"I'm a person who doesn't say no, doesn't take the initiative, doesn't refuse, isn't responsible."
In 2018, when Wu Xiubo was a guest on the online talk show "Xiao Shuo" hosted by Gao Xiaosong, he said this sentence in a high-profile manner about his views and attitudes towards feelings.
In addition, he also shared with Gao Xiaosong in the show that he had the "first" experience at the age of 16, when Gao Xiaosong was particularly envious and said: "I am angry to death, you have the first time at the age of 16!" ”
However, before Wu Xiubo laughed for long, the same year, the actress Chen Yulin, who had been entangled with him for 7 years, tore at him on the social platform, not only exposing his marital infidelity, but also revealing the news that he was ambiguous with multiple actresses at the same time and stepped on several boats!
The result? As a victim, Chen Yulin not only failed to get the justice she wanted, but was also sued by her lover for the crime of "extortion" with her backhand.
In the end, her 7 years of true love were exchanged for the 3 years of imprisonment that Wu Xiubo personally gave her...
Chen Yulin, whose original name is Chen Menglin, was born in 1988 and grew up in an ordinary family in Jingmen, Hubei Province, she studied at the Conservatory of Music in college, and in 2006 she received public attention for participating in the "Avenue of Stars".
At the beginning, she has been developing in the music world, appearing in front of the public as a singer, until 2011, she officially entered the development of the show business circle because she participated in the work "The Next Miracle" starring Nicholas Tse and Zhang Weijian.
However, before Chen Yulin began to vigorously develop her acting career, she first met Wu Xiubo, a "scumbag" who ruined her career and reputation for the rest of her life.
Wu Xiubo, 20 years older than Chen Menglin, is a native of Beijing, graduated from the Department of Chinese Opera Acting, and is a professional actor from a science class.
Before meeting Chen Yulin, he had been in the show business circle for many years, and had participated in works such as "Mountain Hollow", "Bird of Paradise", "New Hero Tiger Guts", "Snow Leopard", "The Happy Past of the Old Ma Family" and so on.
Compared with Chen Yulin, who has a blank feeling, he also entered the marriage hall with his agent He Zhenya, who is 3 years older than him, as early as 2001, and gave birth to the children of the two of them in the same year.
However, even if he had already married and started a family, he still could not stop him and Chen Yulin from getting closer to and entangled with each other.
In early August 2011, while filming the next miracle, Chen Yulin met Wu Xiubo, who was the producer of the work at the time.
As we all know, the entertainment industry has always been popular with a variety of unspoken rules, and Wu Xiubo just took advantage of this.
The two talked very closely during the cooperation, although Wu Xiubo was twenty years older than her, but Chen Yulin was still desperate to get closer to this man in order to be able to quickly ascend to the throne.
Not long after knowing, she posted a photo of the two on her social account, in which she was wearing a red blouse and smiling very brightly, while Wu Xiubo, who was standing by the side in a suit and tie, felt very gentlemanly.
While posting the photos, she said: "These two will also be handsome, and the smile is so kind." ”
It can be felt from between her words that she has completely transformed into Wu Xiubo's little fan sister.
When Chen Yulin approached him, Wu Xiubo made full use of his three noes of non-initiative, non-refusal, and irresponsibility, and became entangled with her.
After the filming of this work, the two of them began a secret love relationship, according to Chen Yulin's naïve idea, although this man already has a family, he can rely on each other to become popular, has been loved by the other party, she is already very satisfied.
Wu Xiubo not to mention, there is a little girl 20 years younger than himself who follows him with a dead heart, and he will certainly not reject the other party.
Not long after the two were together, Wu Xiubo, who has been tepid in his career, also became popular with works such as "Four Famous Catches" and "Heart Technique".
When participating in the work "The Orphan Case of Zhao" directed by the famous director Yan Jiangang, he also successfully won the best actor in the second annual ceremony of the China Television Drama Directors Working Committee with the role of "Cheng Baby" in the play!
Since then, his career has been smooth sailing, and he has successively participated in "Beijing Seattle", "Divorce Lawyer", "Army Division Alliance of The Great Army Division Sima Yi" and so on, which are well loved and supported by the public.
In addition to film and television works, he has also been invited to participate in popular IP variety shows such as "Happy Comedians", "Comedy Story", "The Birth of an Actor", and "I Am an Actor".
With a gentle and elegant gentlemanly demeanor and temperament, he not only won the pursuit of middle-aged aunts, but also won the hearts of countless young girls.
In contrast, Chen Yulin's career has been tepid.
Probably afraid that Chen Yulin will not be controlled after becoming popular, Wu Xiubo did not help her develop her career after becoming popular, in his opinion, as long as Chen Yulin does not become popular, then she can always obediently stay by his side.
It was not until 2013, unable to resist Chen Yulin's repeated pleading and sullenness, that Wu Xiubo invested in her to shoot the work "Auspicious Tianbao".
Although there is a first-line actress Zhao Liying participating in this work, in order to make her little girlfriend happy, Wu Xiubo still arranged for Chen Yulin to play the role of the female number one "Meng Xiaodi" in the film.
The next year, with the help of Wu Xiubo, Chen Yulin, who is unknown, participated in the work "Strange Coffee", this time playing the second female in the film.
I don't know if it was too bad luck, although under her constant pleading, Wu Xiubo was willing to praise her later, but she successively participated in several works that played the female number one and the second woman, but she never got the attention of the public.
