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Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

After brushing "The Legend of Mi Yue", I summarized it, as the big heroine of this drama, although she did not hang all the way, but there are always noble people to help when life and death are at stake.

Some people say: Mi Yue has any ability, not all rely on men.

That's true and it's not.

Mi Yue has a pattern and means in politics, which is an unquestionable true skill. However, even the best means must first be "in their place" before they can seek their own government.

The two periods in which her political acumen are highlighted in the play are the reign of Yingsi, who assisted her as the eighth son of Qi, and the period when she became the empress dowager of the Qin State and officially came to power.

Then from a fallen Chu princess to a dowry daughter, then from a concubine to an eighth son, and finally from an eighth son to an empress.

From powerless and powerless, to sitting firmly in the position of the empress, what did she rely on on this road? It can make so many people love her, support her, and follow her.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

Yong Rui, Fan Lizi and other important ministers described Mi Yue as her current female husband; Generals such as Bai Qi and Wei Ran swore allegiance to her to the death;

Huang Xie, Yingsi, and The King of Yiqu fell in love with her at first sight, and even Yin Hua, the son of her enemy Lady Wei, had thoughts about her.

Those who take the same position may she ascend to the throne as soon as possible; those who contend with her fear her, fear her, and give a dead hand at every opportunity for fear of her ascension to the throne.

Her situation is polarized, but it's all because of the severity.

There is a classic line in the play:

Angry and fearful;

Settle down and the world goes out.

This is used to describe Zhang Yi, the minister of the Qin Kingdom, and Zhang Yi has a very good personal relationship with Mi Yue, and he evaluates Mi Yue: Ice and snow are smart.

This assessment is too general.

We translate it more specifically: in addition to the hard skills of politics, Mi Yue also has some key soft skills in the body, deep insight into people's hearts, and deep understanding of the way of the emperor.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks
Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks
Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks
Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

If you don't panic, if you come, you will be safe

This characteristic can be clearly seen from the way to Qin by the dowry.

Along the way, the princess and bride herself cried and cried and cried that she couldn't stand it, and her aunt only knew how to quarrel with people, everyone was taking care of venting their emotions, and Mi Yue was comforting on both sides.

First let princess Yan calm down to save her strength and continue to hurry, and then went to find the captain of the kiss to win some more rest time.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

Princess Yan was sick, and she encountered different words and weights and measures when she grabbed medicine, and she solved these practical problems one by one.

The Chu people felt that the Qin people had no rules and did not know the etiquette, but she saw that the Qin law behind this was strict and well enforced.

Except for the death of a few close relatives, she cried bitterly.

For the rest of the things that did not matter to life and death, she did not have that kind of undulating emotion, but maintained a consistent solution idea to move forward.

Emotional stability can be said to be a necessary prerequisite for success.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

In the face of the strong, have their own posture

The most comfortable state between people is dialogue on an equal footing.

Postures that are too high or too low are easy to cause people to be disgusted.

For example, Mi Yue served the King of Qin, after becoming the eighth son of Qi.

The same question, the King of Qin would ask the queen, and he would also ask Mi Yue, but every time he came to Mi Yue, he would smile and get a satisfactory answer.

The queen was afraid of offending the King of Qin, so she only said the most official words.

Somewhat flattering.

Mi Yue was different, she did not speak against her heart, but she was good at telling the truth skillfully, which could not only show her point of view, but also make the King of Qin feel comfortable.

The King of Qin was a very decisive Ming Emperor.

He asks others for their opinions, not because he has no opinion in his heart, but because he hopes that there are people around him who dare to tell the truth.

Therefore, Mi Yue won his heart, and some unknown villains even speculated whether Mi Yue had mind reading.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks
Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

The contrast is great and can often surprise people

When the King of Qin first saw Mi Yue, Mi Yue looked like a boy with a heroic look between her eyebrows, and at this time the King of Qin looked at her differently because she was different from the women in his harem.

The bold and accustomed Mi Yue suddenly dressed in a Chinese costume, danced a sacrificial dance with a look, graceful and colorful like a fairy, and the King of Qin's eyes lit up.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks
Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

When Mi Yue first entered the Qin Palace, she often caused trouble, and her sharp teeth were still very stubborn, as if nothing could embarrass her.

Just when the King of Qin secretly admired this woman, Mi Yue wept helplessly because of the murder of her brother, and the King of Qin felt pity for her here.

I often think that love is simple because we are sure in our hearts who we want to be with.

Love is complicated because there are all kinds of emotions mixed in a love.

The King of Qin's love for Mi Yue was like this.

Again and again, the King of Qin saw a vivid Mi Yue, which meant that it was rich, interesting and attractive.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks
Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

When Mi Yue became empress, there were still many people in the DPRK who disobeyed her, and they were not willing to submit to a woman.

Li Lizi also went on strike because of his disagreement with Mi Yue's political views, and Mi Yue bet with him that within ten years, he would restore the grandeur of the Qin State in the past.

Before his death, Li Lizi remembered this bet and smiled happily: the ten-year period has not yet arrived, and Great Qin has far surpassed the time of the previous king.

The opposite of contrast is stereotypes.

In addition to love, the able people around Mi Yue looked up to her because in the impression of those people, a woman's vision and ability were only worthy of being a woman at home.

Mi Yue subverted their impression that she was a presence that exceeded expectations, so they would only admire her even more.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks
Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

Contrast does not come.

