Speaking of Shen Aojunguang's name, everyone will be a little strange, but mentioning her role may evoke your memory.
She has starred in Ceciss in "Doctor Xi Laile", Li Tianjiao in "Golden Marriage", and Zuo Lan in "Latent".
If there is still no impression, then when you see her photo, you will be surprised, it turns out that she is Shen Aojun!
Shen Aojun has participated in countless television works for many years since his debut, and has also dabbled in movies and stage plays.
In addition to being able to go to these places, she also attends some public welfare activities.
The rest of the time, she didn't seem to be in our sights very often. In the invisible place, she lived a plain and happy life.
Shen Aojun was born in Harbin in 1976, his original name was Zhao Yan, a Manchu.
After graduating in 1997, he was sent to the Shanghai Television Art Troupe and became an actor. At the beginning, she shot Coca-Cola commercials and also acted in the movie "Meteor Shower".
In 2001, she got the role of "Princess Gaoyang" in the TV series "The History of Love in the Tang Dynasty", and through Shen Aojun's interpretation, the role and herself were well received by the public.
In the play, she not only portrays the agile girlish feeling that is very in line with the needs of the role, but also interprets the brave character characteristics of Princess Gaoyang very well.
It was during the filming of this drama that he met Nie Yuan, who also played the role of "debate machine" in this drama. This cooperation made Shen Aojun meet and fall in love with him, and began the long-distance love run between the two that lasted for ten years.
In the school period, because of Shen Aojun's outstanding image, there was an endless stream of people pursuing Shen Aojun, and these people did not impress her.
In 2001, when Shen Aojun filmed "The History of Love in the Tang Dynasty", Nie Yuan had already made a small improvement in his career, coupled with his top appearance when he was young, it should be very much in line with Shen Aojun's imagination of the other half, so they fell in love.
Although there were scandals around Nie Yuan, Shen Aojun, who was in love, did not seem to care. In this relationship, Shen Aojun loved him with all his strength, and it can also be said that he cared too much about him.
So much so that in this relationship, the disparity in their status is obvious. This unequal love relationship will make Nie Yuan feel that Shen Aojun is not so important, and he does not cherish this girl who loves her at all, and the end of this love is obvious.
When they fell in love, it was also the rising period of the two people's careers, and both sides had nothing to say in terms of business ability, and they both shot a lot of works with good reputation.
In 2003, Shen Aojun was nominated for the best actress at the 21st China Television Golden Eagle Awards for her role in the costume comedy "Divine Doctor XiLaile", although unfortunately she did not win the award, but it was also an affirmation of her work. She herself is even more sober, believing that in the professional path of an actor, strength is indispensable.
After the increasingly busy work, the opportunity for the two to meet is less and less. Distance is always a difficult problem in love, but despite this, there is always someone who can coordinate well.
But in Shen Aojun's love affair, it is clear that "distance" has become the biggest crisis in their relationship. Shen Aojun is not often around, and there will definitely be someone close to nie yuan who is popular, just like this, the man has a new lover.
Ironically, Shen Aojun was the last of all the people involved in the incident to know about such a thing. Unbeknownst to her, she also thought of entering into marriage with her boyfriend of many years and loving the man as usual.
When she told Nie Yuan about the idea of getting married, the man refused because he was busy at work. Maybe Shen Aojun, who was in love, couldn't look at this relationship objectively, or maybe he really loved him too much, so that Nie Yuan believed whatever she said.
In this way, she prepared everything herself, as long as the man nodded, they would have their own little home.
Perhaps it was to see that things developed to the point where they could no longer be delayed, and the talents around them told Shen Aojun the truth. This is a big blow in her emotions, a love that she spent ten years in her life, because the other party fell in love with someone else, and it ended.
Externally, she said that maybe because she can't often accompany him, someone is more suitable for him. In the end, she still maintained her respect for the man, or so gentle. Is this a sign of deep love for someone?
Anyway, the relationship ended there. Shen Aojun's heart is trapped by love and urgently needs a new person to rescue him.
Shen Aojun's family could not watch her secretly hurt, and life had to go on, so they introduced her to a new person, so she met her current husband.
At the beginning of the two meeting, Shen Aojun did not rub any sparks with him, because Shen Aojun was still in the pain caused by the last relationship.
And the man's side did not want a result immediately, but when she was sad, she chose to listen and send comfort. From the other party's attitude, Shen Aojun saw sincerity. It wasn't until 2007 that they established a romantic relationship.
