Editor / Little Love Letter
"Be broad in yourself, speak with the Son, hold the hand of the Son, and grow old with the Son"
It is said that this passage in the Book of Poetry is the most beautiful description of love, but we do not know that love in this world is far more moving than poetry.
That year, CCTV famous host Bai Yansheng's wife Zhou Jia was accidentally seriously injured and hospitalized, the operation was just done, the anesthetic was not awake, Zhou Jia's first words to her husband Bai Yansheng were "it bothers you."
People say that "husband and wife are originally the same forest bird, and they fly separately when the great trouble is imminent."
Zhou Jia's first reaction in the face of the bad news that she was about to be paralyzed was not to complain about the unfairness of fate, nor to worry that her husband would leave her, but to be deeply sorry for him.
Because of the fear that she would become a drag, Zhou Jia repeatedly proposed divorce, but bai Yansheng refused one by one.
With the sentence "In this life, I will identify you, and I want to slip away from me again", Bai Yansheng has been taking good care of his wife until she recovers.
Later, Zhou Jia risked high risks to give birth to a daughter and son, and the doctor said that her body was better off not having any more thoughts of childbearing.
But as a wife, she sees her husband's efforts and sacrifices in her eyes, so even at the risk of her life, she will give birth to two babies for him.
Time will tell people that simple liking will be long-term.
For the world, Zhou Jia is just a person, and for Bai Yansheng, Zhou Jia is his world.
01
When Bai Yansheng first came to work at CCTV, he was just an obscure small role, and he became a regular employee of CCTV, and he was only assigned to a damp and dark seven-square-meter cottage.
At this time, Zhou Jia was still an accountant in the Logistics Department of the People's Liberation Army, one was an accountant of the Military Department, and the other was the host of CCTV, Zhou Jia and Bai Yansheng had almost no intersection in work, but they could rub a spark in love.
It was not until later that Bai Yansheng was transferred to the host of music and art programs, and his career gradually improved, and just when the hosting career was in full swing, he met his current wife Zhou Jia.
The two were also introduced to each other.
At that time, Bai Yansheng was completely called a golden bachelor in the station, handsome in appearance, decent in work, and single, so through the introduction of friends, Zhou Jia also had the opportunity to get acquainted with the host who worked on CCTV.
The first time the two met, they had a good feeling for each other, although it was a blind date, but the man was humble and courteous, the woman was gentle and generous, and the two were engaged in a marriage contract in 1997.
Engaged in 97, married in 1998, the newlywed Yan Er should have been the time of your nong and me, but nine months later, Zhou Jia had an accident.
A certain Zhou Jia went out to get off the car, but accidentally was clipped by the door of the skirt, but at this moment, the car started again, Zhou Jia was instantly dragged to the ground, this fall also led to a serious femur neck fracture.
If the femoral neck fracture is not well recovered, it may be paralyzed, which is indeed a very severe test for a newlywed couple.
Zhou Jia has never been an aggressive person, and after learning that she may be paralyzed, her first reaction is whether her body like this will delay the life of her husband Bai Yansheng.
Just after the operation, Zhou Jia was pushed out of the operating room, and Bai Yansheng saw that his wife was pushed out and came forward to check on her anxious face.
Although the anesthesia was not yet fully awake, Zhou Jia saw that her husband was sweating profusely, and she still felt guilty, and the first sentence she blurted out was "It bothers you."
The simple four words made Bai Yansheng's heart extremely heavy, and a man who stood up to the sky cried out like this, and from this moment he knew that he would never let go of his wife's hand in his life.
Back in the ward, although Bai Yansheng tried his best to comfort his wife, Zhou Jiayi could not help but cover his face and cry when he heard that he might be paralyzed.
After calming down, Zhou Jia wanted to understand that her physical condition would only drag down her husband, and she did not want to become a burden on her husband's life, so Zhou Jia seriously proposed a divorce with Bai Yansheng.
However, Bai Yansheng did not agree to divorce, the husband and wife should have been in the same boat, no matter how Zhou Jia persuaded him to divorce later, Bai Yansheng refused one by one, and always accompanied his wife until he recovered.
02
Zhou Jia was very fortunate that she met a pure and affectionate man, and in order to take care of her, Bai Yansheng had to run from both ends of Taili Hospital.
At that time, Bai Yansheng's career was in the climbing period, so he did not tell anyone in the stage about his wife's injury and hospitalization, but silently carried everything alone.
Zhou Jia also often sees that her husband sometimes has no time to remove her makeup, so she rushes to the hospital to take care of herself, although Zhou Jia has always said that she has a nurse to take care of, but Bai Yansheng has always been relieved and insists on taking care of herself.
As the saying goes, "the roof leaks in the overnight rain", while his wife Zhou Jia was injured and hospitalized, while Bai Yansheng's father died of illness, but Zhou Jia's side was always inseparable.
Under repeated choices, Bai Yansheng still chose to stay and take care of his wife, so that he did not even have time to see the last side of his father, and finally this matter became a knot that Zhou Jia had been difficult to resolve for many years.