The so-called "mourning is greater than heart death" may be that she realizes that it is difficult for her to break out of the world in the show business circle, and after slowly accepting this fact, she is no longer obsessed with developing her career.
She began to put her mind on being a good woman behind Wu Xiubo, and this was exactly what Wu Xiubo was happy to see.
In order to comfort her, Wu Xiubo once said to her: "It is enough for one person in our family to go out to shoot a movie, you are at home, just cook for me." ”
Every time she heard wu Xiubo let her play the role of a good woman behind her at home, Chen Yulin felt particularly happy, so that she ignored that she was just the identity of the third child in the marriage of Wu Xiubo and his wife He Zhenya.
And she did not know that her "well-behaved and sensible" was not exchanged for Wu Xiubo's doting, but Wu Xiubo's amorousness.
As she spends more and more time with Chen Yulin, Wu Xiubo gradually loses her new meaning and begins to look for new prey.
In 2016, when Wu Xiubo starred in the work "Army Division Alliance of Sima Yi of the Great Army Division" produced by himself, he was attracted by young actress Zhang Zhixi.
Zhang Zhixi was 19 years younger than him, and he played the role of "Zhen Mi" in the play, and it is worth saying that Zhang Zhixi was also present in the work "The Next Miracle" in which Chen Yulin and Wu Xiubo met earlier.
It's just that at that time, Zhang Zhixi was just a role in playing soy sauce, and did not pay attention to Wu Xiubo, but she did not expect to go around and turn around, she still returned to Wu Xiubo's range.
During the filming, Wu Xiubo and Zhang Zhixi were particularly close, so that Chen Yulin, who came to visit the crew, lost his temper with Wu Xiubo after seeing the two flirting.
In order to comfort Chen Yulin, Wu Xiubo said: "She was arranged by the director to come in, and I had no way, she came to make money for us." ”
Under Wu Xiubo's rhetoric, Chen Yulin was not only quickly coaxed back by him, but also firmly believed that everything he said was true.
However, all these beautiful dreams were completely shattered with the arrival of the news of Little Four and Little Five.
Chen Yulin was originally the third child in this relationship, but later there were constantly actresses and actresses who were entangled with Wu Xiubo to send her messages, as if they were swearing sovereignty, including Zhang Zhixi, who Wu Xiubo had told her before that she was just making money for them!
At first, Chen Yulin did not believe it, helplessly there were more and more such news, and even these people called her to meet, she could only go to Wu Xiubo to verify one by one.
For her speculations and doubts, Wu Xiubo patiently explained to him at first, but as he explained more and more, he began to feel that Chen Yulin was a bit unreasonable.
Coupled with the fact that Chen Yulin once ran to Milan, France to check on him, he finally exposed his true face and directly punched and kicked Chen Yulin.
It is precisely because of his move that Chen Yulin can no longer bear this kind of life of knowing three and being betrayed, in her words: "I have seen through your selfishness and cold blood, I can't let go, I can't forgive you in the next life, I will hate you forever!" ”
On September 24, 2018, Chen Yulin posted in the circle of friends to announce that he had been in love with The married Wu Xiubo for seven years, and also exposed the news that Wu Xiubo was in contact with Zhang Zhixi and several other actresses at the same time.
After she made this move, according to Chen Yulin's parents, Wu Xiubo and her agents, lawyers, etc. asked Chen Yulin to clarify and was willing to compensate financially.
In the face of the other party's request, Chen Yulin agreed, and after reaching an agreement with Wu Xiubo's side, she went abroad to relax.
On November 4 of the same year, Wu Xiubo took the initiative to let Chen Yulin return to China, Chen Yulin saw Wu Xiubo's initiative to show goodwill, and she still had illusions in her heart, and immediately flew back, only to be arrested by Wu Xiubo at the airport for the crime of "exposing privacy and extorting money".
In order to confirm Chen Yulin's crime, Wu Xiubo's wife also personally sent a text saying: "The police have been considered for a long time, because they have been threatened and intimidated, demanding tens of millions of huge amounts of money, and they really can't bear it before calling the police..."
Later, after investigation, it was learned that after Chen Yulin and Wu Xiubo broke up, she took 31 million yuan of money from Wu Xiubo three times, and when she asked for 60 million yuan for the fourth time, Wu Xiubo chose to call the police.
As a result, Chen Yulin was sentenced to three years in prison and fined 100,000 yuan.
And Wu Xiubo because of this incident caused a bad impact on his reputation, the original career of him, so faded out of the public's sight, the future is ruined.
In February 2021, Chen Yulin, who performed well in prison, was released from prison after completing his sentence and has now been out of prison for more than a year.
Because the matter between wu xiubo and Wu Xiubo was too involved before, and her choice to volunteer to be a 7-year junior made her reputation plummet, she did not return to the show business circle after she was released from prison.
However, judging from some of the life dynamics she often posts on social platforms now, she still carries designer bags, wears designer watches, and wears designer heels, and her life is still very good.
In fact, in terms of her physical conditions, if she had not met Wu Xiubo, as long as she worked hard, she might really be able to go a long way in the entertainment industry, but unfortunately, she still took a crooked road after all.
This crooked road not only made her emotionally hurt to the skin, but also ruined her acting career, so it seems that it is completely more than worth the loss.
I hope that this experience can really wake her up, let her stop being hurt by her feelings, and don't meet a man like Wu Xiubo again...