Because of the man's work, they did not see each other for a long time, and it was not long before the man flew away from work again. This time, the same problem was placed in front of Shen Aojun, that is, distance.
They couldn't be together for long, and this time they were farther away, one at home and one abroad, and it was even more difficult to meet.
The feeling of loss and uncertainty brought about by this separation once again occupied Shen Aojun's heart. However, this time the distance seems to be more like a paper tiger.
In 2008, during the filming of "Latent", Shen Aojun's boyfriend saved up two years of vacation, which was more than two months vacated, and flew to China to accompany her. And knowing that Shen Aojun was allergic to pollen, he did not send flowers when he met, but carefully tried to alleviate her sore legs due to shooting.
These things made Shen Aojun very moved, perhaps in the last relationship, she gave too much love and did not receive the same care, this time this man gave her a warmth that she had not experienced, making her eye sockets moist.
Although Shen Aojun's side is still in the process of filming, but the boyfriend's vacation has ended, he must leave. In the days that followed, the two men had to contact each other by phone.
In the day-to-day chat, through the phone, the man expressed his desire to be with her forever. And this time, Shen Aojun did not have confidence.
The last relationship, together for ten years, did not achieve positive results. What's more, this time, the two did not know each other for a long time, and they were so far apart. In the next step, Shen Aojun never had the courage to go on.
In the same year, Shen Aojun received a call from her boyfriend. The other end of the phone told her that his application to transfer to Work in Beijing had been approved.
Because of the failure of the previous relationship, Shen Aojun left Shanghai and moved to Beijing for development. That way, they can live together.
The distance problem that had always been doubtful in Shen Aojun's heart was solved, and the rest was that the two people who loved each other greeted a happy life together.
In 2009, the broadcast of "Latent" once again brought her career to the peak, and outside of the film and television works, she entrusted herself to become the boyfriend of "Anda".
After marriage, she shared her happy moments in the show: before getting married, her boyfriend came to Beijing and pulled out a loose diamond. The loose diamond was bought with his two months' salary. Since then, Shen Aojun has officially waved goodbye to the pain of the past.
Because of her husband's work, he could not disclose his identity, and although the grand wedding that Shen Aojun was looking forward to had his participation, he could not show the frontal photos of them together. Shen Aojun fully understood this, and in this regard, she officially entered the marriage.
A year after getting married, in 2010 she ushered in another happy moment in her life – becoming a mother.
As a new mother, she tried her best to be the best she could be. When her son was seven months old, she could no longer breastfeed because of physical problems, so she had no choice but to wean and let the child adapt to the bottle.
To everyone's surprise, the child did not cry, but adapted very well. At this time, everyone should be happy, but Shen Aojun revealed that it was this incident that made her sad for a long time.
She felt that breastfeeding was the best way to feed her child, and because she did not have enough milk, she once fell into self-blame.
Immediately after, the problem that Shen Aojun had to face was whether to choose to take care of the children at home or to return to work. In this matter, her husband gave her great support, so after giving birth, she is still active on the screen, balancing home work and family life.
Soon after, in 2013, Shen Aojun won the honor of Best Actress at the 10th Movie Channel Media Awards and the 14th China TV Movie Lily Awards for "Hu Qiaoying's Complaint".
After many years of debut, her acting skills have no problems, and she does not pursue fame too much, but she also needs some awards that can prove her strength. After so many years of steady improvement in acting, she finally got a response.
When Shen Aojun also generously shared her life in the show, the smile on her face was a perfect summary of her life state.
At this time, she formed a warm little family with her beloved husband and children, and shared the little bits of raising children with her relatives and friends around her on weekdays. Such a state could not be more real.
Although she experienced dangers during childbirth, and even postpartum psychological fluctuations, it was good to have a husband who could make her rely on, and when these difficulties arose, he could give her strength and accompany her through.
This experience allowed her to experience the practical problems brought about by life, but fortunately, she could feel the years with her husband who loved her, have lovely children, and make life beautiful and painful. No matter how vigorous it is, it will eventually return to plainness, and participate in the trivialities of life.
People who are really in life are happy. As she wrote on Weibo in 15 years: "There is always something beautiful in my heart, which will fade with time, but the days are not like this, plain and real." ”
Today, although she has not seen any new works, she is getting farther and farther away from the audience, but closer and closer to her own life.
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