In my lifetime, I am happy to meet each other, click "Attention" above to write more warm stories together.
Ma Shihong
Ma Shihong is a male actor who is deeply loved by the audience, and he conquered the audience with a series of popular dramas such as "The Lighthouse Family", "The Past in the North", "Zhaojun Out of the Jam", "The Orient", "The Chronicle of The Grain Grabber", "The Savior", "The Little Woman Under the Gate of Zhengyang", "Crossing the Yalu River" and so on, he conquered the audience with wonderful performances.
Ma Shihong is tall and fit, with a tough temperament, and has been praised by the audience as a "tough guy professional" because she starred in many anti-war dramas such as "Decisive Battle", "Sharp Gun", "Yaoshan Bandit" and so on.
Ma Shihong's acting skills are sophisticated, and the roles she portrays on the screen are diverse, real and vivid, and she has always had a high popularity among the audience.
Ma Shihong
Ma Shihong's wife, Yu Lihong, is also an actress, and her fame seems to be greater than That of Ma Shihong.
Whether it is in the TV series "Holy Water Lakeside" starring Gao Xiumin, or in the series of dramas such as "Xilian", "The Day of Love", "Dachang Town", "Lighthouse Family", "Women's Village", "Women's Officials", "Mountain Village with Flowers" and so on, Yu Lihong has dedicated wonderful acting skills, one person and a thousand faces, she will shape each role just right.
Yu Lihong and Ma Shihong are lovers who came out of the campus, two diaries witnessed the romantic love between them, and after marriage, the two worked together for their careers, from unknown actors to become well-known actors, occupying a place in the film and television circle.
Ma Shihong Yu Lihong stills
Yu Lihong and Ma Shihong are each other's first love, their love is enviable, husband and wife support each other, and their fame is even more admirable. It's just that behind this scenery, they also have unknown heartache and regrets...
01 Diary
Yu Lihong, stage name Yu Yixuan, was born in February 1969 in Fengrun, Tangshan, Hebei Province.
Yu Lihong was young in terms of artistic performance, gifted, singing and dancing, saying that she was not shy nor afraid to laugh, she liked to stand on the stage to perform, after the performance, the applause under the stage was her happiest moment.
Such Yu Lihong is destined to have an indissoluble relationship with performance, plus she herself has a clear goal and knows which way she wants to take, so after graduating from middle school, she was admitted to heilongjiang provincial art school.
Young Yu Lihong
Stepping into the art school, Yu Lihong knew that she was one step closer to the dream in her heart, which would be the starting point of her artistic career, and what she did not expect was that here she also met the love of her life.
She wrote two whole diaries for him, and in support of his dream, she agreed to postpone the marriage and was willing to work to earn money to make his dream come true.
This person is Ma Shihong, who was born in Hegang City, Heilongjiang Province, although he is one year younger than Yu Lihong, but he is very mature and looks older than Yu Lihong.
But this is not tight, Ma Shihong is versatile, not only can sing and dance, but also play the piano, he is the class leader, delicate and mature and stable, attracting the attention of many girls in the class, including Yu Lihong.
Stills of Ma Shihong's "Crossing the Yalu River"
Of course, Yu Lihong not only looks beautiful and beautiful, but also falls generously, and Ma Shihong also greatly appreciates her like this.
Coupled with being the top students in the class, they are both deeply loved by the teacher, often rehearsing together and there will be physical contact, it is difficult not to be moved by each other, but because the school explicitly prohibits falling in love, so they try to avoid, in addition to rehearsal time, daily they try not to contact and do not speak.
Yu Lihong wrote all her liking for Ma Shihong into a diary, two whole books, full of everything about him, just like Chen Huilin sang in "Notepad": "Open the notepad you carry, write that many things are about you..."
There are many things in the diary that even Ma Shihong herself can't remember clearly, Yu Lihong clearly remembers, including his daily routine, and her liking for him has penetrated deep into the marrow.
