No matter how good a relationship is, how deep the feelings of two people are, once they enter marriage, they will be slowly diluted with the passage of time, and they will quarrel plainly. There will inevitably be a lot of bumps and bumps between husband and wife, and the feelings will naturally be compared with the previous ones.
No matter how good the marriage, there will be the idea of divorce, husband and wife conflict, there is friction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, these are some common things in life, there are grievances in the heart, there is no place to talk. There will be other ideas, or tired of this family, this indisputable man. So there will be other ideas in the mind, once you take a wrong step, it may be a disaster, so some things should be prepared in advance, do not let what should not happen, there are the following points do not do.
confide. If there is a contradiction in the family, or if you have been wronged, you will find someone to talk to, especially a friend of the opposite sex, so you are comforted and cared for. This is the signal before the infidelity of the man, once this situation is more frequent, then slowly will form an emotional dependence, and your dependence on this man is to tell him that you are already interested in him.
For men, as long as there is this signal, it will be grasped, then this kind of extramarital affair will naturally occur, what you want is emotional outpouring, psychological comfort, men want to get your body, as long as they meet, women's excitement, men's inability to control themselves, it is also very easy to wipe the gun.
Women may think that this is the so-called love, men will naturally applaud such love, when the passion is over, men may be tired, but you can not extricate yourself, look back and see that their home has fallen into pieces, can no longer go back to the past, regret is too late, so it is said that the pouring out of the opposite sex is to release ambiguous signals.
lonesome. After being married for a long time, I felt particularly boring, so I began to fantasize about poetry and fields in the distance, and the spring flowers bloomed facing the sea, always yearning for those romantic loves, these phenomena are too idle. You have to know that any relationship will go from passionate to slowly flat. Play to tell yourself that now is the mother, is the wife, do a good job of positioning yourself, always remind yourself not to forget.
When you get praise from the opposite sex, please don't be complacent, many words are not true, you can even say that they are just patting horses, don't think that they are really admonishing you. I have done some things for you, I have helped you, and these kinds of behaviors need to be considered and need to be vigilant. The heart of harming people must not be there, and the heart of preventing people must not be without, which may be a gentle trap.
When you play 'poker' with a man, after having intimate contact, and want to break free later, then it will be difficult to do it, men don't matter, women will have unimaginable consequences, most men can not accept their wives individual men have practiced martial arts, this is a matter of principle, can not touch the bottom line.
Web chat. Many people have nothing to do, psychological and spiritual emptiness, always like to find someone to talk to, want to find a spiritual sustenance on the network, think that the network is just a virtual thing, as long as the line will exist, no relationship, usually can not speak the words, you can speak freely on the network, to a stranger to say unscrupulously.
No one can predict what kind of person the other side is, what kind of heart they have. Once you meet someone you think understands you, empathetic, or an emotional veteran with a ulterior motive, knows what you think, wants, and is fully compatible with you, it is easy to have an affair with you in this situation.
We often see this kind of news, network derailment rushed out, and then was threatened by all kinds, and even by people to take videos, photos, really a lot, the consequences can not end, may ruin the second half of their lives, this is not a fuss, regret medicine can not be bought.
Office romance. This is one of the most common, the most convenient, and one that can easily happen. For their superiors, colleagues, these men, must maintain a certain distance, some units have unspoken rules, in this group, the leader is easy to subordinate, women think that they can be exchanged for promotion, or get any benefits, often will dedicate themselves.
Women think that they will be cared for, there will be endless benefits, as long as the time is long, there is no impermeable wall, once the matter is revealed, the woman may lose her family, lose face, lose her job. Many people always do it with a fluke mentality, thinking that the two people plan seamlessly, open a room here, go there for a business trip, or in the office can be simulated.
No accident how to be good, once the accident is no way to clean up, you look at those real-name reports on the Internet women, are office romance, after the accident was not properly handled, and finally can only be reported through the network, let the social opinion punish them, but most of them are also not worth it, really not worth the loss, love and protect themselves.
Extramarital affairs is something that everyone wants to try, but it is really dangerous, the best way is to be able to prevent it in advance, remind yourself of what to do, what not to do, can't wait until something happens to know regret, nothing is too late, you say is not this truth, the so-called feelings or love, in the end or "that little thing" is worth it?