the sorrow came from her heart, and the tears slid down in large drops. The picture shows Fu Cuihua interacting with her granddaughter.
"It's been 12 years since my granddaughter was born, she's been diagnosed with autism and mental retardation for 8 years, and she's been like this for years, never paying attention to anything that's happening around her, never talking, never paying attention to anyone's calls, and her IQ is a far cry from her peers. The doctor once said that the granddaughter's illness should be treated for a long time, otherwise she may not get better for the rest of her life... However, in our family, three people are seriously ill and there is an elderly person to take care of, and they are simply unable to take her for treatment. Fu Cuihua choked and said. The picture shows the 12-year-old Junjun.
Fu Cuihua's family is in the countryside of Qujing, Yunnan, in February 2010, granddaughter Yu Danjun was born, the arrival of a new life made Fu Cuihua happy to close her mouth, she circled around her granddaughter all day, how to see not enough. Fu Cuihua imagined her granddaughter's naughty and cute appearance when she grew up, and imagined a happy life full of joy after three generations of the family, but she never expected that her granddaughter's arrival was a doom. The picture shows Fu Cuihua looking at her granddaughter with pain.
When Junjun was a few months old, Fu Cuihua found that her granddaughter had not listened to the adults, and even if there were sudden noises around her, she never paid attention to them, as if she had no hearing, but just focused on playing with the things in her hands, or she was always in a daze, and even "daddy", "mom", "grandma" and so on would not bark. Fu Cuihua was uneasy and thought that her granddaughter's ear had hearing problems, so she took her to the Children's Hospital in Kunming for examination, but the results did not find any abnormalities.
Fu Cuihua breathed a sigh of relief, thinking that the child would be fine in the future, but Junjun was 4 years old, still like before, she could only take her granddaughter to the hospital again for examination, and as a result, Junjun was found to have mental retardation and autism (also known as autism). The picture shows Fu Cuihua's worries about the future of his granddaughter.
"The child's behavior has always been because she is sick, and now she can only alleviate the disease by receiving long-term rehabilitation treatment, slowly training to contact the outside world, if it is allowed to develop, the child may be immersed in his own world for a lifetime, will not pay attention to everything that happens in the outside world, or even can not take care of himself, and his intelligence will be reduced." Fu Cuihua looked at the diagnosis report in her hand and listened to the doctor's introduction, her mind was blank, she couldn't imagine that her granddaughter would have such a serious illness. The picture shows Fu Cuihua teaching her granddaughter to wash her hands.
Fu Cuihua wants to take her granddaughter to treatment, but when she heard the treatment fee, she was desperate, there have been two elderly people in the family who need to be taken care of, they can't do without people, in addition to the need to farm, these years can occasionally go out to work only their sons alone, the money earned can only barely maintain the basic cost of the family, the family simply can not come up with money to treat the granddaughter.
But the granddaughter's illness can not be cured, Fu Cuihua can only contact the family to raise money, but the family's stored grain is sold, and borrowed money from the neighbors, all the money adds up to junjun's one-month treatment fee is not enough, Fu Cuihua can only take his granddaughter home to find a way. The picture shows Fu Cuihua teaching her granddaughter to read.
"I don't know what to do, the family simply can't afford to take my granddaughter to the hospital, I can only find a way to save money, and when I have money later, I will take my granddaughter to the hospital." Fu Cuihua did not expect that this wait was 7 years, and the successive accidents in the family hindered her granddaughter's way to seek medical treatment.
In the past 7 years, in order to save more money to take his granddaughter to the hospital, in the past, the family did not even dare to eat meat, and only bought 2 pounds of meat dumplings at the New Year. In order not to spend money to buy vegetables to eat, but also planted a vegetable field around their old house, when there is no vegetable to eat, they eat dried vegetables that were dried before, or go digging wild vegetables to eat, the whole family's clothes are also worn, never bought. The picture shows Junjun painting.
