Author: Jin Shanyue Editor: Li Jin
Publisher: Marriage and Family Magazine
ID:hunyinyujiating99
Recently, the historical drama "Mountains and Rivers Moon Ming" is being broadcast, which tells the story of Zhu Di and Xu Miaoyun, the fourth son of Ming Taizu, who joined hands to show their grand plans.

Although the male number one is the Yongle Emperor Zhu Di, the "parental love" shown by Zhu Yuanzhang and Empress Ma, played by Chen Baoguo, unexpectedly attracts attention.
From a poor couple starting from scratch to middle-aged people, they explain what is called "one life and one couple".
Many viewers shouted "see the appearance of love", and the various cute points of the couple in the play are even more enjoyable.
She knew him, cared about him, and was happy to see him smile;
He cherished her, favored her, and was sad to see her sad;
Although they are highly powerful, the two people have always maintained the habit of calling each other nicknames.
Empress Ma was seriously ill, the husband and wife looked at each other with tears in their eyes and endured pain and isolation, Zhu Yuanzhang's call of "sister" made people's liver and intestines cut off, and Chen Baoguo also rushed to the hot search because of the explosion of acting skills.
It really responded to what netizens expected when it was first broadcast: when I saw Chen Baoguo, I knew that this drama was appropriate.
Chen Baoguo is a national first-class actor, who has been in the arts for more than 40 years and has starred in hundreds of works. The emperor alone has played more than a dozen, which can be called "emperor professional household".
He is the childish, provocative and amorous Li Zhi of Tang Gaozong in 1995's "Wu Zetian";
He is the heroic and heroic and paranoid and lonely Han Gaozu Liu Bang in 2005's "Emperor Wu of Han";
He is the Jiajing Emperor Zhu Houxi, who controlled the overall situation in 2007's "Daming Dynasty 1566";
In addition, he also played Yue Wang Gou Jian, Sui Dynasty Emperor Yang Jian, Qianlong, Xianfeng, cameo Appearances qin shi huang, Li Shimin...
It can be said that it has performed the "top stream" in the emperor and dominated the historical drama of ancient costumes.
Don't worry, Chen Baoguo's screen role is far more than this, and the following dramas are more than "phenomenon-level" gods.
Bai Jingqi, who has a flamboyant personality and is born anti-bone in "The Gate of the Great Mansion", the anti-drug bureau chief in "The Great Case of the Mekong River", the sinister and vicious Xu Tieying in "No War in Peking"...
When Chen Baoguo is mentioned, we will always jump out of our minds one after another vivid characters, with very different personalities and thousands of styles.
This time starring in "Mountains and Rivers Moon Ming", Chen Baoguo made Zhu Yuanzhang's image full and full of tension, making the audience's eyes bright and moving.
In fact, like Zhu Yuanzhang in this drama, Chen Baoguo in life is also a good husband, a good father, and a lifelong companion with his wife, or the leader of his son's career.
01
A happy childhood is a person's greatest luck
Chen Baoguo is an authentic Beijinger, born into an ordinary family, and grew up playing in the hutongs of old Beijing.
His childhood was filled with the scent of locust flowers and the shouts of hawkers.
Parents are very tolerant, and they often turn a blind eye to the naughtiness and playfulness of this "Beijing little master".
In early summer, Chen Baoguo ran wildly outside all day, climbing trees, digging bird nests, and catching clams with his friends.
When he was hungry, he climbed up to the locust tree, picked up a handful of branches, squeezed out the locust flowers, and ate the middle flower buds.
That taste, sweet, refreshing, after many years, can still soothe Chen Baoguo's heart.
In addition to locust flowers, he loves the snacks of old Beijing, donkey rolling, Ai Wo Wo, and sesame cakes.
Every day at 3 p.m., hawkers carry their burdens and walk the streets, and Chen Baoguo is waiting at home.
He knew that Grandpa would buy himself a little snack. Sure enough, within a few minutes, the old man sneaked into the house with two burnt cakes.
Grandpa was very kind, while watching Chen Baoguo gobble up, he handed him a bowl of clear tea and instructed: You boy, nibble slowly.
