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Every old man hopes to live his old age well, can happily and easily spend the happy time of his old age, after all, a lifetime of hard work, the old age should be enjoyed, the relaxation should be relaxed, as long as there is money, you can live a happy old age, the 68-year-old uncle frankly said: "If you want to be not miserable in your old age, the evening scenery is not desolate, don't do these three stupid things, otherwise it will be too late to regret." "Let's look at his personal experience.
01 My surname is Feng and I am 68 years old
It's been 8 years since I retired, and before I retired I worked very hard to earn money, take care of my family, support my family, and I couldn't do without money.
My health is also better, in addition to working hard to make money, after work, I also use my spare time to go out to make money.
I am a welder in the factory, after work, there are friends to decorate the house to do anti-theft nets, I also help them to do, in order to complete faster, I often sacrifice sleep time, to raise a wife, to raise children, relying on my salary is far from enough.
Although I was very tired, I also made a lot of money before I retired, the family changed a big house, and I prepared the money for my son's marriage, in addition to which I also had a lot of money left, I want to retire easily.
At that time, when I went to work, I was working hard, and I was also desperately trying to make money after work, there was no time to play, there was no time to be dashing, and after retirement, I finally relaxed, and I wanted to make up for everything I had sacrificed in the past.
At that time, the children were also married, and I felt that I did not need my help anymore, and I wanted to live a retirement life as well as possible.
Every day at home can not stay, and friends go outside to play, and sing, and dance, and drink, and play cards, I think people are old, they should look at the opening point, should play, should be dashing, do not take the money too seriously.
My wife has always advised me not to go outside when I have time at home, how can I stay at home? I feel that the family is like a cage, old husband and wife, you look at me, I look at you, what does it mean?
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I don't want to listen to my wife nagging, I do my own thing, but the result is an accident, my wife is at home, every day is very angry, said I don't listen, the mood is very depressed, originally she was not in good health, and later, she fell ill.
It didn't take long for my wife to die, and my wife's death hit me so hard that I didn't expect her to leave so early, and I especially regretted that I didn't listen to him, made her angry, and actually became seriously ill and left me.
My son also blamed me, saying that I didn't care about his mother, I was very angry, scolded him, and reprimanded him: "You don't care about the adult's affairs, what qualifications do you have to manage Lao Tzu?" ”
My son was also angry with me, I was also particularly disappointed in my son, this child is too unfilial, I also figured it out, no one can be trusted, I have money and what am I afraid of?
It didn't take long for me to return to my old life, going outside every day, and a year later, my son's company suddenly had problems, there was no job, he wanted me to help, he knew that I had saved a lot of money, wanted me to support him 300,000, he wanted to start a business.
I refused, and I said, "I have helped you to start a family, and it is your own business to live well or badly in the future, and I have no obligation to help you." ”
My son despaired of me, looked at me bitterly, left the house, and our father and son broke up.
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I also feel very lonely, only by spending money, I can find happiness, I feel that my wife is gone, my son is ignoring me, no one cares about me, I am more free.
I have money, what am I afraid of? My friends and I were even crazier, not only did I like to drink, but I also got into gambling and found a woman.
At first I couldn't play mahjong, the woman with me taught me to play, I played very small only one or two dollars, then 5 dollars 10 dollars, more and more money to win, I feel that my hand is particularly good.
We are no longer satisfied, in order to win more money, play bigger, invest thousands of dollars, win tens of thousands of dollars.
Later, the hand is getting worse and worse, all lost, I have been unconvinced, determined to turn the book, to win back the lost money, the result is lost again, I am anxious, the more gambling the more crazy, not only the deposit lost, even my house is mortgaged, or
This is completely finished, my savings and the house are all lost, the woman sees that I have no money and runs away, my friends ignore me, at this time I understand that I have been deceived, by them to trick.
However, it is too late to regret it, now I can only live in the cheapest rental house, life is very poor, I want to go to my son's pension, but he also refused, he refused to forgive me.
My mood has become very bad, my health is not very good, once in the hospital, my son did not come to see me, now I know regret, but what is the use?
My old age was miserable and desolate, all of my own making, and I warned my retired friends not to do these three stupid things after retirement.
summary:
First thing: Don't do anything to be sorry for your wife
After retirement, you must accompany your wife when you have time, and the two of you will accompany each other to take care of each other, and don't just take care of yourself, regardless of each other.
After retirement, accompany your wife, the real care about your wife is also your wife, do not provoke your wife to be angry, do not do things that make your wife unhappy, and know how to care for your wife.
Second thing: Don't turn your child away for help
Children are always their own children, when they encounter difficulties and need help, do not refuse, do not just think of their own enjoyment, in the child encounters difficulties, when encountering difficulties, try to help them get through the difficulties.
Don't just care about your own enjoyment, be dashing, ignore the child's difficulties, only make the child resentful, and completely disappointed in yourself, and when you encounter difficulties and need help, they will not ask.
Third thing: Don't get caught up in bad habits
After retirement, there is more leisure time, there is more freedom, some people feel very bored, life is very sad, they are infected with the vice of gambling, gambling 10 bets 9 losses, infected with it without regrets.
Not only their relatives alienated themselves, but also let themselves lose money, and even fell to the point of homelessness, no one sympathizes, in their old age, they must find a healthy form of leisure and entertainment, do not get involved in gambling, when the people are rebellious, the evening scene is desolate, and it is too late to regret.
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