Young Ma Shihong yu Lihong
Of course, Ma Shihong's heart has always been loaded with Yu Lihong, although he is not as careful as her, using a diary to record every bit of his liking for her, but just after acting in the graduation drama, he can't wait to confess to her.
Because they graduated and were free, they could finally fall in love with honor.
At that time, their graduation work was "A Little Citizen Drunk with Nobility", Ma Shihong played the male number one, Yu Lihong played the female number one, and the performance of the two was unprecedentedly successful.
Off the stage, after removing makeup, Ma Shihong pulled Yu Lihong to the piano room, played a song "My Sun" for her, Yu Lihong watched him play seriously, was deeply attracted by the handsome him, a song was played, Ma Shihong was like Yu Lihong confessed.
Ma Shihong yu Lihong
For Ma Shihong, Yu Lihong is like his sun, which has always warmed him, and they confessed their hearts to each other.
When she graduated, Ma Shihong gave Yu Lihong a dress, and Yu Lihong also had a gift for him, a diary she wrote, two whole books, blue-skinned.
Ma Shihong began to read from nine o'clock that night, and read until noon the next day, which recorded all the bits and pieces of his two and a half years, Ma Shihong was touched by Yu Lihong's fiery love, and it turned out that she liked herself as much as she liked her.
Years later, when it came to this scene, he couldn't help but throb in his heart, these two diaries he had always carried with him, no matter how far away they were, how many times they moved home, he always carried them with him, because they were witnesses of their love and deserved to be cherished.
02 Complete
Good love, two-way rush.
After graduating from the provincial art school, Yu Lihong and Ma Shihong were assigned to work in the Harbin Drama Theatre, and they changed from lovers to colleagues.
See the saying: "The meaning of two people together is to encourage and support each other, nourish and grow each other, and give each other energy." ”
Yu Lihong and Ma Shihong are like this, on the drama stage, they support and encourage each other as they did in school, and with their efforts and strength, they have both become the backbone actors in the troupe.
Successful careers, stable feelings, this pair of lovers who have changed from classmates to lovers and lovers to colleagues have also reached the age of talking about marriage.
Yu Lihong took Ma Shihong home to see her parents, Ma Shihong was questioned by Yu Lihong's grandmother because of her old looks, she secretly pulled her granddaughter aside and asked: "Xiaohong, is Ma Shihong the first love?" Is he married? ”
Yu Lihong cried and laughed: "I don't know if he is the first love, but he has not been married, it is my art school classmate" She also jokingly said to her grandmother: "You can check the household registration." ”
After some inquiry and getting along, Grandma was relieved to hand over Lihong to Ma Shihong, who was a reliable child.
In the early years, Yu Lihong Ma Shihong
Ma Shihong's parents are also extremely satisfied with this future daughter-in-law, and when they are old, they hope that they can get married and have children and set up a warm little family.
Yu Lihong also planned so, seeing that both of them had become the best in the unit, and the age had arrived, she also thought that each other could settle down, but Ma Shihong had ambitions, he wanted to go out of the three eastern provinces, he wanted to go to a bigger stage.
So he discussed with Yu Lihong that he wanted to go to The Chinese opera for further study, Yu Lihong listened to his thoughts, although there was some loss in her heart, but she could understand, she understood his pursuit.
As a girlfriend, she felt that true love should be fulfilled, and she said to Ma Shihong: "You go, take the opportunity, go to the exam, all the costs are borne by me, I believe you." ”
Stills of Ma Shihong
With the support and understanding of his girlfriend, Ma Shihong let go of himself to the ideal, he vowed not to live up to himself and would not let Yu Lihong down, so he worked while preparing, in 1997, he was successfully admitted to the college class of Chinese opera acting.
Ma Shihong in the past few years of studying in Chinese opera, all the expenses are Borne by Yu Lihong, with her salary to support two people, Yu Lihong is very frugal, in order to subsidize the family, there are suitable film and television drama roles she will also take over.
