Before, I naively thought that being a full-time mom was so good that I could stay at home every day and not be lonely because my own baby was with me.
But it wasn't until the child was born that I really understood the suffering of a full-time mom.
My husband will think that I just take the children every day, and every day I am at home without working or going to work. But can you think of me every day with the child, go to the toilet to become worried, eat a meal is also in a hurry to eat a bite sometimes the meal is not hot is not necessarily hot, no matter what you are doing, as long as the child cries, you must let go of what you have at hand, because you are afraid that the child will be hurt. A day I wish I had countless pairs of hands, and as long as you take it back to the courier, no matter what you buy, you will not say that you spend money indiscriminately.
The mother-in-law's side will think that the child is so old that she does not go to work. But as a mother, I know very well that the child cannot leave the mother before the age of 3, and the child is best not to let the elderly take it alone, because the next generation of relatives is really not good. In this way, the child will be spoiled and know nothing for a day and know how to play
At this time, you will think that only your own mother, the child's grandmother, is most distressed about herself. Yes, there is nothing wrong with this idea. But it is also because of the dispute over the education of children, after all, everyone has different ideas for each person.
It's too difficult to really be a full-time mom, if you really want to be a full-time mom, I advise you to wait until the experience conditions are sufficient before doing it. It wouldn't be harder