I took the twins downstairs to practice jump rope, passed a man, and boasted: "Good jump, good look." ”
Then he approached me and asked, "How old are they?" ”
I said, "4 years old." ”
He said: "My family is also so big, I will not jump one." Turning to my baby, he continued to praise: "Dancing very well!" Come on! ”
Since the teacher posted videos of other children jumping rope in the class, I have not been calm, and I have been practicing with my baby for 4 or 5 consecutive days, but it is still fruitless: none of them have jumped over.
The younger brother is just the rhythm of the hands and feet is not coordinated, and the brother is a problem with the whole rope throwing and jumping action.
It is estimated that the whole building can hear 5:30 to 6:30 p.m., I am pulling my throat "roaring" baby:
"I just taught it, the hand should be thrown next to the side, not thrown to the front, don't mention so high."
"Feet and feet, first practice your feet to jump, don't play tricks."
"Practice tightly, don't stop, don't think your mother can't see."
"Good, fast, ready to jump 2 soon."
……
These two days, a neighbor came downstairs at this time and would say to me:
"You don't have many children!" Practice with you every day. ”
"Why do you have to jump rope at such a young age?" Kindergarten requirements, right? Now education is also true, children are so small and easy to fall! ”
The dad I met was the most pompous and praise of his twin brothers, probably thinking of being the same age as his own children.
He may have finished his grocery shopping at the supermarket and walked past us again.
He gave the two brothers a thumbs up again and boasted, "Good looking, come on!" ”
Later, my brother was finally able to jump normally, although when Dad arrived home, he couldn't show him a normal jump rope, but I still let Dad take his brother upstairs.
My brother was still too lazy to move, and while shouting "I can't jump", he looked at the scenery while I was demonstrating. Let my brother practice the rope throwing with both hands separately, and today he will barely finish the work.
In order to boost the morale of the children, I said: "You have made progress in jumping, and you see the uncle who just passed by, and he praised you for dancing well, right?" ”
My brother said, "Yeah, he gave me a thumbs up!" "This child is also really good at cheating, he doesn't know a few pounds, and the words of adults are convinced!"
I said, "Yeah, because he has a little friend your age, who is also more than 4 years old, and he can't jump rope, and he can't jump one." ”
I was desperately scavenging for words of praise, only to think that I could praise his efforts: "But his children refused to practice, you still practiced every day, right?" So you're going to improve day by day. ”
My brother went upstairs with great confidence and joy.
Grandma casually asked at the door: "Did you jump well today?" ”
The brother danced with his hands and feet and said to his grandmother: "I danced well today (actual hands and feet are not enough, not to mention jumping a past), and my uncle praised us, their children, not as good as us." ”
OMG! This child not only believed the "ghost words" of adults, but also learned to add oil and vinegar to his face. I obviously said "no effort from you", and he became "not as good as us to dance".
In fact, children are thick-skinned, and others don't care whether they do well or not, it's also very good! At least it will not be hit, although it does not know how to "know shame and then be brave", but good villains can be like the "xiaoqiang" who can't die, the more frustrated and courageous it is!
I am also very grateful to this enthusiastic father, who did not forget to praise the two children twice when passing by, so that they fully believe that they are very good.
Anyway, this blind confidence can still bring them a lot of happiness!
I don't know if I should remind the children, in fact, they are a bit behind the average class?
(Some of the pictures are from the Internet, the copyright belongs to the original author)