Modern educational theory holds that parents are the child's first teachers. Parents' thinking and style of conduct can have a great impact on their children's development. In traditional Chinese consciousness, it is also believed that "if there is a father, there must be a son", which means what the father is like, and what kind of children are brought out.
However, Mao Renfeng's family seems to be the complete opposite of this statement. His father, Mao Renfeng, was the biggest secret agent leader of the Kuomintang after Dai Kasa, and not only did his hands stain the blood of revolutionaries, but he was also cruel to the Kuomintang insiders. People who knew him well even used the word "demon" to describe him.
The lives of his three sons were completely different. The eldest son, Mao Yunan, was the chairman of Foxconn and the chairman of HP China. The second son, Mao Fonan, became the chairman of Dahua Futures Co., Ltd. Not only are they worth hundreds of millions, but their social status is also quite extraordinary. The youngest son, Mao Shunan, is not simple, once served as the chairman of the American Chinese Chamber of Commerce, actively contributed to the construction of the motherland, and completely went to the opposite side of his father.
This huge father-son contrast makes many people wonder. Could it be that "demons" can't bear to do anything to their children? Of course, this is not the case, Mao Renfeng has always had an impact on the growth of his three sons. However, this influence played a different role for the sons under the background of Mao Renfeng's style of doing things.
Throughout his life, Mao Renfeng believed in "forbearance, waiting, and being ruthless", and he could endure when he was inferior to others, and he could wait when the time was not right, but he would be absolutely ruthless when he should start. For example, Xiang Yingxin, the wife that Dai Kasa arranged for him, not only helped Mao Renfeng a lot in his career, but also gave birth to eight children for Mao Renfeng. Mo said "one day husband and wife hundred days of grace", when Mao Renfeng was in power, the first target was Xiang Yingxin.
At that time, Xiang Yingxin just had a cold, but Mao Renfeng told the doctor with a fierce look: "She is a flu that burns out her brain, is mentally ill, and is not allowed to be discharged from the hospital." Xiang Yingxin is also a veteran agent, and he doesn't know what this means. She threw herself at Mao Renfeng's feet in horror, crying with tears streaming down her face. However, Mao Renfeng was not at all moved, and he forced his wife to be mentally ill for eight years. By the time Xiang Yingxin was discharged from the hospital, there was really a problem with his spirit.
Mao Renfeng's eldest son, Mao Yunan, was born in 1944. By the time Mao Renfeng died of illness in 1956, Mao Yunan was 12 years old. Judging from this age, Mao Yunan should have experienced the whole process of Mao Renfeng from peak to final loneliness. If Mao Yunan was not affected by his father in any way, it is obviously impossible.
However, Mao Renfeng's cruelty to his mother also made Mao Yunan particularly disgusted by Mao Renfeng's behavior. When the two younger brothers grew up, Mao Yunan would tell them about their father's past. In a state of panic, the two brothers, Mao Fonan and Mao Shunan, also resented their father's style of doing things.
Even so, Mao Yunan can still see some shadows of Mao Renfeng in his style of acting. Although through his personal efforts, he is recognized as a benchmark figure in the telecommunications industry, within Foxconn, the view of him is generally very good at forming his own power, and it is difficult for other shareholders to fight him.
There is another thing that best reflects Mao Yunan's influence from his father. In 2015, when Mao Yunan became the chairman of Huasan Group, he was opposed by more than 90% of the employees of Huasan Group. The employee representative said: "We are not opposed because he is a descendant of the secret agent, but his business style is not in line with our philosophy." ”
It turned out that most of the large companies that Mao Yunan had taken over were sold outright by him for his own profit purposes. Among them, when HP acquired 3CM, Mao Yunan used this business idea to make more than 20 million yuan for himself. The fierceness of the shot is the father's wind.
Therefore, in the process of growing up, although he was influenced by his father, from the heart, Mao Yunan unconsciously used his father as a mirror for growth, and subconsciously chose the opposite side. As an elder brother, this thought of his also drove him to often warn his two younger brothers.
For example, the experience of Mao Renfeng's second son, Mao Fonan, is more telling. According to historical records, Mao Fonan was the one with the most father-like personality among the eight children, so Mao Renfeng also liked him the most, and always took him with him in various social gatherings. As a result, Mao Fo Nan has accumulated a large network of contacts in both the political and business circles from an early age.
But under the influence of the eldest brother's description of his father, Maunfonan was full of antipathy to the deceit of the political circles. Throughout his life, Mao Fo Nan has always developed in the business world. When he was worth hundreds of millions, his eldest brother Mao Yunan was still working hard.
On the body of Mao Shunan, the younger son of Mao Renfeng, the role of his father's negative teaching materials is more obvious. When Mao Shunan was studying, Mao Renfeng had already died of illness. So he learned about his father's past from his brothers' stories. Therefore, Mao Shunan directly chose the opposite of his father. When the motherland's reform and opening up began, Mao Shu'nan carried out agitation work among overseas Chinese and encouraged overseas Chinese to return to the motherland to invest in construction.
Mao Shunan once said publicly: "I can't choose my birth, nor can I change the history of the past, but I can do my own good and do what I should do." ”
Judging from the successful lives of the three mao yunan brothers, Mao Renfeng, the "devil" in the eyes of the world, has played a negative teaching material. What he did all his life, even his own son felt shuddering and disgusted. From a certain point of view, the Mao Yunan brothers also tried their best to get rid of the influence of their evil father, so they had the motivation to gradually work in the opposite direction and succeeded each other. This result may not even be thought of by Mao Renfeng himself.