For high school, it occupies a special position in most people's hearts, and there are more or less regrets, which may be the sadness of adolescence, or the learning state of high school... High school is between youth and maturity, naïve and at the same time there are many sensible moments, very special, like a lot of pressure at the same time can give plenty of strength, so it is more precious.
01 Regret does not mean negative
Think about it carefully, there are too many regrets in life, including the college stage now, I believe that when I graduate, I will inevitably have all kinds of regrets when I look back.
Tagore said, "If you shed tears when you miss the sun, then you will miss the stars." In other words, regret is to make you more aware of the present, rather than just thinking about going back to the past, if you are too attached to the past, then your past and future will become boring.
The so-called regret, most of them are always thinking and thinking, especially when you don't do a good job or don't get it, it is easy to form an obsession, feel that if you try a little harder or how to do it at that time, in fact, this is the inferior root of the person, because even if you give you another chance, you can't guarantee that you can do it or get it, and even if you get it, you won't look so seriously.
Therefore, regret is inevitable, but it does not mean that regret must be linked to negative emotions, which is really unnecessary, just like high school, maybe you will have unspoken regrets, but it must be more memorable and missed.
02Why high school is special
Because high school is the first turning point in the public impression of life, it is also a conventional time of struggle.
High school includes the first ten years of study time, in the college entrance examination this year to hand over their own answer sheets, naturally there will be people regret why they did not work hard enough in high school, not enough to Qingbei and so on.
However, regret is often accompanied by life experience and vision at that time, when we seemed to be able to only make limited behaviors, only to remember it now in college, and then regret and regret can not reach.
Some people think that it is a pity that there is no vigorous confession in high school, but the crush hidden in the heart is not a youthful ignorance.
Some people feel that it is a pity that the failure to choose the right subject in high school led to the voluntary mistake of filling in the college entrance examination later, but the truth of "Sai Weng lost his horse and knew that it was not a blessing" was left to be witnessed later.
Some people think that it is a pity that not making good friends in high school leads to loneliness, but cherishing the time to meet friends who can walk together is not an inspiration.
In that period of high school, regardless of the future, regardless of interests, every time I recall that time, it is accompanied by sincerity and satisfaction, as a high school student who has struggled hard, even if it is a time of hard study, it is bitter but sweet.
If you feel confused when you graduate from college, it may not only be a regret, but also related to whether there is a goal, no matter what, please remember that in life, you can't ask for everything to be perfect, so you must be kind to the regrets in life, of course, if you can make up for it in time, it is good, good luck.