■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
■ Original works, plagiarism must be investigated
01, preface.
It is said that "women are like flowers, flowers have flowering periods, once missed, even if they are exhibited, they are lonely." "Women like men who make her laugh, but what they really love is the man who makes her cry." For women, in the material age, if a man does not give you enough confidence to believe in love and look forward to the future, the best way is to choose your own financial independence. Therefore, a woman's greatest sense of security is not to have a responsible man, but to have material and financial resources that can determine their own future.
A woman spends her life betting on a man, talking about wisdom, but in the end it depends on luck. Smart women, once they encounter Bo Qinglang, there is no need to plead bitterly, the only thing that can be done is to maintain the last dignity and give Bo Qinglang a regretful back. At the crossroads of marriage, the most important thing for a woman is not to choose a suitable path, but to know how to choose a man worthy of trust. It is said that marriage is actually an industry, and a woman is like a seed, if it is sprinkled on the fertile land, it will blossom and bear fruit, and happiness is incomparable. But if it is sprinkled on the barren land, it will wither like mud and be desolate for a lifetime. Otherwise, the story of netizen Zhang Xiaolian will really make us sigh.
02, after graduating from college, I became a white-collar worker in a company.
Dear friends, my name is Zhang Xiaolian. I come from the countryside, the family's economic conditions are not very good, my parents save money and send me to university. After graduating from college, I stayed in the beautiful city of Jiangcheng to work. In the streets and alleys of this beautiful river city, there are many maple trees that have red leaves in autumn. I love this beautiful city so much that I am determined to find a generous man and fall in love, get married, and have children in this city.
The company I work for is a foreign-owned company, and in the company, I have come into contact with many employees from other countries, and I have also contacted many local employees. I thought that I could meet the object of my choice, and as a result, the unique "high is not low" style of women has made me an older young woman. Although I am a white-collar worker in the enterprise, when women are older, their mate selection conditions will naturally be lowered. For this reason, I began to be anxious for myself.
03, high is not low, I did not meet my boyfriend until I was 28 years old.
In this way, I came to the threshold of a 28-year-old young woman. Later, at a company's tail tooth banquet, I met my current boyfriend Ah Bin. Ah Bin is also a young man from the countryside, and like me, his family's economic conditions are also average. After knowing Ah Bin, I was attracted to Ah Bin's tall and big figure, and later, under Ah Bin's pursuit, I agreed to be Ah Bin's girlfriend.
Ah Bin was good to me, and every day when he left work, he would pick me up at the door of the company. We went to coffee together, went to barbecue, walked together through the breezy embankment, wandered together in the alley full of maple leaves, and fell in love. I felt a sense of happiness, I felt sweet. Ah Bin said that in the future, when he marries me, he will definitely give me all his salary, and he will work hard and work hard together for the prosperity and happiness of his family. Listening to Ah Bin's words, I also smiled happily.
04, my boyfriend and I dragged on for two years and didn't want to marry me, I was very angry.
In this way, in the beautiful city of Jiang, Ah Bin and I fell in love. After a year of falling in love, I felt that I could not put it off any longer, so I asked Ah Bin to prepare for marriage early. But Ah Bin said that we will definitely get married, but the family's economic conditions are not very good, and our parents have been preparing our marriage room now, so we can get a license first, and then do the wedding.
I listened, a little angry. I said that a woman will marry a person in her lifetime, and the wedding must be handled well, but my mother said that the gift money can be taken for one year less, and it can be given a hundred thousand. Hearing me talk about the gift money, Ah Bin was stunned and did not speak. In this way, my boyfriend Ah Bin and I have been dragging on for two years and have not yet married me, and I am nearly thirty years old. I knew that I couldn't drag on with Ah Bin like this anymore, and I gave him an ultimatum: either get married or break up.
05, my boyfriend took me to my hometown and talked to his mother about our marriage problems.
When Ah Bin heard that I was going to break up with him, he was sweating profusely. He quickly took my hand and begged me to give him some more time to prepare. In this way, I waited for another month before Ah Bin decided to take me back to the countryside to have a showdown with his parents. In order to make a good impression on my future mother-in-law, I deliberately dressed myself up pure and stylish. I know that Ah Bin's parents are in the countryside, they must not be used to women with heavy makeup, and I actually prefer to be simple.
