With the development of society, people's living standards have gradually improved, and some families with good economic conditions will ask live-in nannies to share the housework.
But the nanny is an outsider after all, and some families do not trust the nanny very much, and are always wary of the nanny.
As a live-in nanny, Li Yuxiu is always on the watch of her employer.
The employer monitored her every move, installed cameras in her bedroom and even in the bathroom, and slept and showered by the employer.
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Li Yuxiu, who comes from the countryside, is in her 40s, and her son is very competitive and has been admitted to a key university, which makes her feel that her face has light.
But her son's college tuition and monthly living expenses are not a small burden for her. In order to provide for her son's college, she decided to go to the city to work as a live-in nanny.
After being introduced by his fellow villagers, Li Yuxiu came to Mr. Gao's house.
The Gao family consists of four people, Mr. and Mrs. Gao and his son Pengpeng, as well as Mr. Gao's mother.
Mr. Gao is a successful person, a figure with a head and a face in the local area, and his home is very luxuriously decorated.
Mr. Gao explained the cleaning requirements to Li Yuxiu, but reminded her that the study could not be entered, and there were important documents in it, so she did not need to go in to clean.
Li Yuxiu cleans and cooks at Gao's house every day, and helps with the children at other times.
Although it is not easy to serve this family every day, for Li Yuxiu, who is accustomed to hard-working and hard-working, it is not a big deal to earn money for his son to go to college.
On this day, after a busy day's work, Li Yuxiu went to the bathroom to take a shower.
Li Yuxiu took a bath and just came out of the bathroom, Mr. Gao's wife said to her: Our family's bath liquid is quite expensive, anyway, you have to take a bath every day, there is no need to use so much.
Li Yuxiu agreed with her lips, but her heart was full of doubts: How much bath liquid did I use, and how did she know?
Back in his bedroom, Li Yuxiu lay on the bed watching TV while eating potato chips.
After a while, the tall old lady pushed the door in and said to her: Don't eat small food in bed, see the crumbs you fell on the ground, and quickly clean up.
When Li Yuxiu was cleaning the room, he saw a beautiful jewelry box. Driven by curiosity, she opened the jewelry box and looked at it, trying on a bracelet.
That night, mrs. Gao came home and asked Li Yuxiu if she had moved the jewelry box, and warned her: Don't touch the things that should not be touched, those jewels are very valuable, what to do if they are broken.
Li Yuxiu felt strange, the employer seemed to have a pair of invisible eyes, staring at himself all the time. Use more body soap, the employer knows; eat a snack in your bedroom, the employer knows; look at the jewelry box, the employer also knows. She was troubled by this.
But she did not expect that what happened afterwards made it even more difficult for her to accept.
Once, Li Yuxiu counted money in his bedroom. Her son wanted a computer, and she wanted to count the money she had.
At this time, Mrs. Gao came in and said to her: The salary that my family offers you is the whole money, why do you have so much change.
Li Yuxiu explained to her: These are the money I used to earn by hand.
Mrs. Gao offered to talk to her about the purchase of vegetables for several months.
Li Yuxiu took out the ledger, and after the two people posted the account one by one, Mrs. Gao did not find any mistakes, which was satisfactory.
One day at noon, when Li Yuxiu washed his clothes, he forgot to take out the 500 yuan in his pocket. She put the soaked money on the couch to dry and put it away.
This scene did not escape the eyes of the employer, and that night Mr. Gao and his mother reprimanded Li Yuxiu for being a petty thief and asking her to take out the money.
Mr. Gao said that when he saw his wife calling on the sofa in the morning, it must have been his wife's money that fell on the sofa and was picked up by Li Yuxiu.
Li Yuxiu argued that the 500 yuan was his own money, which was wet when washing clothes, and put it on the sofa to dry and then put it away.
Mr. Gao then called his wife, who said she had not lost money. After clarifying the situation, Mr. Gao knew that he had wronged Li Yuxiu and apologized to her.
Working as a nanny in a rich family, the employer is not good at serving, even if he suspects that he is stealing money, where Li Yuxiu has suffered such grievances, tears can't help but fall.
But in order to earn money for her son's college, she chose to continue to tolerate it.
During the "May Day" holiday, my son came to visit Li Yuxiu and lived in a classmate.
After asking his employer for leave, Li Yuxiu took his son to play for two days and took him to Gao's house to see. Mrs. Gao was ostensibly enthusiastic about Li Yuxiu's son and took him around the house.
Li Yuxiu encouraged his son: study hard, make a lot of money like Uncle Gao in the future, and then we will live in such a big house.
Seeing the magnificent decoration of the Gao family, Li Yuxiu's son wanted to take a photo as a souvenir.
Mrs. Gao did not object, and the three of them took a group photo and took several photos at the Gao family.
In the process of taking pictures, Li Yuxiu's son found a camera on the ceiling of the room.
On the way li Yuxiu sent her son to a classmate, his son told her about the camera found in Gao's house.
Li Yuxiu suddenly realized that it was no wonder that they knew every move in the Gao family, and they even knew how much bath liquid they used when they took a bath.
The Gao family installed a camera in the living room, even their own bedroom and bathroom, Li Yuxiu felt that this was too much, and he must ask the Gao family for an explanation.