While saving money, Fu Cuihua has always remembered the doctor's words, and slowly guided Junjun to contact the outside world, find more things she is interested in, see more, and do more training. In order to let her granddaughter have more contact with the outside world, Fu Cuihua carried her granddaughter to play in a relatively quiet place in the village, once Fu Cuihua found that her granddaughter was actually interested in wildflowers on the side of the road, her hand has been pointing, since then she has picked some wildflowers for Junjun to play with every day, and will also teach her to count flowers and guide Junjun to speak... In the long-term company of Fu Cuihua, Junjun actually learned to call Grandma. The picture shows Fu Cuihua feeding her granddaughter water.
Fu Cuihua was very excited to hear her granddaughter call Grandma, but because Junjun had not been able to get formal treatment, her condition did not improve significantly compared with before, but she would just call her "Grandma". Fu Cuihua watched her granddaughter grow up day by day, and in the blink of an eye, she was 9 years old, but her intelligence was still like that of a newborn child, and she really did not want to wait any longer. The picture shows that Junjun has learned to eat on his own.
In 2019, Fu Cuihua borrowed a sum of money to take her granddaughter to the hospital for treatment, but before she set out, she suddenly fainted, and after being sent to the hospital, she was found to have uterine cancer and needed surgery immediately, otherwise her life could be in danger at any time. As soon as Fu Cuihua heard that she was going to spend money, the whole person panicked, and she pulled out the infusion needle in her hand and shouted in her throat to go home, saying that she did not want to stay in the hospital for long. The picture shows Fu Cuihua taking care of her granddaughter.
"I don't know how serious the cancer is, but when I think of my granddaughter who has waited for so many years to have the opportunity to go to treatment, when I think of my granddaughter's helpless back, and the years when she can't speak, I can't convince myself to spend money and go to surgery..." Fu Cuihua said this, breaking down and crying.
"Only when adults are there, children have the hope of treatment, and if adults are gone, children will not be better." In the end, under the persuasion of a family, Fu Cuihua chose to undergo surgery, and after two operations, he finally saved his life. Also because of the operation, Junjun's treatment had to be postponed again. The picture shows Fu Cuihua combing her granddaughter's hair.
It was not until July 2021 that Fu Cuihua finally waited for hope, she learned that there is a special hospital that can accept children like Jun jun, and can waive part of the treatment fee, Fu Cuihua immediately took her granddaughter to the hospital to go through the formalities and began to receive treatment. Fu Cuihua thought that as long as her granddaughter got the opportunity to be treated, she could continue to be treated, and her condition would slowly improve, but she did not expect that just when Junjun was in the 4th month of treatment, the family members actually fell ill again, and Fu Cuihua's son, Junjun's father, was found to have tuberculosis outside the lungs.
"My son is sick, he has become extremely emaciated in a short period of time, he can no longer go to work, and even spends a lot of money every month to treat the disease, when I am sick, he always advises me to treat it, but now that he is sick, he always says to treat Junjun first." The doctor said that he should take medicine on time for treatment, otherwise it is likely that the condition will further develop and become serious, and even life-threatening. Fu Cuihua's eyes were full of tears, and she chose to stop the drugs that controlled her condition. The picture shows the grandchildren in the rental house.
At the same time, Junjun's treatment fee was also broken in half, while maintaining his son's condition, on the other hand, he maintained Junjun's treatment, but how many days could he persist?
"The granddaughter has been living in her own world for 12 years, and now it is difficult to get the opportunity to be treated, and she cannot give up easily, and the doctor also said that it cannot be delayed any longer, and the impact on intelligence is getting bigger and bigger, but the son's condition also needs to be treated all the time." Now there is only one daughter-in-law in the family, taking care of the elderly and farming, I have to take my granddaughter to treatment all the time, I can't do without half a step, the family has no income, and also owes a huge debt, I really don't know what to do. When Fu Cuihua said this, his heart was full of powerlessness and despair. The picture shows Junjun playing with flowers. Original works, it is strictly forbidden to reprint in any form, infringement will be investigated! #Photography Headlines ##图片故事 #