Fortunately, later, Zhou Jia's physical condition slowly began to improve, and after living in the courtyard for a while, she was finally able to go home to recuperate.
While she was overjoyed that her recovery was likely, another piece of bad news hit her head.
When he was about to be discharged from the hospital, the doctor specifically instructed Bai Yansheng that even if Zhou Jia's body slowly recovered, it might leave insurmountable sequelae, and it was best not to have children after that, and it was even more impossible to get pregnant within five years.
For a woman who is deeply in love with her husband, one of the happiest things is to personally conceive the crystallization of love with a loved one.
But now her body does not support the birth of a child at all, so Zhou Jia once fell into a depressed mood.
Whether her body can recover or not is still a matter of uncertainty, and now that she has been told that she cannot get pregnant, Zhou Jia is deeply sorry for her husband and once again raises the topic of divorce.
But Bai Yansheng has never wavered, it doesn't matter if he has children or not, he loves this matter for his sake, even if he just came out of the operating room, he thinks about whether it will drag his wife Zhou Jia down.
So Bai Yansheng told Zhou Jia about when they first got married, and talked about the marriage vows at that time, "No matter whether they live, age, illness or death, they will accompany each other."
The greatest part of love is that human beings will defy their selfish instincts for love, and under the persuasion of her husband, Zhou Jia slowly ignites new hopes for life.
Zhou Jia lay on the bed for two years, and for two years, Bai Yansheng had been persevering and taking good care of her, because Zhou Jia herself could not move, and in two years, Simmons had even laid out a figure.
In addition to Zhou Jia's own active cooperation with rehabilitation, Bai Yansheng has never given up.
He traveled extensively to find famous doctors, and even consulted Schenkova, who had a similar situation.
Under the care of her husband, Zhou Jia was slowly able to sit up from the bed, and slowly be able to get out of bed and walk, although she could not return to her previous state, but this was already an eye-opening.
After five years of recovery, Zhou Jia's body gradually recovered to a level similar to that of ordinary people, and her body also recovered.
She always felt that there was nothing less to live with her husband, and finally she couldn't help but sneak to the hospital and ask the doctor if she could still get pregnant.
03
Fortunately, Bai Yansheng took good care of Zhou Jia, although at first the doctor did not recommend that Zhou Jia have a child, but between Zhou Jia's physical recovery.
As long as the body is well cultivated, having children is almost no problem, but the risk is still much greater than that of ordinary people.
Zhou Jia went back to confess her thoughts to her husband, and no matter how Much Bai Yansheng objected, she always insisted on having a child for him.
Zhou Jia knows that her husband has sacrificed a lot for herself, so no matter how much risk she takes, she wants to give her husband a child.
Later, in the second year of Zhou Jia's complete recovery, she was pregnant with her daughter Bai Yansheng and ushered in her first child, Bai Guo, at the age of thirty-seven.
It was only after nearly forty years of age that he gave birth to his first daughter, and coupled with the fact that this was the birth of his wife nine deaths, it can be seen how much Bai Yansheng treated this daughter.
However, Zhou Jia has always been strict with her daughter, and complains that her husband is too gentle with her children.
Later, Bai Yansheng gradually turned to the background, spending more time with his wife, at this time Zhou Jia felt that her body was OK, and despite her husband's objections, she gave birth to a second child, and at the age of forty-four, Bai Yansheng was happy to have a son.
However, giving birth to a second child is not easy to do for the boss's ideological work, and she has been comforting her eldest daughter since Zhou Jia became pregnant.
It's just that the child has not been able to listen to it, and even said that if the younger brother is naughty in the future, the sister will not be soft.
Even at the moment when his brother was born, Bai Guo was very resistant, and he didn't even look at it.
It wasn't until Zhou Jia returned home after giving birth to a child, and his brother lay in the cradle, and under the persuasion of Bai Yansheng, Bai Guo ran to Zhou Jia and glanced at his brother in a hurry, and as a result, he was intimate with his brother the next day.
Now zhou jia, who is nearly fifty years old, has both children and daughters, although the accident when she was newly married is the biggest blow in her life for so many years.
But because of her husband's company and support, she successfully survived that darkest day and even gave birth to a son and a daughter.
Perhaps the luckiest thing in her life is to meet Bai Yansheng.
The love story of Zhou Jia and Bai Yansheng makes people believe in love for a time, and now in this impetuous and vain society, men who abandon their wives for money, selfish desires, and fame abound.
But it is precisely because of this kind of love from the beginning to the end, never abandoned, that the feelings that can stay together for a lifetime will make people yearn for it incomparably.
There is a saying that goes well: "Choose a city to grow old, meet a person with a white head", because you met the right person.
Therefore, no matter whether you are born, old, sick or dead, rich or poor, when the other party needs themselves most, they will choose not to give up.
Now that you've identified the right person, hold hands and accompany them to the whitehead.