This is the 492nd issue of the small article to share
Recently, I often hear a saying that "the first to meet the nobles is to establish a career, the first to meet the good people is to start a family", when you do not meet the good people, the nobles are particularly important, so how can you meet the nobles and have the luck of the nobles?
First share a small daily life with you, before a WeChat friend suddenly sent me such a message:
To be honest, I didn't feel very comfortable at the time, she asked me questions one after another as soon as she came, without any expression or honorifics, but I replied to her out of courtesy.
If it were you, what would you do?
Speaking of this, I can't help but think of a word, which is also one of the reasons for my rapid growth over the years, this word is called: Noble Luck!
In fact, everyone in your fortune is brought by yourself, depending on whether you can play it out.
01
Respect sincerity
If you want to have your luck, first of all, you must know how to respect and be sincere. Everything is based on respect, such as when you have to ask others, the first polite greeting is respect for the other party,
Secondly, wait for the other party to reply, and sincerely communicate with the other party about the things you need to help, so that the other party will be more willing to communicate with you.
I believe that everyone does not like the boss's tone of voice to order you,
Because no one in this world has an obligation to help you, to help you is not to help you is righteous, even family members are the same.
And the closer people are, the more we must respect each other and communicate from each other's point of view, do you recognize it?
02
Gratitude, giving back
The second is to know how to be grateful and give back. Others to give you help to know how to be grateful, the so-called "gratitude" is not verbal talk, so-and-so I am very grateful for what you have done for me, it is really not like this. To be implemented in action, such as:
After receiving help from the other party, you can send a red envelope to express your heart or the other party needs support without hesitation, and here I will share with you my communication with my nobles:
He knew that I wanted to live broadcast, directly sent me a copy of the material to learn, really thanked my noble teacher, in order to thank him, I expressed my heart, whether the teacher received it or not, is the respect for the teacher's time.
Later, I learned in his words that he wanted to understand the video number live broadcast process, and I sorted out all the information I learned and sent it to him, which is feedback.
Other services, including later purchases of teachers, were a gesture of gratitude to him. So, we have to be a giver, not a taker.
03
Timely review and reporting
The third is to understand feedback. Think about it, if you share a very good method with your friend, according to your experience, it will help him a lot, but he will not give you any feedback after practicing.
How would you feel? Is it just wondering if you can help each other?
Therefore, being a timely feedback person will not only make your noble fortunes better and better, but also become more and more efficient in your daily work.
Because after doing this, you can summarize your own review;
Second, the other party also needs to be recognized, feedback, encouraged, and appreciated, which are the most basic needs of people.
As long as you conscientiously implement the above three points and maintain this positive energy cycle for a long time, your noble fortune will naturally get better and better.
Let's be our own nobles together, to meet your nobles, and finally to become the nobles of others!