It is said that a person's greatest luck is to have a happy childhood.
The beautiful years of growth have made Chen Baoguo's heart full of self-confidence and grow into a teenager with ideals, opinions and responsibilities.
According to his parents' plan, he should become a "mechanic", but Chen Baoguo does not want to copy the stable but eye-catching life of his fathers.
He enrolled in the Central Academy of Drama, won by relying on his handsome appearance, and got the acceptance letter.
But within a few days of enrolling in school, Chen Baoguo was poured with cold water.
Compared with his classmates, he is simply "useless", neither from a famous family, nor a little talent.
He soon realized that relying solely on "appearance" would not lead the path of an actor.
After that, he narrowed his mind, studied hard, and studied acting.
Chen Baoguo always knew what he wanted, and no matter how he chose, his parents and elders stood silently behind him.
A childhood full of love and joy gave him strength and taught him to cherish.
Let him understand that the greatest happiness in life is that the family is neat and tidy, sitting idly in the courtyard, and relying on each other in the faint lights.
02
The best marriage is not a partnership, but the rest of your life
One day in the first semester of my freshman year, the rehearsal room was crowded with people, Chen Baoguo walked over curiously, and it turned out that the teacher and a few classmates were rehearsing the drama "Before the Thunderstorm".
But it seems that some problem has been encountered, and the teacher and the students stand on the stage and look at each other.
Only to see that the female classmate who played the Red Army had to hold back tears, picked up scissors, "clicked", and cut her own black and shiny braid.
It turned out that this female classmate, because her long braids did not match the character image, gritted her teeth and took the initiative to make sacrifices and cooperate with rehearsals.
At this time, Chen Baoguo outside the door suddenly remembered this classmate, and later learned that her name was Zhao Kui'e.
I don't know what to do, but I go deeper. It is this look that binds the two hearts together and forms a lifetime of fate.
In 1978, the two graduated from Chinese opera, Chen Baoguo was assigned to the "China Children's Art Theater" as a small actor, and Zhao Kui'e was admitted to the acting teacher class as an "outstanding graduate" to continue her studies.
Four years later, Chen Baoguo was activated by CCTV director Wang Fulin and filmed the TV series "Red Orange, Yellow, Green, Blue and Purple".
He lived up to expectations and won the first Golden Eagle Award "Emperor of Vision" with his superb acting skills, becoming an idol of thousands of young girls.
He was only 26 years old.
However, Chen Baoguo, who became popular overnight, did not float at all, and he ran to Zhao Kui'e with an 8-pound trophy and proposed to her.
At the end of that year, the two entered the palace of marriage, and the following year, they had a son Chen Yuewei.
They have always been the envy of everyone, but in 1995, they were involved in a "divorce storm".
At that time, Chen Baoguo and his wife starred in "Our Father and Our Mother" and played a "divorced couple", which triggered a lot of speculation from the outside world.
Later, another good person caught the wind and shadows according to the jokes in one of his interviews, and seemed to confirm the "marriage change rumors".
Chen Baoguo was gone. In order to dispel the rumors, he posted family photos, and at an award ceremony, he shouted to his wife: "I love you, Zhao Kui'e." ”
This sentence makes Zhao Kui'e seem to return to the love years in an instant, her lover is still the straight guy, and her love has not been diluted by time.
Over the years, they have gathered less and more, and the occasional reunion is a festival for two people.
Whenever they are reunited after a long absence, Zhao Kui'e will prepare a rich dinner for her husband, talk to him about interesting things about life, and talk about the future of her children.
Knowing that Chen Baoguo loves to drink porridge, she boils a pot of various beans every morning;
Seeing that Chen Baoguo was tired and insomnia, she taught herself to maintain health and became her husband's nutritionist.
She always looked happily at her husband and washed him away the wind and dust that had drifted away.
I like the saying: "Marriage is a layer of armor for us to face life." ”
A good marriage always gives us a steady stream of strength.
When success is accomplished, there are witnesses; when there is helplessness and despair, there are people to rely on; when tired and haggard, someone takes care of it.
