#Fantastic Knowledge Season #Recently a girl named Zhu Zhu was on the hot search.
The reason for the incident is this, she published a graduation vlog of Oxford University on Weibo, this girl "went to college at the age of 16, earned millions of dollars at the age of 20, studied for a doctorate at the age of 26, and graduated from Oxford graduate school" by netizens one after another.
Some netizens said that "the background is blurred into this is afraid of their own p-graph technology is not GOOD?" ”。
In order to ridicule her for giving her a problem, the subtext is that he does not believe that she can do it.
Unexpectedly, she easily made it, and also gave her own solution ideas, Zhu Zhu used the eigenvalue method to solve the non-unique solution, and also pointed out that his problem scope did not say whether it was a continuous problem defect.
How does this feel about Zhu Zhu?
It's like you graduated from college, and someone asks you what the next sentence is.
Math Big V finally admitted her ability, but other netizens still did not recognize the account, the academic qualifications were questioned after the scholarship, and the scholarship was followed by the questioning of "there is a team behind her", trying to make her fall into unlimited self-proof.
Based on subjective speculation and lack of factual basis, it is concluded that the "mathematical modeling department" she studied is a fabricated department; just because she does not like her JK "painting style", she asserts that it is a micro-business with goods and identity fraud.
This session of netizens will really be empty talk x.
The thing that can be easily verified on the official website is that they just close their eyes and don't admit it.
Screenshot of the official website of The University of Oxford
After the academic qualifications were clarified to be true, netizens who could not attack began to belittle her appearance again... A young and excellent young man, but repeatedly questioned and badly criticized, is it so difficult to admit that others are excellent?
Xiaotian feels that this stems from the stereotype of the big environment: they have not seen such a person in their lives, which does not mean that there is no such person in the world.
The sense of superiority in sitting in the well makes them not believe that there are many possibilities in the world; diode thinking makes them irritable and irritable, thinking that things are not black and white; and taking the initiative to wrap themselves in an information cocoon, making them firmly believe that there is only one set of operating logic in the world.
Seeing girls who coexist in beauty and IQ, just because the "beauty style" does not meet their expectations of "scholars", is it blinded by the bad environment in which they live, or is it challenged by self-esteem?
First, the female figures who break stereotypes
Zhu Zhu has the ability to earn millions of dollars a year, and boldly admits that he is "loving fashion, loving designer bags, and loving beauty, but his favorite is still mathematics." "No problem, it's really good."
Someone said, "This false scholar who worships gold does not look like a scholar at all." ”
Does a scholar have to look like a scholar? Why must it be rigid, sacrificing personal preferences and advantages? And not vivid individuals?
Unfortunately, no matter how good a woman's abilities are, the stereotype of appearance can veto all her abilities with one vote.
Can't help but remind Xiaotian of an American drama section: Anna in "Fictional Anna" is a very beautiful white girl.
But with great ideas, she was rejected by the big guy for the business plan, and in anger, she dyed her beautiful blonde hair brown and wore black-rimmed glasses in order to negotiate a cooperation with the business boss. Because everyone's stereotype is "blonde with big breasts and no brains", after dyeing her hair, she successfully negotiated cooperation.
Ps. The plot is adapted from a live-action, not a play
Is this good or bad? There is no doubt that she is personally intelligent, but the environment with female stereotypes is sad.
We know the beauty of the sexy goddess Monroe, but few people pay attention to her private love of reading, and many reading photos even overshadow her sexy elegance.
Even if this is an advantage, she can't take the initiative to show it, because in the eyes of everyone, stupid beauties are more popular than brainy beauties, because they are better controlled.
In the same way, Zhu Zhu dared to show beauty and wealth, but he was questioned, because everyone had "domesticated" requirements for "scholars": you are required to be pure-hearted, and it is best to be honest.
Therefore, the beauty who dares to show her mind and reason still has a vague "unpopularity" in today's society.
It's not that women aren't strong, it's that they're not allowed to be strong.
It's not that there are no outstanding women in history, it's just that many of them are "invisible".
Yang Zhenning and Lee Jung-do's "Cosmic Non-Conservation" won the Nobel Prize in Physics, but one key experimental physicist, Wu Jianxiong, was missing from the list. She did not respond at the time, knowing that she only spoke out in 1988:
"Even though I've never done research to win an award, it hurts me deeply when my work is overlooked for some reason."
Nobel laureate Tu Youyou, the reputation was also added later.
Zhang Boli, an academician of the Chinese Academy of Engineering, once told such a joke: "If it were not for the investigation of foreign experts, I am afraid that no one would ever know that artemisinin was invented by Tu Youyou." ”
Tu Youyou, who was once invisible
In the book Inferior: What Science Has Done Wrong about Women, there are many stories of female scientists.
Source: The Death of the Loss of Female Scientists Author: Brain Polar Body
Why are men afraid that women will be more successful than they are? Because society thinks that men should be strong, but when he is not actually strong, he is more afraid of others being strong. Men's jealousy of women also puts more pressure on men that they shouldn't have. It is the product of unhealthy social values as a whole.
Second, adhere to the right values, will not be easily affected
1. Find your own strengths and love
Zhu Zhu in the interview with youth TALK, the values made Xiaotian very worthy of approval, and the content was really like talking with friends:
She said that when she was a child, she was naughty and absent from class, and sometimes she was ostracized and bullied by her classmates. She went to write a letter to the principal, who told her mother, "How can this little child treat the campus like a vegetable garden, three days of fishing, two days of drying nets." "There was no discussion of her being bullied in school.
Her mother felt that this was not the education she wanted.
Her parents put her off from school at home to help her with her homework. 2 years of home study and 6 years of course completion. Once, as a doctor, her father told her a "Lagrange median theorem", she was shocked at the time, although she did not understand, but this time she felt the beauty of mathematics.
She said, "There is a saying that wealth is a 0, beauty is a 0, family is a 0, but you have to find that 1, is 111 million, I think the 1 in my life is mathematics, with mathematics behind these things are meaningful." 」 ”
Her point is: "When a woman is expressing her achievements, I hope that people can put aside her looks, clothing and identity, and simply from the perspective of their achievements, even if you are kind, you can not say ' especially a girl is really good'"
"There can be a sense of empathy from a large pattern, rather than paying attention to his appearance, clothing, and style, and questioning this person's achievements through these."
Xiao Tian also saw in an article that Gu Ailing did not like that others always called her "beautiful", she preferred others to appreciate her because of wisdom and ability, and beauty was only a plus.
For the questioning on the Internet, Zhu Zhu believes that "whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as he says that he has done something or achieved something, you can not like him and do not pay attention to him, but do not humiliate or hunt witches." ”
The values are very positive.
2. Learn to reject self-proof with ill intentions
Women, learn to reject malicious self-proof, because the starting point of the questioner is not fair dialogue, they are only responsible for drawing question marks, and you can only passively prove it yourself. Their purpose is not to talk at all, but to constantly allow their prejudices to be self-consistent.
For example, if Zhu Zhu is asked to do mathematical problems to prove her academic qualifications, if she does it right or not, it cannot prove her Oxford education, and this logic does not exist.
Another example is "what is the use of the Chinese women's football team playing well, it is not the same as not marrying out", which is also a ridiculous view in itself. Proving female worth by conforming to male aesthetics is inherently wrong.
Facing up to and eliminating gender stigma requires the joint efforts of men and women in society.
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The predecessors are constantly working hard, and women's efforts are invisible and smoothed out again and again, and then "return to zero".
Perhaps there is only one way to solve the problem, that is, do not give up lightly!