On the day I returned to the countryside, I also went to a large supermarket with Ah Bin and bought some gifts for Ah Bin's parents. After buying it, we called a Didi, put these gifts in the back of the car, and I sat in the car with Ah Bin and ran in the direction of Ah Bin's hometown. Along the way, I listened to Chen Rui's song "Long Road, Walk Slowly", and my heart was also uneasy. I don't know if I chose to marry Ah Bin, and I don't know how Ah Bin's parents will treat me, my future daughter-in-law.
06, my boyfriend's mother is still very satisfied with me, and I was stunned when I heard the gift.
The car drove for more than two hours before we reached Ah Bin's hometown in the countryside. Ah Bin's parents were already waiting for us at the door, and when they saw me, Ah Bin's mother's eyes lit up, and then smiled at Ah Bin's father and nodded, and then pulled me into the house. On this day, Ah Bin also called his uncle, who was a chef, to come home, saying that he wanted to cook a table of farmhouse dishes unique to the countryside to entertain me. Looking at the native chickens and ducks on the table and the warm reception of Ah Bin's parents to me, I was also very touched in my heart. After eating, the guests left and we sat in the living room and chatted.
Speaking of my marriage to Ah Bin, Ah Bin's mother whispered to me: "Child, when will you get married?" How much do you want over there? I was stunned, because I didn't want to propose a gift to Ah Bin's parents, and since she did, I casually replied: "According to the customs of our hometown, our gift money is at least 130,000, I see that you can feel free to give a hundred thousand, right?" Hearing the number "one hundred thousand", Ah Bin's mother was stunned, she lowered her head and did not speak.
07, she pulled her son into the yard, and I heard them talking and left decisively.
I thought that this number of 100,000 was not a big deal for the Ah Bin family, but I did not expect that Ah Bin's mother did not answer for a long time. I didn't want to say anything more, so I opened my phone and played vibrato. After a while, I saw Ah Bin's mother secretly call Ah Bin out. They stood in the courtyard chatting about something, looking at Ah Bin's appearance, and seemed a little frustrated. I played with TikTok for a while and wanted to go to the bathroom. So I got up and went to the bathroom next to the yard. Ah Bin mother and son did not find me, but the sound of their chatting reached my ears through the ventilation holes in the bathroom.
Only to hear Ah Bin's mother say to Ah Bin: "Son, your girlfriend is thirty years old this year, and she is an older girl." She wants a dowry of 100,000 yuan, which is a huge amount of money for us. I'll give you an idea, that is, you stay with her again, and try to drag her for a year or two. When her belly is older and older, she will not have the capital to ask for a bride price, and then we will give her mother's family twenty or thirty thousand as a bride price. When she is a little older, you can stay up for another year or two, and even a penny of bride price we can not give her, it is also possible. Hearing Ah Bin's mother talk like this, I was immediately angry. I walked out of the bathroom quietly, then went back to the house, took my bag, and said goodbye to Ah Bin and them.
08, Concluding Remarks.
Seeing that I was suddenly leaving, Ah Bin's family was stunned. Ah Bin looked at me stupidly and said, "Xiao Lian, why did you just come and leave?" Did something happen? I sneered and said, "This is my first time at your house, and maybe the last time I will be at your house." I'm leaving, I'll send you WeChat later. "After saying that, I walked out of the village, called a Didi, got into the car, and drove towards the city." On the way, I sent a WeChat message to Ah Bin, and I told him that I heard the chat content of their mother and son. "I'd rather be lonely than marry", after I sent these words to Ah Bin, I resolutely blacked Out Ah Bin.
Friends, Ah Bin's mother asked Ah Bin to "boil" the way and wanted me not to have a bride price. Is her idea a little too poisonous and too childish? In fact, I didn't ask for their bride price much, I just wanted them to use 100,000 yuan to their families, but I didn't expect them to have such a scene. You say, can I marry such a family? In fact, now I am also a little dazed, after all, I still have feelings for Ah Bin. Please leave a message in the comment area, let's give me an idea, now I, what should I do, is the most appropriate? Thank you.
【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms accumulated millions of fan authors, the major platforms cumulative clicks more than 500 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.