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Guan Xiaotong celebrated Lu Han's birthday, but netizens commented: See how long you can continue!
As early as the night of April 19, Weibo has begun to brush up on related topics such as "tomorrow there is a big melon" and "Guan Xiaotong Luhan has received a certificate".
Therefore, after the melon-eating masses were looking forward to "Guan Xiaotong Luhan's public marriage", what happened?
At 00:00 on April 20th, Guan Xiaotong sent a Weibo: Happy Birthday.
Lu Han replied: Click.
Although the melon overturned the car, this simple blessing and response seemed to be engraved with the whole of the years, hiding infinite warmth and softness.
Looking back at Guan Xiaotong's birthday wishes to Lu Han in the past 5 years:
First year birthday: 00:00 card points
Second Birthday: 00:17 They were together for 17 years
Third birthday: 00:30 Lu Han is 30 years old
Fourth birthday: 23:31 Guan Xiaotong is 23 years old, Lu Han is 31 years old.
5th Birthday: 00:00 Happy Birthday
The girl's delicate careful thinking is full of ritual.
If it weren't for this hot search, we wouldn't even be sure that they were the least optimistic at the beginning, and they had been together for more than 5 years!
01 Fearless show love, Lu Han Guan Xiaotong is definitely the exception of the exception!
Accustomed to seeing so many pairs of entertainment circles, Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong are definitely the exceptions.
In 5 years, the "Wang Feng's Law" did not break them up, and the gathering of less and more did not break them up.
Many people find it unbelievable, but in fact, it is reasonable.
Remember that during the National Day in 2017, Lu Han, who was called a top star at the time, publicly announced his love affair with Guan Xiaotong, the "national girl", on Weibo.
Stirring up a thousand waves, this information exploded to the point that Weibo was instantly down, and even the official CEO came out to complain.
Of course, there are also many media people and programmers, and the 8-day long holiday was ended in advance.
But the choice of this release time node, in my opinion, is the behavior of a real grandfather - this man is really serious, very pure, very brave to love.
There was no hiding, no left and right swing, and no hesitation.
It seemed that from the moment he identified Guan Xiaotong, he was ready to walk together for a long time.
Later, a reporter interviewed Lu Han and asked him why he chose to fall in love openly.
He replied frankly and firmly: "I think it needs to be announced when it comes to falling in love, I don't know how others understand it, but in my case, it is a responsibility." ”
As a top male star with tens of millions of fans, announcing love is undoubtedly a barrier to his career, this behavior is a gamble, an adventure, affecting the shaping of the screen image, not to mention, it will also lead to the loss of a large number of true love fans.
You know, as a traffic star, fans are the gold lords.
I remember that when the love affair was made public, many of Lu Han's fans expressed their depowdering, and Lu Han suddenly changed from a small fresh meat of the stars to an ungrateful "scumbag", while Guan Xiaotong became the target of everyone and became the "little three" in the eyes of fans.
So this is why most couples in the entertainment industry choose the way of underground love, even if the two people do not come together in the end, that separation can not bring any loss, at least in the career interests is to ensure that there is no harm.
But Lu Hanming knew the results of the announcement, and he still resolutely chose to be generous and public.
He is not afraid of dropping powder, not afraid of affecting his own resources, he just sincerely exposes his true self to the public. He generously placed the relationship under the sun, accepted the warmth of the sun, let the sun look directly, of course, there is another meaning - welcome the public's "supervision" of the relationship, the "supervision" of his behavior.
Lu Han's courage and frankness of taking only one scoop of three thousand weak waters, love without fear of consequences, and leaving no way back make me really admire this Beijing grandfather.
However, this kind of strength in his bones seems to be inherited from his original family.
Regarding the family behind Lu Han, there has never been a statement that can be certified, but before some netizens sent out chat records with girlfriends, his superior was Lu Han's father. Later, perhaps because Lu Han was on fire, for the development of his son, Lu Han's father slowly withdrew from the unit.
If the netizen broke the news that it is true, it is no wonder that Lu Han, who has lived in the compound since childhood, can have such courage and courage.
02 Netizens reversed their attitudes, did Lu Han Guan Xiaotong break up?
For this pair of entertainment circle lovers, many netizens have a bad attitude from the beginning.
The hot search changed from "Lu Han Guan Xiao tong official announcement" overnight to "Lu Han Guan Xiao Tong broke up".
Indeed, this couple with an age difference of 7 years and a little bit of height is not very compatible, the two people stand together, just like some netizens say, a bit contrary.