After Li Yuxiu returned to Gao's home, in the face of her questioning, Mrs. Gao did not admit that she had installed a camera at home, saying that it was a fire extinguisher and was used to extinguish the fire.
Mr. Gao also said: My mother's room also has this thing, we can't always monitor my mother's life, you think about it more.
As for the Gao family's statement, Li Yuxiu was suspicious and had to give up for the time being.
In the past, Pengpeng was playing with the ball in the room and accidentally knocked over the shelf in the study. Li Yuxiu hurried over to clean up, and she accidentally saw that the computer screen in the study was playing the surveillance footage of the home.
Li Yuxiu confirmed this time that the Gao family had installed a camera in the room.
Li Yuxiu looked for Mrs. Gao to theorize, but she said: What is there to explain, my family spent millions of dollars to buy a house, I install cameras in my own home, what is the matter with you. You are a country woman, you can't read a few big characters, you still pick my faults, what is afraid to see, do not want to do it and leave, don't be ignorant of good villains.
Li Yuxiu felt that she was a rural woman, without culture, and it was not easy to find a job. She only asked the Gao family to apologize to herself and dismantled the cameras in her bedroom and bathroom, and she did not pursue it. She needs the job to earn money for her son's college.
But Mrs. Gao's attitude was arrogant, and she decided to go to Mr. Gao for an explanation.
But Mr. Gao said: According to the contract, you are not allowed to enter my study. Your act of sneaking into the study is to spy on my privacy. I just don't want to pursue it, otherwise you will be legally responsible. You pack your things and go right away.
Before the explanation arrived, the Gao family also dismissed Li Yuxiu and deducted her salary for the month.
Violated by the employer's privacy, and dismissed, reasoning and not being able to say others. Li Yuxiu felt very humiliated, and he held his breath in his heart, and he must let the Gao family apologize to himself!
After the son returned to school, he called Li Yuxiu, heard her crying on the phone, worried that something had happened to her, and rushed back.
Li Yuxiu and his son approached the neighborhood committee and hoped that the neighborhood committee would mediate from it.
After going to the Gao family to coordinate, the director of the neighborhood committee told Li Yuxiu to help her get her deducted wages back, but the Gao family refused to apologize to Li Yuxiu.
The son told Li Yuxiu that the Gao family's behavior was illegal and could be called to the police.
When the police went to Gao's house to investigate, they found that there were no cameras in various rooms of the Gao family, and the walls had been repainted, and even the traces of the camera could not be found.
The evidence was gone, and Li Yuxiu felt that there was no way to come out of this tone. She asked her son to go back to class, and she asked her fellow villagers to find another family to work as a nanny.
Li Yuxiu couldn't imagine that things would turn around again.
A few days later, Li Yuxiu's son came over again.
He said that in the photos he took last time he went to Gao's house, he could see Gao Jia'an's camera. Li Yuxiu and her son went to consult a lawyer.
The lawyer said that judging from the date shown in the photo, the Gao family did install a camera in the room during Li Yuxiu's nanny, and it was also installed in Li Yuxiu's bedroom. These photos can be used as evidence, enough to make the Gao family apologize to Li Yuxiu.
With the evidence, Li Yuxiu was a little soft-hearted again, living in the Gao family for so long, really fighting with them, Li Yuxiu felt that yu was unbearable, and she once again wanted to mediate through the neighborhood committee.
The director of the neighborhood committee went to the Gao family again, and when he returned, he told Li Yuxiu that the Gao family admitted that he was wrong, and took out 5,000 yuan as compensation, so that Li Yuxiu would not find anyone to sue.
Li Yuxiu asked: Why didn't the Gao family come forward on their own?
The director of the neighborhood committee said: After all, this is a faceless thing, and the Gao family can also be regarded as a figure with a head and a face in the local area.
Li Yuxiu was very angry: They want face, I don't want face? I don't want this money, I want dignity. The Gao family improperly apologized to me, and I will fight the lawsuit!
Faced with evidence, Mr. Gao agreed to settle out of court.
After signing on the spot, Mr. Gao bowed to Li Yuxiu and apologized: Sister Li, I really shouldn't hurt you. This little money is considered to be compensation for you. Sorry, I was wrong, please forgive our family.
In the face of the facts, Mr. Gao had to bow his head and apologize to Li Yuxiu.
Li Yuxiu let out a long breath.
Cortana has something to say:
Some lawyers said: The right to privacy is a personality right that reflects the tranquility of private life enjoyed by natural persons and the secrets of private information are protected according to law and are not illegally invaded, known, collected, used and disclosed by others.
The gao family's behavior has constituted an infringement on Li Yuxiu's personal privacy, and thus caused Li Yuxiu a strong sense of humiliation and mental pain, and the Gao family should apologize to Li Yuxiu, eliminate the impact, and compensate for certain mental loss fees.
Li Yuxiu is an honest nanny, and she only wants an apology in the face of gao's family's invasion of her privacy.
But the arrogance and rudeness of the Gao family forced her step by step to take up the weapon of the law and maintain her dignity.
Although Li Yuxiu is only a nanny, her legitimate rights and interests will not be inferior because she is a nanny who serves people.
I hope that the Gao family can truly understand that having money and status does not mean that they can do whatever they want, even in order to ensure the safety of their own property, they cannot trample on the privacy and dignity of others at will.
(The material comes from the legal column of the TV station, and the characters in the text are pseudonyms)