It can be referred to as:

Cultivate connotations and expand the possibilities of all aspects of yourself; keep a low profile, do not have to empty your talents at once, and usually do not show mountain dew in order to surprise people at key moments.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

Have patience and know how to "want to catch the old way"

In terms of love:

3 men love her as much as they want, but it's hard to get her.

Although Huang Xie and she have known each other since childhood and are in love with each other, the person who first broke the window paper is Huang Xie, and before that, Mi Yue had gambled with Mi Yin that she did not like Huang Xie.

After Huang Xie learned of this, he went to find Mi Yue to confirm, and repeatedly expressed his intentions, and after several rounds of unforgiving confirmation by Huang Xie, Mi Yue revealed his heart.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

When Eun Seol fell in love with Mi Yue, she knew that Mi Yue had Huang Xie in her heart, and knew the weight of Huang Xie in Mi Yue's heart, and she didn't intend to let Mi Yue sleep, but only admired it from afar.

Even if Mi Yue took the initiative to find him later, he also thought that at this time, the person who got it would not get the true heart, so he took a lot of trouble to understand Mi Yue's past.

Wait until she puts it down before the two officially begin.

Before dying, Eun Seol was still confirming whether Mi Yue loved him.

In many places in the play, it is revealed that Mi Yue is a difficult woman to tame.

Huang Xie, never got it.

Eun Seol, not sure if he ever got it.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks
Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

In the third love, Zhai Li said that mi yue was wild and difficult to tame when he first met mi yue, but he liked mi yue's wild son, loved her so much that he couldn't extricate himself, and was born and died for her.

Counting carefully, Mi Yue rejected him more than three times.

Is it really the best thing to get?

Perhaps: people will pay more attention to and cherish things that are not sure that they belong to them completely, and it is easy to take things that are 100% owned and taken for granted.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

Mi Yue once instructed the queen on how to get away with it;

In the dispute over the crown prince, Mi Yue was also speculated by Gan Mao's party as wanting to get away with it, and others did not argue with her, but told the King of Qin that she was going to leave the palace far away, so the King of Qin was even more reluctant to her.

Whether there is intention or not, it is not easy to judge, but analyzing her various behaviors, there are effects of wanting to indulge.

Mi Yue had read Sun Tzu's Art of War and had tactical thinking.

She also gave the book to her younger brother Wei Ran and asked him to carry it with him, and Wei Ran's repeated military merits also depended on this book.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks
Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

Talk about love, to Jok Gang

It is said above that Mi Yue is difficult to get and will not be easily tamed. But her cleverness is that once you establish a relationship, it will make you feel that she is good for you.

After the bedchamber, she will deliberately dress up and then go to see the King of Qin;

The King of Qin handled government affairs, she picked up lamps, polished ink, and sorted out books; boiling soup and making sachets was exactly the appearance of a caring little woman.

The King of Qin encountered difficult problems and had a headache, and after some analysis by Mi Yue, he suddenly became enlightened, and the King of Qin boasted that Mi Yue was wise.

Mi Yue would say: The concubine knows that the king has a good idea, but he just says it through the mouth of the concubine.

Regardless of whether the King of Qin had a number in his heart or not, he would be very happy to hear this. Mi Yue knows how to show weakness in front of the other half and take care of each other's face. It is Kennesuke who does not steal the limelight.

The King of Qin also said something very spoiled to Mi Yue:

You know that you laugh more than you cry, and your weapons are enough to destroy the widow's society.
Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

The same is true of the second marriage of the Righteous Canal King.

At that time, Mi Yue had already become the empress dowager of the Qin state, and in the eyes of the world, the empress dowager could raise male pets, but could not remarry.

But when the King of Yiqu offered to have a wedding with her, she still agreed, and they returned to the grassland to worship the Immortal Heaven according to the custom of Yiqu.

This was done first to stabilize the power of the Righteous Canal, and second, to satisfy the possessive desire of the King of the Righteous Canal.

In the courtroom, she was the empress dowager, and the King of Yiqu was a courtier, looking like a strong woman who was fierce, but when she returned to the palace, she would change back into a small woman in front of the King of Yiqu.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

Except for Great Qin, who could not give it to Yiqu, the rest of the things went down the Yiqu King, and she confessed to the Yiqu King: What can be given to you, I will give it to you.

Her son did not have a good relationship with the stepfather of the King of Yiqu, and she coordinated in the middle, coaxing on both sides.

The emotional intelligence to deal with things is very high.

In fact, the most difficult thing to do is that she never competes for a moment, nor is she arrogant, as long as the result is good, she is willing to tolerate the people around her.

In the end, it is due to good emotional management skills.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

Write at the end:

Women are generally good at thinking and delicate in their minds, but they are also extremely easily swayed by emotions.

Mi Yue was able to surpass the excellent men in the play to achieve the final achievement because she used the advantages of women in that era and overcame the disadvantages of women.

To sum up in the words of Qin Wang's concubine:

Yue'er has a bosom that ordinary women don't have.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks
Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks
Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

In fact, when encountering people and accomplishing things, sincerity and skill cannot be less.

If you want others to interact with you without complaint or regret, you must first let others see your personality charm.

There are many places in the play for us to learn from and ponder.

Why do men like Mi Yue? It's really not a matter of looks

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