As long as someone accompanies you to cry and laugh with you, the wind and rain of life, there will always be a clear moment.
03
If you want to educate your children well, do yourself first
Chen Baoguo's "spelling" is well-known in the circle.
In 1986, when filming "Divine Whip", Chen Baoguo starred as the villain "Glass Flower", a one-eyed dragon.
In order to have the effect of "blindness", Chen Baoguo grinds a thin button and tucks it into the eye. At the end of the day, the eyes hurt terribly, which seriously affected the vision and could not be recovered for a long time.
But he did not "learn to be obedient", but became more and more cruel to himself.
4 years later, filming the movie "Old Shop", in a scene of eating crickets, Chen Baoguo actually faked the scene and swallowed crickets alive in public.
In the police film "Public Security Bureau Chief", he was almost trampled to death by a horse because of an accident, but even so, Chen Baoguo still insisted on completing the performance.
When filming the TV series "Tea House", Chen Baoguo, who had a high fever of 39 ° C, did not ask for leave, and also joked: "I dare not ask for leave, for fear that the crew will replace me!" ”
Such experiences are numerous, and in the decades of his career, Chen Baoguo has never relaxed his requirements for himself.
His idea was simple: he wanted to be a good actor and a role model for his son.
In educating children, Chen Baoguo is quite "ruthless", he is willing to let his son suffer, and encourages him to rush forward and fight forward.
Chen Baoguo's son Chen Yuewei
In "Super Interview", Chen Yueyue spat bitter water at the host Li Jing.
He said he was sent to The UK at the age of 15, and Chen Baoguo only gave £5 a week for living expenses.
This little money is not enough to spend, he has to work 4 part-time jobs a week, deliver newspapers, brush dishes, fast food restaurant chores, and go to the golf course as a caddy.
But for him, these are not bitter, the most bitter is homesickness, thinking of his mother.
Hearing these past events of his son, Chen Baoguo's eyes were red at the scene, and his voice was somewhat choked:
"Men, you have to learn to bear, what is not bitter?" Filming is also very bitter. ”
Just as the so-called tiger father has no dog, Chen Yuewei is too similar to Chen Baoguo at that time!
He obviously knew that Chen Baoguo did not want him to enter the entertainment circle, but he just wanted to be an actor. The persistence in this regard is almost the same as Chen Baoguo, who applied for the Chinese drama in that year.
Perhaps in his heart, Chen Baoguo is a father, an idol, and a leader in his career.
Sure enough, Chen Baoguo saw that his son's determination had been decided, so he did his best to help him open up the situation, take him to see the director, and run the crew.
Take today's "Mountains and Rivers Moon", which is a good scene of father and son on the same stage.
Chen Baoguo plays Zhu Yuanzhang, and Chen Yuewei plays Zhu Yunjiao, the same love, full of drama and outside the play.
On the shooting scene, a look, a sigh, an expression, Chen Baoguo will guide Chen Yuemu by hand.
The story of Chen Baoguo's father and son once again confirms the "exemplary role" of parents.
As a parent, only by doing a good job of yourself can you take your children on the right path in the process of teaching by example.
04
Once, someone asked Chen Baoguo, what is the most important thing in his life?
He replied: Wife, children, characters, Flying Awards.
For him, family is always at the top of the list, wives are always at the forefront; sons can never be after a career.
Some time ago, someone photographed him and his wife shopping together, in the photo, the two walked hand in hand, which is the happy appearance of the old husband and wife walking after dinner.
Chen Baoguo has always said that he is a "boring old man".
There is no special hobby, I like to hide at home to listen to music, cook, have a drink with old friends, chat with my wife and children, and think about the locust flowers in old Beijing.
This is Chen Baoguo, a leader with a full reputation, and an ordinary citizen who is content with mortal dust.
A writer once said: Life shines brilliantly in the shine, and the truth appears in the ordinary.
A person's greatest success is not the acquisition of fame and fortune, but in ordinary life, falling in love with a person and keeping a home.
Encourage your friends.