In 2000, Ma Shihong graduated from Chinese opera and became a member of the China Railway Literary and Labor Troupe, in order to gain a firm foothold in Beijing as soon as possible.
Ma Shihong is very hard, he acted in dramas, while taking over a large number of film and television dramas, regardless of the size of the role, he is seriously shaping, a little bit he began to have a small reputation in the circle.
03 Starting a family
Of course, Ma Shihong is a man with affection and responsibility, he does not forget that he can complete his dreams, and it is Yu Lihong's fulfillment.
He knew that she had been waiting for him for too many years, and the first thing he did after he finished his studies was to give the other party an explanation, so the love affair of many years had finally come to fruition.
However, because one is in Beijing and the other is in Harbin, the husband and wife are separated after two marriages, it is inconvenient in all aspects, and they cannot take care of each other in life, but the hardships of the previous years have been carried over.
This time, in order to reunite the husband and wife as soon as possible, they had a common goal, and they both worked hard to find a home in Beijing, and they all worked hard to take on the scenes and film in those years.
Couple stills
In order to have more time with each other, the couple also tried to get into the same crew as much as possible, but because they were very low-key, and they also tried to keep their distance when they were in the crew, focusing on shaping the characters, almost no one knew that they were husband and wife.
Kung Fu pays off, and through hard work and understanding and shaping of the role, both husband and wife have gained some fame in the circle.
Yu Lihong has gained a lot of attention for successfully portraying the role of "Ma Yanhua" in the TV series "Holy Water Lakeside" starring Gao Xiumin.
After that, she participated in dozens of film and television dramas such as "Zhaojun Out of the Plug", "Shanghai King", "Village Assembly", "Women's Village", "Xu Mao and His Daughters", "Women as Officials" and so on, and Yu Lihong's fame became more and more popular.
Yu Lihong, Yan Xuejing, Zhang Dajing stills of "Women as Officials"
With hard work, Yu Lihong and Ma Shihong broke out of their own sky in Beijing, and they finally really have a home of their own in Beijing.
Just a flash of time, Yu Lihong is thirty-six years old, married for so many years, they only care about the career, did not put the birth of life on the agenda, until the parents of both sides began to give birth.
But at this time is the rising period of their careers, the couple want to rush again, wait until the acting career is more stable, after reaching a certain height, they can also provide better conditions for the baby, so it is delayed again and again.
Their careers are getting better and better, and the fame of the couple is getting louder and louder in the country, but the years are getting old, this is almost ten years, they have reached middle age, and it is not easy to conceive a baby again.
However, they all have the mentality of expectation, and Yu Lihong also reduces work, adjusts her body, and prepares for the baby.
But because of their age, coupled with the extremely irregular schedule of filming for many years, they have become particularly difficult on the road of seeking children.
Now Yu Lihong is 53 years old, although they still have regrets, but they have no regrets.
What choices they make have to bear what consequences, their feelings have not weakened because of the difficulty of seeking a son, for them if in the end they still have no chance to enjoy the joy of the world, dedicate their lives to their favorite acting careers, a lifetime of a couple is also a happy thing.
Yu Lihong's relationship with Ma Shihong is pure.
From the campus to the wedding dress, classmates to lovers, colleagues to husband and wife, they go in both directions, complete each other, in the long river of years of love and love for more than thirty years, to each other do not abandon people moved.
But it is a pity that they missed the best time to conceive a baby because of their career struggles, which is also a reminder for couples who do not plan to spend their lives in Dink.
However, people's life is a process of continuous choice, whether it is love, marriage, or having children is just a choice, as long as they can be responsible for their own choices, bear the corresponding consequences, meaningless right and wrong.
Life is like a chess piece, and there is no regret in falling.
There is never the best choice, every choice will have shortcomings, only the choice you make is what you really think in your heart, may you have the courage and the ability to choose, and live the life you want.
Wen ‖ one by one
Image source network, if infringement please contact to delete, thank you.