At the beginning of every relationship, it must be like a deer, and the joy is like a winter firework.
But when a relationship begins to gradually come to an end, and gradually develops in the direction of the end, it must be like autumn sunset leaves.
In a male-female relationship, if a woman doesn't like you anymore, then her biggest goal is that everything she does is trying to leave you.
Therefore, in daily interactions, if a woman frequently does these things to you, it means that her feelings for you have faded for so long.
A woman who frequently does these things is a weak feeling
Frequent and noisy with you
Xiao Yan's recent relationship with her boyfriend has always been turbulent. She found on her boyfriend's mobile phone that he had a particularly good conversation with a certain person of the opposite sex, and she would ask her boyfriend to delete it; when her boyfriend told her about his previous ex, Xiao Yan would lose his temper and say that he had not forgotten his ex-girlfriend. But even if her boyfriend buys her favorite strawberry cake, she will deliberately throw the cake away because she is angry.
In the face of Xiao Yan's various willfulness, her boyfriend quarreled with her more than once.
Friends around her advised her not to be too willful, but Xiao Yan said, "I just wanted to break up with him, so I deliberately let him not stand me." ”
When a woman frequently provokes conflicts and wants to argue with you, it actually shows that she no longer cherishes the feelings between you.
She's just afraid that you'll pestering her, so she's slowly consuming your liking for her.
Frequent dislikes of your inability
When the love gradually disappears, the biggest trait that appears to you in a woman is that she can't like you no matter how she looks at it.
As the old saying goes, "a lover's eyes are out of the west", only when the affection is strong and the love is deep, can one person regard the shortcomings of another person as an advantage, can he be undistracted, and he only likes his crush wholeheartedly.
But if there is no love in your heart, then she will only have endless dislike for you.
If a woman begins to dislike that you are not strong enough at work, the salary you get every month is not enough, and even often compares you with others, feeling inferior to others, then it means that her feelings for you have faded.
Only when she doesn't love enough will she feel that she is not good enough.
Only when you don't like it enough, you won't care about your self-esteem.
Frequent disconnection with you, completely disappear
At dinner in the evening, I saw a lot of unread messages coming from my girlfriend Xiaohui's mobile phone, and after a brief glance, she put the mobile phone into her bag.
I asked her, "Don't you just click and see what people are sending?" ”
She said, "Nothing to look at, it's just some words that don't hurt or itch." ”
It turned out that Xiaohui was in the cold war with her boyfriend during this time, and at the beginning she would reply to the messages sent by the other party, but in the end, the more the two argued, the more chaotic, making her feel that this was an endless rip-off, and the favorability of her boyfriend in her heart was greatly reduced.
Nowadays, no matter what messages the other party sends, she has dismissed it, and even disappeared from playing with her boyfriend, so that the other party cannot contact her at all.
When a woman really puts down a man in her heart, she will no longer care about the message sent by the other party, nor will she care about how much pain you have endured in your heart.
The so-called "don't care about yourself, hang high" is probably like this.
Feelings are as elusive as a wisp of green smoke, but when it's time to leave, you can only watch it get farther and farther away from you.
A woman may not be the most sensible emotionally, but when she decides to leave you, it is actually when she sees her heart clearly.
Since you can't keep it, then say goodbye generously. Losing someone who doesn't love you is not your biggest loss.