Everyone says that one child is raised according to the book, and the second child is raised according to the pig, which is not wrong at all. Not only is the treatment different after the child is born, but even when it is in the belly, the treatment is also very different.
It is not that parents are biased, but that the feelings of new fathers and mothers are different. When I had my first child, I had no experience, and I was afraid that my child would have something to lose, so I was careful.
Slowly raising the child, I found that I didn't have to be too careful. When the second child came, with the previous experience, it was no longer scared, even like no one else.
On April 23, according to netizens, a pregnant woman in Xianyang, Shaanxi Province, was still eating hot pot and drinking soda at home before giving birth, and her husband was patiently waiting next to her with a maternity bag, which was ridiculed by netizens and must be the second child.
From the picture, you can see a pregnant woman standing in the kitchen and eating a lot. Pregnant women have loose hair, their stomachs are already very large, and their wide maternity clothes are propped up.
A large pot of ingredients is heated on a low heat on the stove, and it is a red oil hot pot. A variety of foods tumbled with the hot soup of red oil, looking very appetizing.
I saw that the pregnant woman took chopsticks in one hand, went to catch the ingredients in the pot, and directly put them in her mouth to eat, and the other hand picked up a large bottle of soda, grunted and drank a few sips, and then looked satisfied.
When I saw this, I thought that pregnant women were hungry and secretly hid in the kitchen to eat. After all, pregnant people should avoid eating, spicy and stimulating hot pot and cold soda are not suitable foods for pregnant women.
But who knows that as soon as the camera turns, there is a man standing at the kitchen door, still carrying a large bag of things. Take a closer look, isn't this a bag to be delivered?
It turned out that the husband was waiting for his wife to go to the hospital to give birth, and according to the husband, the wife had begun to contract regularly, but the wife had to eat what she wanted to eat before leaving, and the husband had no choice but to agree.
Pregnant women usually do not always eat these things, but to wait for delivery, know that after giving birth is a long lactation period, these foods are absolutely untouchable, so they have to grasp the addiction before giving birth.
The husband knows that his wife is hard, tries to meet her wishes, cooks her a hot pot and buys soda, so that she can eat and drink enough, and then she can give birth with peace of mind.
Netizens saw that this scene was happy and broken, and everyone said that looking at this situation is definitely not the first child, how is it also the second child, the third child, otherwise which can be so calm.
Netizen comments
Some netizens said that after they contracted the palace, they also seized the time to wash their heads and eat bowls of noodles before giving birth.
Some netizens said that when they opened three fingers, they were urged by the nurse to enter the mother, she did not enter, had to wait until the milk tea came, and drank a cup of milk tea before giving birth.
There are also netizens who suggest that you don't eat too much, in case you want to have a caesarean section, it will be miserable, you are that kind of situation, vomiting.
There are also netizens who commented that this look is not the first child, and the first child does not know how nervous.
A shallow view
There is no impunity in giving birth to a child, but after having a child, you know all the processes, so that you will not be too nervous and wait for the birth of the child step by step.
Mothers should avoid feeding their children for half a year, and pregnant women also know this situation, so they willfully return to the last time before childbirth and eat what they want to eat.
Looking at the mother-to-be so unhurried and not slow, people who came over could see at a glance that this was definitely not the first child. It is also true that netizens guessed correctly, people have already given birth to a child, so they will be so calm.
One child is raised according to the book, the second child is raised according to the pig, although the parenting method is different, the mother's love for the child is the same. The first time I was a mother, I had no experience, lest something go wrong, I flipped through the books and went online to find a way. If you have children in the back, you know that many situations do not need to be too nervous