The tie flowers look a bit like Liu Yifei without baby fat and hump nose
Hello everyone, I'm Lantai.
Today I want to tell you about the emotional history of a "flower- and flower-tied" ten-year north drift.
Why talk about this? It is because this "department flower" is my wife's college classmate, and today I received the news that she wanted to get a certificate on "May 1"; she is the most beautiful woman I know in real life, and her emotional life I think is also very representative, so I want to write it, which is also an attempt by Lantai to write so many celebrity history stories.
How beautiful is this flower? My personal feeling is that Liu Yifei without baby fat and hump nose.
First relationship: took the initiative to break up with the son of the deputy mayor
Graduated from the computer department of a 211 university in the north, the department flower is really beautiful, listen to my wife, and even entered the "top ten beautiful women in the school" ranking in the third year.
Such a beautiful girl, naturally there are many people chasing, and in the end, she accepted the pursuit of the son of a county party secretary and the vice president of the student union of their school department.
After graduation, the department flower and her boyfriend came to Beijing to work, although the department flower is a computer major graduate, but does not like to engage in programmers, product manager work, she with excellent appearance conditions, applied to an Internet company to do manpower management.
Her boyfriend obeyed her parents' arrangement and entered a central company as a programmer.
A year later, the father of the flower boyfriend was promoted to the deputy mayor of a city, and he felt that the child was still at ease under his own eyes, so he let the flower boyfriend and the flower department go to work in the city.
In the process of interacting with her boyfriend, she felt that her boyfriend was not self-motivated, and even a little mommy, and she did not want to go to that third-tier city, so she took the initiative to choose to break up with her boyfriend.
As a result, the boyfriend left Beijing, and Tiehua jumped to another large Internet company to continue to do manpower.
Second relationship: Faced with the pursuit of a billionaire, she made it clear that she did not want to be a stepmother
Because of her outstanding appearance, she was quickly pursued by many men in the new company, including the vice president of the company; this vice president always followed the company's boss to start a business, and he was also a 985 college graduate in Beijing, knowledgeable and talented, and with the company's listing, he had already been financially free, and the cash used for investment alone was 100 million.
In the face of the vice president's pursuit, the department did not persist for too long, and probably interacted with the vice president for about half a year after joining the company.
Of course, it wasn't Musk who was chasing her
Everything was sweet at first, she and the vice president often flew to Sanya or Japan on Fridays for weekends, and then came back on Sundays; and the vice president did not have a "play" mentality, as a science and engineering man, he really wanted to marry flowers.
However, as the two talk about marriage, It is only when the head of the department discovers that the original vice president originally concealed the fact that he had been divorced and had a daughter.
This made the self-proclaimed "can't accept cheating" flower very angry, in fact, my wife and I are also strange, the two have been dating for three years, she actually finally learned that the vice president divorced, and there is a daughter.
She once asked my daughter-in-law (girlfriend) to give her advice, and my daughter-in-law and I both felt that the vice president had such good conditions, and she was also 27, so it was better to be this stepmother.
However, tying flowers is tying flowers, and she eventually chose to break up with the vice president, saying she could not accept cheating.
At the same time, she also left the company.
The third relationship: actively pursue a super elite man, and then take the initiative to give up
After Shihua left her job again, she entered a large central enterprise; then about a year later, she began to actively pursue a super elite man who also worked in another central enterprise.
Why is he a super elite man?
Gate of Tsinghua University
Just look at his academic qualifications: a bachelor's degree at Tsinghua University, a doctorate at Yale. The experience is also very strong, having worked at Goldman Sachs for three years. I like fitness and look very handsome.
Although this elite man is not as rich as the previous vice president, he also earns several million yuan a year, and the age gap between the two is not so large, and the person is still handsome.
However, although Tiehua took the initiative to catch up with this super elite man, but the two had less than half a year of interaction, Tiehua took the initiative to break up with him; my daughter-in-law and I, as the melon-eating masses, were very curious, why did such a good condition, and such a handsome elite man, why did we break up?
Is it this elite man who splits his legs?
The answer surprised my wife and I, which is probably called "human beauty and willfulness."
After she found that after the two of them lived together, this elite man was too strong, even she had to manage what she ate every day, and it was completely self-centered, and it was absolutely impossible for Tiehua to want him to put down his work and accompany him immediately. Even stronger than the previous vice president.
Gradually, Tiehua felt that if she was with him, she would lose the initiative and become "strong and weak", and she would have no self; she did not want to be a nanny and a maid, nor did she want to love so humblely, not to mention, to say that material conditions, although the super elite man was rich, but compared with billionaires, it was far worse.
To put it bluntly, Tiehua felt that she was the kind of person who wanted to dominate in love, so she took the initiative to choose to break up.
The fourth relationship: being chased backwards by the second generation of the three-year-old rich has become the final choice
After the breakup between Tiehua and the super elite man, although there was no shortage of suitors around, it was not until the second half of the second year after the breakup that she chose to associate with a rich second generation who was three years younger than her.
This rich second generation is not the stupid boy that everyone imagines, he is very good and nice. He studied at the London School of Economics, England, and yes, the alma mater of Jim Hack in the famous British comedy "Yes, Chancellor" in the 80s.
The tie flowers really look like Liu Yifei's
After graduation, he chose to work in the London branch of the central enterprise of the Department of Flowers, and after working for two years, he took the initiative to choose to return to China to work.
Then I met TieHua at the headquarters, and I was amazed, so I began to chase after him, and after chasing for more than half a year, Tie Hua agreed to associate with him.
His family was in a third-tier city in Shandong, the first was to open a factory, and then his parents sold the factory and bought many shops in Jinan, Shanghai, Beijing and Shenzhen for rent collection. It is said that the rent alone exceeds 30 million per year.
The reason why Tie Hua chose this rich second generation, in addition to the love factor, the most important thing is that Tie Hua is a strong party in this relationship, and she feels that she can dominate the feelings of the two people.
The truth is also true, we as outsiders can see that in the relationship between the two people, the rich second generation is the weaker party.
Originally, the rich second generation mother hated that the family was three years older than her son, but after meeting her in Beijing, the rich second generation mother also agreed.
In the end, this shy rich second generation became the ultimate choice for the flower line.
If you only look at me like this, it seems that it is the flower that is constantly "fishing for kaizi", in fact, it is really not like this, the flower has been pursued by many high-quality men since the beginning of school, and there are also many high-quality male pursuits during the empty window of her feelings, but she has refused.
A rich woman who sunbathes luxury cars
When I was having dinner with the two of us, I said something that I thought made a lot of sense:
I do have more material, but my material has boundaries; I like to stay in a five-star hotel every time I go out, and if you want me to stay in a youth hostel, that's definitely not OK; but a five-star hotel, I'm satisfied, and I don't need a presidential suite.
So, even if there is a man who can guarantee that I will stay in the presidential suite every time I travel, I may not necessarily choose him, because my material need is to live in five stars.
Well, within this range, I feel fully capable of choosing a husband who is most satisfied with me to marry.
Lan Tai felt very reasonable in saying this, in fact, women who look beautiful and well read naturally have requirements for materials, which is very normal; however, in fact, these beautiful women's requirements for materials also have boundaries, not blindly pursuing materials, blindly pursuing materials, that is peripheral women.
Just as beauty is not a scarce resource for billionaires, it is not a scarce resource for beauty.
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