Sometimes I have a bit of low self-esteem, sometimes I'm full of self-confidence. Everyone in life is equally swayed by inferiority and self-confidence.
Everyone comes to earth with a mission. No matter how ordinary and small we are, how insignificant we are, there is always a corner that will put us on hold
There is always someone who needs our presence.
I like to walk gently through the beauty of morning and dusk with small steps, quietly enjoying the gifts they give.
There was a time when I used to go to the hospital because I had a knee injury. Almost every time my brother Jiaming took me to see it, I always thought of seeing and hearing a variety of stories in the hospital, and these stories always had no intention of touching my heartstrings.
In January, three readers wrote to me in private: "Sweetheart, I feel that there is no sunshine in my world, people at work make me feel snobbish, people around life make me feel unsatisfactory, and the long-term disconnection of friends makes me feel abandoned." "This is the first letter from a reader.
The second is: "Sweetheart, I grew up in an orphanage, I have no relatives, and every time I see others and my family intimacy, I feel extremely inferior and sad." ”
The third is: "Sweetheart, I'm tired, my mom is in the cardiology ICU, I feel like life is without sunshine and no warmth." ”
After reading the private letters of three readers, I would like to say: the torrent of time will eventually push us somewhere, maybe just to give you a barren mountain, then please take root tenaciously on the barren mountain and make it a long-awaited paradise.
I would like to say to readers who grew up in orphanages: "Honey, everyone who helps you grow up is your relative, and you are not alone. God's gift to each of us is different, so the world is also imperfect, and since the world is not perfect, please look at it with an appreciative eye! In this way, we will find that God is actually very fair to give you an enviable side and will also give you a bad side. Who hasn't been bitten into an imperfect apple? In fact, we are all very happy, but our happiness is often in the eyes of others. ”
The phenomenon of the first reader is very common, and everyone is inseparable from society, work, life, relatives and friends. When we have this thought, I suggest that you quietly look through the book you grew up with, and you will see all the ways you look along the way. These looks will take you to find the answer you want, and if you believe me then you can try it.
The third reader sweethearts to say to you, "I am very happy to receive your letter because you are willing to let me be your faithful listener, and at the same time with sadness because I am sad to see you say that your aunt is sick." Sweetheart's shoulders are not great, but they can give you a rest in this small space at any time, the sun is always there, and I am always there. Doctors will do their best to help auntie recover her health, there are many people in life who are silently paying attention to you, didn't you say that many of the surgery fees are given by strangers who leave no name? Honey, these are the sunshine of life, the warmth. The world is so warm that no one is excluded, and it's something I once said to a doctor who was sick and said to me, that I was once a teenager who had no concept of death, that I was afraid, that I cried. At that time the doctor said believe me and I will accompany you to defeat the demon. So we can't say that the world is not warm because we have encountered a storm, you see how beautiful the sky after the rain is as bright as every happy smile, and the sky is full of warm smiling faces like never been hurt by a thunderstorm.
Your first responsibility in the journey of life is to make yourself happy. When you are happy yourself, you can make others happy, because happy people are willing to see only happy people around themselves.
Sometimes we feel cold around us because we close the door of our hearts, and the sun has been gently knocking on the door but we can't hear because we have been overwhelmed by our own magnifying troubles and disappointments.
When we feel that there is no warmth, we will go to the sun and walk around, you will find that in fact, every corner of it has not been forgotten, no matter how beautiful or unsightly that place is, it still serves his warmth equally. Our life is the same, our life is also the same has a lot of warm hearts have been sending you the sunshine of love, the beauty of blessings, the happiness of companionship!
Don't feel inferior because of your own lack, and don't suspect that life is not good because you encounter some unsatisfactory. We must objectively evaluate this colorful world, and think from multiple angles between people. Live with a grateful heart, appreciate the world with an appreciative eye and you will find that everything is so warm and beautiful!
Hopefully we'll always remember that the world is so warm and no one is left out!