In "More Instructions for the Rest of Life", Gu Wei's love with the school is generally sweet, but after exchanging hearts and confessing exchanges, he has been opposed and doubted by parents on both sides.
Gu Wei's parents learned about their son from Gao Huan many times, and he had a close relationship with a "patient's family" and frequent exchanges. After communicating with his son, he also knew that he had no feelings for Gao Huan, and later learned over the phone that Gu Wei had made a girlfriend "privately", so Gu Wei's parents secretly arranged a blind date for him.
On the night of the blind date, Gu Wei rarely returned home and had a very formal and sincere conversation with his parents, and his parents also had many doubts about his feelings, feeling that the gap between the two was too big, and it was difficult to hold each other to the end.
Although Gu Wei's parents considered it very comprehensively, whether it was questioning age, work or feelings, Gu Wei made his parents compromise with his own resolute attitude, promising to give everything to time and let them run in and adapt on their own...
I have to say that Gu Wei's vision is really good, although the school is very "cute" in his heart, and has a "child's heart". However, there is no problem with some issues of principle and with the concepts and attitudes in daily life. Not only is there no other little girlfriend's nonsense, clingy and playful, but it is very sensible, and there are many understandings and understandings for him.
On a first date, waiting alone until the movie ends because I am busy at work
The school, like all girls, is full of anticipation and romantic fantasies about love. When the two finally confessed to each other, after formal contact, they also had their first date after falling in love, and she looked forward to it sweetly from noon to night, from expectation to loneliness. However, seeing Gu Wei's delay in coming, he only asked how he came, and the movie was scattered ~ and then there was no complaint or unreasonable trouble.
After learning that he temporarily added surgery, even if Bai waited for several hours and missed the last movie, he said that it didn't matter, and laughed that he finally realized that falling in love with the doctor is to look for missing people at any time
This completely excludes Gu Wei's family's questioning of him, "Can she understand that she is busy at work?" "No tantrums, no clinginess to people affecting his work." Even in Gu Wei's view, the school is sometimes very cute and very childlike, but on the issue of principle, it never makes him small, at least on the issue of his work, he can understand him very well...
Respect is an important way to adapt and integrate into each other's lives
Gu Wei has a cleaning habit, which can be said to be a disinfectant that does not leave the body. However, in the face of the school, it has long been divided into a part of its own area.
Long ago, Gu Wei no longer "disliked" the school, but was "cured", but only to her.
In the face of Dr. Gu, who has a fetish for cleanliness, the school also respects and accepts it. This is vividly displayed whether it is before the two people have a relationship, or after the exchange, or even in the face of the friend's "washing the bald skin".
Of course, in contrast, Gu Wei is also trying to adapt to the school lifestyle, such as drinking Coke and eating hot pot...
In addition, in the face of the expectation of wearing a couple's shirt, the school did not show difficulty in accepting after receiving a rejection response, although it was a little disappointed, but still chose respect.
Of course, with the assistance of Shao Jiang's brother, in the end, Gu Wei still put on the couple's shirt [sneaking laugh]
Control your emotions and try to avoid embarrassment
When the school learned that Gu Wei was dating, although she secretly hid behind the fish tank to eavesdrop and peek, and even became angry when she heard Gu Wei and the female doctor talking happily, she did not go to quarrel as a legitimate girlfriend.
In the face of Gu Xiao, who was talking about the wind and cool on the side and expressing an incorrect concept of love, the school took this opportunity to "openly" express his attitude and appeared in a way of arguing with Gu Xiao, which can be said to avoid embarrassing Gu Wei too much.
Until finally Gu Wei chased after him, he did not have the heart to "attack" Gu Wei, but felt that it was not worth it for his girlfriend Sansan, and poured water on Gu Xiao to vent his anger
This time it was not Gu Wei who was embarrassed, but Gu Xiao, right? [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face]
Similarly, after Yinxi and Jinshi broke up, the school was deeply shocked and even doubted the reliability of love. When talking to Gu Wei about her feelings, Gu Wei said that the person had no heart, but the school listened to the intention, and the current low mood combined with Gu Wei's words made the sensitive her feel that it was possible to reflect herself.
However, looking at the tired Gu Wei, the school did not say anything, but suppressed the negative emotions in her heart, secretly digested, until the evening three or three asked her to accompany Yinxi to release the mood, the school only borrowed wine to dispel the sorrow, but even so, in the face of other men's conversation, she still turned her back to show that she had a boyfriend.
Although she complained about it, it also belonged to a way of venting for her, even if Gu Wei did not come at that time, presumably the school would not do anything, it was nothing more than a catharsis of their own digestion, but Gu Wei probably would not know the two of them this time, and would also add a small puddle to their love road, right?
Overall, the school seems to be a child's mentality, but in fact, in the handling of some problems, it is very knowledgeable. Although some people questioned the fact that when Gu Wei encountered a doctor-patient dispute later, the proofreader scolded and kicked Gu Wei, but it was harmless, because the words and handling methods when the school finally looked for the patient's family were still very mature and rational, and Gu Wei's original attitude was not to scold him when he went up, but after Gu Wei said that he wanted to "think", the first was angry at his attitude of encountering the situation: evading and not facing the solution; second, he ended up distrusting and not telling each other in the end of a feeling of grievance against himself, which led to his family's opposition to choosing to break up... ...
Therefore, Gu Wei's choice is still very wise, and it is no wonder that he will communicate with his parents in a word, and said that when his parents see Lin Zhixue, they will definitely like her~ ~
Many people feel that there is still a gap between this and reality, in real life Gu Wei will only choose Gao Huan, I have to say that there is indeed a great possibility! But there is also a reason why the TV series is so arranged, and if there is time after that, I will try to analyze why Gu Wei chose the school instead of Gao Hun according to the TV version, welcome to exchange comments, and friends who like it can pay attention to Oh!
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