In addition, Lu Han was at the peak of his career, but Guan Xiaotong was still studying in college, and at that time, Guan Xiaotong was criticized by netizens for both acting skills and fashion.
In short, netizens just feel unworthy.
Some netizens even left messages under Guan Xiaotong's Weibo to slander and persuade them to break up, asking Guan Xiaotong not to delay Lu Han.
But Guan Xiaotong ignored these negative comments like a flood and laughed indifferently.
Leaving aside other aspects, purely emotionally, I think Guan Xiaotong's personality, I like it.
We all want to have a love in our hearts that is full of anger and love without complaint and regret, but there are too many worldly prejudices and visions that make it difficult for us to achieve.
But Guan Xiaotong did it, she resisted the mouth of a thousand people, the anger of thousands of people, and firmly carried this love forward.
Looking back at the past 5 years of Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong, they are as low-key as a pair of ordinary lovers, and only some pictures of private life have been exposed, but it is also warm and simple.
Lu Han took Guan Xiaotong to participate in the running boy group brothers dinner, so that his girlfriend naturally integrated into his social circle.
Guan Xiaotong took Lu Han to travel, relax, play ball, and turn love into a long stream.
I remember that in a program, Lu Han and the staff selected and purchased products online, and at the beginning of the Amway of the staff, Lu Han was not moved.
Until the staff said that this set of pajamas was a couple's outfit, Lu Han suddenly came to the spirit and asked the staff: "Can I buy two sets." ”
At that moment, he thought of nothing else, it was Guan Xiaotong, the lover he was most worried about in his heart.
And Guan Xiaotong is also, in "Ace to Ace", Lu Han also quietly came to the scene, but he did not tell Guan Xiaotong, but wanted to surprise her.
And the moment he appeared, the director quietly said in Guan Xiaotong's headset: Lu Han is coming.
This sentence made Guan Xiaotong instantly confused, she shyly looked left and right, and soon she saw Lu Han in the distance, even if Lu Han was wearing a hat and mask, she still recognized him and laughed instantly.
Because there are entanglements, even through the sea of people, I can see you at a glance.
It is precisely because they love simple, love simple, love pure and long, netizens really support the couple, and even urge marriage.
03 Don't get a license yet, see how long you continue to be in love?
Five years later, the pair that was least optimistic at the beginning was able to "go through the road" in the ups and downs of various breakup rumors.
No wonder netizens are anxious: "I don't get a license yet!" See how long you can stay in love! ”
For a moment, looking at this pair of long-distance running models in the entertainment industry, I was quite sorry.
As ordinary people, we have no idol baggage and no career influence, but why do we still lose everything in love.
Perhaps, because too many people often use vows as a springboard to overthrow themselves, and many people are willing to attribute their promises to the excuse of breaking them, they always inadvertently find various reasons for change.
For example, personality incompatibility, economic differences, parental obstruction, etc., in fact, too many reasons are just a kind of prevarication, not really impossible to solve, the most fundamental reason is the inner wandering and uneasiness, as well as the ups and downs and changes in the mind.
When love is bred in the heart, it seems that no one can stop it, even if the world is broken, the sea is dry and rotten, it cannot change this crazy existence, once time passes, time fades, get along plainly, people who are shaken in their hearts have countless reasons for liberation, and strive to persuade each other to take the initiative to let go and complete, this is the most cruel love.
At first, the choice was a little impulsive, and then it was a little sloppy to let go, it was always difficult to move forward in the bones, some superficial, some shallow, not never loved, but there was no cruel spirit.
What is the spirit of cruelty, I suppose, is the gamble of love.
Because they are well aware of human nature, they are more willing to make a choice in their emotional choices, and what they choose is not random, but steadfastness and conviction.
Partners want to maintain a lasting relationship, relying on the sweetness of you and me to support for a while, but can not support a lifetime, only the two of them to favor each other, the courage to bet on the relationship.
Rational choice, serious and determined, always believe that their love is right, willing to pay for this, and constantly add to pay, is such a fate, really belongs to the ordinary people can not do, or even dare not do the realm.
Love is something that requires two reliable people to have 100% certainty and certainty with each other in order to create a harmonious movement.
And only those who have a cruel spirit can hold hands as companions, thin water and long streams, through years and years, rounds of spring and autumn, rounds of summer and winter. Bless Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong, all the way to win your love.
Do you have such a cruel spirit?