What a hard and busy time! Finally becoming a father and mother, the burden on my shoulders seemed to be heavier. Being a parent is joyful, but being a parent is also the most difficult and tiring. Not only do you have to take on your child's financial problems, but you also have to be your child's first teacher and teach them about life.
When children are very young, they will have all kinds of questions, throwing at us, and the soul asks: Dad, what is this? Some things can certainly be explained well, but some make parents anxious to touch the brain, and they are also very clear that it is now the child's memory stage, and a good answer at this time will affect his life!
Therefore, as a parent, tell your child these three sentences as soon as possible to benefit your child for life.
Life is a practice, but it is inevitable to take detours. And the careful teaching of parents can save them the time to take detours, or less detours. When the children are a little younger, they will better guide the world and act as a guide for them in the world, so parents must first tell their children these three sentences.
The first sentence: To be a person of integrity and kindness
At this time, it is the time for the child to absorb a lot of the growth nutrients of the world, and at this time, the words of the parents will affect the child's life! When a child grows up, what kind of person will he become? Isn't it hard to be a bad guy with many evil deeds? Obviously, when we come to the world, we live on this planet because we think that we can be upright and kind, and others and all the thousands of people in the world can be honest and kind, so that the world can be more harmonious and beautiful!
Every parent should understand that you will be the first and most important teacher of your child, and all your words and actions will affect your child's life!
At this time, you often mention next to the child, to be a righteous and kind person, and you must take the initiative to take the child to practice the application, what is "integrity and kindness", then, when the child grows up, he will live as a righteous and kind person.
Perhaps, intelligence is not the most important character of a person, but integrity and kindness are indispensable.
Second sentence: To be a happy and happy person
Wang Xiaobo once said this sentence in "The Golden Age": First of all, we must be an upright person, and secondly, we must be a happy person. The highest state of being a human being is actually like this. First of all, be upright, and secondly be happy. Integrity is for others to be happy, which is equivalent to having a self-sacrificing state of mind, and happiness is for the happiness of oneself and one's family, and it is also the kind that is pursued as an individual and all sentient beings.
Parents should teach their children this way when they are young, to be a happy person. People are living in the world, very hard and tired, why should they be painful and sad? Live happily and grow up healthy!
But parents also have to teach their children, how to get happy? Only by studying hard, loving work, and working hard to make money can we be happy and actively devote ourselves to our work and career, so that we can be happy.
Every parent must understand that there is only one way to happiness and happiness, that is, simple and pure, do not base happiness on the pain of others (then not a righteous and kind person), but it does not mean that you have to take the hard road, but I want you to understand that when choosing the path of life, a simple life may also become very happy.
The third sentence: to be a person who strives to be upwards
If you don't have a dream, what is the difference between that and salted fish?
If you think about it, people live all their lives, as if they are trying to live. First of all, I tried to learn to climb and learn to talk, then I worked hard to enter school, learn scientific and cultural knowledge, enter work, learn people's sophistication, accumulate work experience, then get married, have children, learn how to be a parent, be a good grandparent...
If you don't try to learn upwards, then you won't, even if there are some instincts that you should have as a human being - such as learning to walk and talk, but some people study harder, so some of them become models and become announcers.
To be a man, we still have to have dreams, life is looking forward, the times are round after round, we stand on the shoulders of giants, naturally more efforts and better than the predecessors. Therefore, to be a person, we must work hard, not only as a personal responsibility, but also to the greater extent, or to complete the mission given to us by the times!
Parents are the best teachers of children, in the child's enlightenment stage, parents must make it clear to their children, let his mind always haunt these three sentences, to be upright and kind - to ensure the character of people, the foundation of the foundation; to be happy and happy - born as a human being, in the fundamental root of this world; to strive upwards - in comparison, this is the level of development, do not work hard, is it difficult to become worse than a generation? The great wheel of the times rolls forward, you and I have to work hard!
You look at today's high-tech, high-speed rail planes, smart phones, these are all the fruits of hard work.
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He has a saying in it: First be a righteous person, and secondly, be a happy person.
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On the succinct and concise conveying of the true meaning of how parents should teach their children, a truly excellent person, his life must be indispensable to these three sentences, "integrity and kindness, happiness and happiness, hard work" must also be their successful motto, parents in advance to their children to explain these three sentences, very important.
After all, there are many things that can not be explained clearly in three or two sentences, the so-called words and deeds, parents should strengthen themselves, excellent themselves, arm themselves with knowledge and culture, in order to teach and enlighten children's hearts! You look at those big people, most of the children are excellent, in addition to the children have excellent genes, but also because of what?
Without further ado, as a parent, I sincerely recommend that you understand these three sentences, which is of extraordinary significance to children.